Listening to Zhang Lin's words, Qiao Liang couldn't help but nod, "Yes, I understand."
Zhang Lin continued, "When the question raised by the other party is an irrefutable fact that cannot be refuted or escaped, you can use the topic provided by the other party to state your opinion from a different angle, thereby highlighting your own advantages and attacking the opponent's
Weaknesses, and ultimately defeat the opponent.
The essence of the means of borrowing events to build momentum is to move back to attack, not to attack the city, and to press frontally. When using the method of borrowing events to build momentum, you must first pay attention to the skill of borrowing topics, and use them at your fingertips without the suspicion of being pretentious or mystifying. The topic you borrow must be related to the topic of discussion.
connect
, so that there is room for development in the process of development. The borrowed question has no connection with the theme and is tied together. If the ability to exert it cannot be used, the purpose cannot be achieved. Secondly, pay attention to the use of the question well, and the borrowed question contains
The principles must be clearly and fully explained.”
"Well, Sister Lin, what you said is great." Qiao Liang nodded vigorously, and then asked, "Sister Lin, what should I do if I am in a position of being attacked?"
Zhang Lin pondered for a moment, "When you are in a position of being attacked, you can also use the arguments provided by the other party's topic to fight back with doubled strength. Another example: Once, Durov, a famous circus quintessential actor in the polar bear country, was
While watching the performance, during the intermission, an arrogant audience member walked up to him and asked sarcastically: "Harlequin, sir?"
Sir, the audience welcomes you very much, right? As a clown in the circus, do you have to have a stupid and ugly face to be popular with the audience? Durov replied leisurely: Indeed. If I
If I could have a face like yours, sir, I would definitely get a double salary! This audience member asked for trouble and walked away in despair."
Hearing this, Qiao Liang couldn't help but laugh.
Zhang Lin continued, "The technique of borrowing events to build momentum is not only simple and powerful, but also lively and lively. If used properly, it can often produce a powerful effect. There are many successful examples of borrowing events to build momentum in ancient and modern times at home and abroad."
Qiao Liang nodded, "Sister Lin, how do you use "taking advantage of events to build momentum to achieve your goals in reality?"
Zhang Lin said, "The development and changes of things are the result of the joint action of many factors, and the active role of people cannot be ignored. Organizations under certain conditions can suppress adverse trends and create favorable trends. The two armies of Yuan and Cao faced off in Guandu. Due to the lack of food and grass,
Subsequently, the situation became more and more unfavorable for Cao, but Cao attacked Wuchao and set a fire, which reversed the situation. This move created a favorable trend in Cao's favor. Wuchao's food was reduced to ashes, and Yuan Shao's army was shaken.
, lost combat effectiveness and was defeated by Cao in one fell swoop.
Advertising, high-quality services, neon lights, speakers, etc. in daily life all have the effect of creating a trend. People often see this scene: a group of people gather around a hawker in the corner of the city to snap up the goods he is selling, attracting passers-by.
Join the crowd of people rushing to buy. Anyone with a discerning eye can tell at a glance that the group of people are in the same group as the traders. Their purpose of snapping up the goods is to make passers-by have a psychological effect that the items are popular or cheap, creating a situation that is conducive to this kind of business.
In the old society, some businessmen relied on their monopoly on the supply of certain commodities to hoard them, which was also a trend. Of course, these methods are not advisable in competition within the system. However, if we use ethical means to
Building momentum is still worthy of attention. Sun Tzu said: Those who are good at fighting people's momentum are like turning boulders on the mountain of Qianchu. Momentum is also a force. This very vividly illustrates the great significance and role of recognizing momentum, responding to momentum, and building momentum in life's struggle.
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After listening to Zhang Lin's words, Qiao Liang couldn't help but suddenly enlightened, and looked at Zhang Lin with admiration, "Sister Lin, you are really thoughtful and connotative. Compared with you, there is indeed a big gap between me."
Zhang Lin looked at Qiao Liang with tender eyes, "Brother Qiao, experience determines experience, and experience shapes thoughts. Although your experience is not deep enough now, you are very persistent in doing things, can endure hardship, and are good at learning and summarizing. The most important thing is Yes, your character and personality are excellent, which determines that you will definitely make great progress in the future. One day, you will surpass me in all aspects and become an excellent leading cadre within the system."
Qiao Liang smiled, "Sister Lin, you have high expectations for me."
"Yes." Zhang Lin nodded, "I am very optimistic about you. I hope I can always watch you, watch your growth, watch your progress, watch you reach the peak of your career, even...even One day I won’t be able to see you in the real world, but in another world, I will pray for you silently..."
Qiao Liang was startled, "Sister Lin, why do you say that? What other world..."
Zhang Lin didn't speak, just smiled slightly. In the night, Qiao Liang felt that Zhang Lin's smile was a little sad and desolate.
Then, Zhang Lin's figure suddenly began to blur away and quickly disappeared into the night.
"Sister Lin..." Qiao Liang felt terrified and wanted to reach out to grab Zhang Lin, but couldn't reach him. He wanted to raise his feet to catch up with Zhang Lin, but couldn't move forward.
Qiao Liang was very anxious. She tried her best to lift her feet, but she still couldn't lift them. She couldn't help shouting, "Sister Lin, don't go, wait for me..."
With this shout, Qiao Liang suddenly woke up from his dream, sweating profusely.
Qiao Liang opened his eyes wide in the darkness. It was pitch black and he couldn't see anything.
Qiao Liang reached out and turned on the bedside lamp, took a deep breath, and then realized that she had just been asleep.
Qiao Liang savored Zhang Lin's talk with him in the dream to build momentum. He vaguely felt that he had heard what she said before. After thinking about it carefully, this was what Zhang Lin had told him when he and she were walking by the river. It happened, but I had not yet become the county magistrate at that time.
It turned out that I was dreaming about my old scene with Zhang Lin.
Thinking of Zhang Lin suddenly disappearing in his dream, thinking that Zhang Lin was already in heaven, Qiao Liang couldn't help but burst into sadness. In this silent night, he missed Zhang Lin very much, and missed every scene he had with Zhang Lin.
In this kind of sadness and longing, Qiao Liang's heart is ups and downs...
Dear Sister Lin, dear woman, are you okay in heaven? Qiao Liang called silently in her heart.
Unknowingly, two lines of tears fell from Qiao Liang's face...
That night, because of this dream, Qiao Liang felt depressed and took a long time to fall asleep again.
The next day, because it was the weekend, Qiao Liang had no work plans today, so he arrived at the office later than usual. Originally, Qiao Liang could rest, but he was used to being busy, and he was not used to taking time off.
After being busy in the office for a while, Qiao Liang wondered if he would go to the city to stay. Lu Qian kept asking him to go shopping with her, but Qiao Liang was too busy with work to avoid it, causing Lu Qian to scold him all the time. He has no conscience.
However, Qiao Liang knew that Lu Qian sometimes just talked about it, and when he actually went there, Lu Qian might not be available. The other party served as the executive deputy director of the municipal bureau and often followed up on some cases personally, sometimes even more than he did. busy.
While Qiao Liang was busy in the office, Xu Chan, who had just woken up, was dressing herself up in the dormitory. Today was the weekend. Qiao Liang had no special arrangements, so Xu Chan didn't have to go to work, so Xu Chan made a special appointment with a friend.
, planning to go shopping in the city.
While putting on makeup, Xu Chan stared at the phone on the dressing table, as if waiting for some important information.
The phone vibrated. When a message came in, Xu Chan looked a little excited. She couldn't wait to pick up the phone and read it. After seeing the message, Xu Chan showed a happy look on her face. The message was sent by Su Huaxin. When she went to bed last night, she
She sent a message to Su Huaxin, but Su Huaxin didn't reply. When she got up in the morning, she sent Su Huaxin good morning again. Su Huaxin responded to the message and took the initiative to explain that he fell asleep because he drank too much last night and didn't see her.
information.
Su Huaxin took the initiative to explain to her that the meaning to Xu Chan was naturally different, which meant that Su Huaxin took her at ease.
In the past two or three days, Xu Chan began to exchange text messages with Su Huaxin. From morning to night, she would greet Su Huaxin, and Su Huaxin would reply to him, and at the same time, he would not forget to care about her, which made Xu Chan feel particularly sad.
Excited, if she wasn't worried that Su Huaxin would look down on her if she was too proactive and thought she was too casual, Xu Chan would have even wanted to use this weekend
She went to the provincial capital alone to find Su Huaxin. But Xu Chan restrained herself in the end. She knew the psychology of men well. Rather than being too proactive, she would rather play hard to get. Of course, she must grasp the degree of control in this. For Su Huaxin's level
For a leader, if you play hard-to-get with him, it's easy to lose. So while Xu Chan took the initiative, she always had a good control over her temperament.
After reading Su Huaxin's message, Xu Chan thought for a moment and replied to Su Huaxin, caringly asking the other party to drink some honey water to relieve the hangover.
After sending the message, Xu Chan put down her phone happily, feeling a little better about shopping today.
After putting on makeup for more than half an hour, Xu Chan was about to go out when her cell phone rang. Xu Chan frowned when she saw the caller number. It was a call from one of her best friends who was in the county inspection department.
They are said to be best friends, but in fact the relationship between the two is not that great.
Because of Xu Chan's position, Xu Chan usually deliberately makes friends with and bribes people from other units and departments. Sometimes it is also convenient for her to do some personal things. The other party falls into this category of friends.
After answering the other party's call, Xu Chan put on a smile and said, "Xiaoyan, what's the matter?"
"Sister Xu, something happened..." On the other end of the phone, the other party's voice was a little nervous. He deliberately lowered his voice and whispered something to Xu Chan. Follow up, search for Xing Gong Zhong'an, by "Chu Luowan"
The first letter of Pinyin is composed of the numbers 000724. When Xu Chan heard the other party's words, her face that had been smiling just now suddenly turned pale, and she said in a trembling voice, "Are you sure you heard correctly?"
"No." The other party replied affirmatively.
"Okay, I...I understand, Xiaoyan, thank you." Xu Chan's voice stuttered, and she was speechless.
After hanging up the other party's phone, Xu Chan immediately called Miao Peilong. The phone rang for a long time and no one answered. Xu Chan was so anxious that she immediately took a taxi to Miao Peilong's villa in the suburbs.
