"Oh, what are the three major formulas?" Qiao Liang asked with great interest.
Wu Huiwen said, "First of all, spoiling others is equivalent to wronging ourselves. In many cases, we care too much about the feelings of others, so that we let others take advantage of them and make ourselves feel wronged. Kindness is never easy. Wrong kindness, It will only drag you down into hell. Helping others is a kind of kindness, but you don't need to wrong yourself to satisfy others; thinking about others is a kind of education, but you don't have to adapt again and again just to consider other people's feelings. A soft heart without boundaries, It's as if you are constantly delivering energy to others, and in the end you are exhausted. As a human being, remember that kindness and tolerance should be measured, and don't always use your own grievances to seek perfection and spoil everyone around you... "
Listening to Wu Huiwen's words, Qiao Liang was thoughtful.
Wu Huiwen continued, "Secondly, complaining about others is equivalent to torturing yourself. "Zeng Guofan's Family Letter" writes: Those who complain too much will be depressed later. In this life, people will inevitably encounter some ups and downs. Faced with these setbacks, some people Take it easy and laugh it off; there are also people who are impetuous and complain. A person who always complains is imprisoning himself in a circle of torture and cannot extricate himself. Always complaining is like a stuffy stove, which will fry his heart. Roasted red, all you get in return is endless torture. Complaining about others will often weave into a self-binding cocoon and bite back on yourself. Only by stopping complaining can you break out of the cocoon and fly to a broader world."
"Well, that makes sense." Qiao Liang couldn't help but nodded.
Wu Huiwen continued, "Again, helping others is equal to achieving yourself. Xiong Hao once said in "Qi Pa Shuo": "The shimmer will attract the shimmer, the shimmer will illuminate the shimmer, and then shine together. This kind of light can make the squeezed The haze illuminates. In life, everyone is not an isolated island. Many times, the road you pave for others goes round and round, and in the end you achieve your own success. When you help others when they are at the end of their rope, you not only find happiness for others. In the beautiful scenery, I have also found my shining self. Only by building bridges on the road of life can we achieve each other's achievements; only by growing together can we achieve mutual benefit and win-win results. So I just said that altruism is the highest level of self-interest..."
Listening to Wu Huiwen's words, Qiao Liang suddenly felt enlightened. She couldn't help but feel that Wu Huiwen was not only intellectual, but also very thoughtful. It seemed that no man would dislike such a woman.
The two of them had been chatting for who knows how long. Wu Huiwen heard the beep of her phone, indicating that the battery was low. She took it to her and checked the time, only to realize that it was almost 11 o'clock. She smiled and said, "Xiao Qiao, I won't talk to you anymore. I have been talking to you for more than an hour and my cell phone has run out of battery. Tomorrow Secretary Zheng will go to Guanzhou for inspection, so I have to get up early and go to bed early at night."
"Secretary Zheng is going to Guanzhou tomorrow?" Qiao Liang was startled, feeling that this matter seemed a bit sudden.
Wu Huiwen said with a smile, "Yes, this time Secretary Zheng is coming down and will be inspecting Guanzhou for two days. I'm worried about being found out about the shortcomings in my work by Secretary Zheng."
"Sister Wu, Secretary Zheng is actually very easy to talk to, so you don't have to worry." Qiao Liang laughed.
Wu Huiwen smiled faintly. She was not really nervous. To be able to reach this position today, Wu Huiwen was also a experienced person. However, Zheng Guohong came down a little suddenly this time, and Wu Huiwen was a little confused.
Qiao Liang and Wu Huiwen chatted for a few more minutes before they hung up the phone.
After holding the phone and being lost in thought for a while, Qiao Liang still felt that the restlessness in her heart could not be calmed down. When she was sleeping, Qiao Liang had a dream. She dreamed that she and Wu Huiwen were in a dream. When she woke up early in the morning,
Qiao Liang thought about last night's dream, looked down at herself, and couldn't help but smile bitterly.
After taking a shower, Qiao Liang went downstairs to run along the street. He was now used to getting up early to exercise.
Qiao Liang's running route was along the streets in the main urban area of the county and surrounding the county compound. It would take about two or three kilometers to run in a circle like this.
Halfway through the run, Qiao Liang was slightly startled when he saw a woman walking out with a large suitcase from the neighborhood next to her. Isn't that Xu Chan?
Qiao Liang didn't expect to meet Xu Chan at this time, so he hesitated and took the initiative to step forward.
Xu Chan had been in Huangyuan, the provincial capital, for the past few days and just came back last night. She took Xu Honggang's car to Huangyuan a few days ago and simply packed a few clothes. She forgot to bring her personal passport, documents, etc. with her.
Chan came back yesterday mainly to pick up these things.
After leaving this time, Xu Chan didn't know when she would come back. Maybe she would never return to Songbei County again in her life. Maybe when she came back, no one would recognize her.
Xu Chan is ambitious after all. She cannot accept her own mediocrity. Similarly, she is not willing to leave the system completely, so Xu Chan still thinks of a way.
Xu Chan left this time to go abroad for plastic surgery. This was why she was so anxious to come back and get her passport. When she came back from plastic surgery, she would create a new fake file. Then, relying on Su Huaxin's connections, she could enter the province.
If she invests, then she can reach the position of a senior executive. As long as she becomes a senior executive in a provincial state-owned enterprise like Guangdong State Investment Corporation, she can use this as a springboard to enter the system again.
Of course, these are Xu Chan's own plans. Su Huaxin is not very supportive of Xu Chan's ideas, but Xu Chan is determined to do this.
Xu Chan knew very well about men's bad qualities. Only after she went for plastic surgery, she became more beautiful than before. I believe Su Huaxin would never be disgusted. Before she could reach the position of the county government office, Xu Chan used men as a ladder.
She is quite confident in her ability to confuse men, but this time, even though Su Huaxin did not agree with her idea, Xu Chan still decided to cut it off first and go abroad for plastic surgery.
To a certain extent, this can also show Xu Chan's decisiveness and determination in doing things. As long as he sets his sights on the goal, he will never look back even if he breaks through the south wall. As for the consequences, Xu Chan doesn't care, and if he doesn't do it,
, she may not be reconciled for a long time.
When Xu Chan was about to put her luggage in the back compartment of the car, she suddenly saw Qiao Liang walking over.
"County Magistrate Qiao." Xu Chan was stunned for a moment.
"Xu Chan, what are you..." Qiao Liang looked at Xu Chan and asked.
Xu Chan was in a daze when she heard Qiao Liang calling her name. Qiao Liang hadn't called her by her name for a long time. Before, she had always addressed her by her job title.
After a moment of silence, Xu Chan said, "County Magistrate Qiao, what a coincidence. I didn't expect to meet you before leaving Songbei."
"Where are we going?" Qiao Liang looked at the other party in confusion.
"Where else can we go? Of course we have to leave here and leave this sad place." Xu Chan looked at Qiao Liang and said with a little ridicule.
"Are you blaming me?" Qiao Liang heard the emotion in Xu Chan's words and asked.
"How dare I? I'm just an ordinary citizen now. How dare I blame you, County Magistrate Qiao?" Xu Chan pouted.
"Look, your words are full of dissatisfaction." Qiao Liang pretended to smile lightly, "Xu Chan, in fact, I have been trying to find a time to call you these days and ask you to come out and talk. "Although you no longer have a public position, with your ability, I believe you can do well in other industries."
"But that's not my pursuit." Xu Chan suddenly responded to Qiao Liang hysterically.
Qiao Liang didn't expect Xu Chan's reaction to be so severe. She was stunned for a moment. Xu Chan also realized that her reaction was a bit excessive and fell silent.
After a while, Xu Chan opened her mouth and said, "County Magistrate Qiao, I'm sorry."
"Nothing." Qiao Liang smiled and waved, glanced at Xu Chan and her heavy suitcase, and asked proactively, "Then where are you going now?"
"I don't know, I just want to leave Songbei anyway." Xu Chan did not tell the truth to Qiao Liang.
After hearing this, Qiao Liang didn't know what to say for a moment. Everyone has their own choice, and he was not qualified to say anything. Moreover, he knew very well that Xu Chan should have complained about him in his heart, blaming him for not being open-minded.
The two were silent for a while, and Xu Chan spoke first, "County Magistrate Qiao, I'm leaving. This may be the last time we see each other."
"Really?" Qiao Liang glanced at Xu Chan with some confusion. He subconsciously understood that Xu Chan would never come back after leaving this time, and the two would never meet again in the future.
Xu Chan put her luggage into the trunk, then waved to Qiao Liang, "Goodbye, County Magistrate Qiao."
When Xu Chan said the word "goodbye", her voice was full of complex emotions. Only she knew clearly that after leaving this time, she would no longer be Xu Chan when she came back. From now on, she would look like a brand new person. face of life.
Without saying anything to Qiao Liang, Xu Chan turned around and got into the car and motioned to the driver to drive.
Xu Chan didn't know what to say to Qiao Liang, so she simply didn't say anything. Regarding Qiao Liang, Xu Chan's psychology was very complicated. It was impossible to say that she didn't have any resentment towards Qiao Liang, but that kind of hatred, It's not true hatred. Deep down in her heart, Xu Chan even had to admit that Qiao Liang was the only man who had ever made her heart beat. Although she also used Qiao Liang at the beginning, compared to when she regarded Miao Peilong, Su Huaxin and others as As a tool for seeking progress and profit, she was somewhat attracted to Qiao Liang. After all, the young and handsome Qiao Liang was much more attractive to women than middle-aged and elderly men like Miao Peilong and Su Huaxin, but Qiao Liang was more attracted to her. I don't have that kind of intention.
In the car, Xu Chan looked at Qiao Liang in the rearview mirror, gritting her teeth silently. Xu Chan would definitely come back, and she would not fall down like this.
Qiao Liang stood there, watching Xu Chan's car leave, and shook his head helplessly, feeling a little sorry for Xu Chan in his heart.
Qiao Liang thought that if Xu Chan left this time, maybe the two would never meet again in the future, but Qiao Liang did not expect that Xu Chan would appear in another way in the future.
Xu Chan, what kind of position can this ambitious woman achieve in the future?
