Chapter 685 Be prepared for danger in times of peace
Wei Zi asked Feng Danyuan: "Let's not mention that it is normal for children of this age to cry. Let's talk about our expectations for our children. Do you hope that he can master all the eighteen martial arts?"
"Naturally." Feng Danyuan said matter-of-factly.
Wei Zi was silent for a moment, then shook his head and said: "But I don't think so. I just hope that he is safe, healthy and happy. If he wants to do something big, then he should work hard on his own and we will help him; if he wants to be like
Ordinary people live a normal life, so we should also support him and try our best to let him live a life of food and clothing without worries."
Feng Danyuan looked at Wei Zi and said slowly: "Everything you said is based on the premise that we can help him, but is this premise guaranteed?"
Wei Zi was stunned, Feng Danyuan's words touched her secret pain.
When her parents died suddenly, her world collapsed instantly. Without their support, it took her a long time to get out of the ruins and rebuild her own world.
Feng Danyuan is right, things are unpredictable, and no one may be able to accompany anyone to the end.
After all, parents are just the audience for their children for the first half of their lives.
Feng Danyuan took Wei Zi's hand, and the two sat side by side on the steps. He continued: "The so-called peace means that you are strong enough; the so-called health means having a strong body; and the so-called happiness, what exactly is it?
?Is it mediocre silly fun, or is it clear freedom?
"Grandma once said to me that only by seeing yourself, the world, and all living things can you truly understand what you want. Letting Feng Jiayu grow up under our wings is not a good choice. If he can do it with his ability
Growth, that’s better.”
Feng Danyuan touched Wei Zi's head and said softly: "You have experienced all this, and I think you should know very well that it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on anyone in this world.
"Furthermore, Feng Jiayu is a descendant of the Feng family after all, the eldest grandson of Prince Yan's palace, and the son of my Feng Danyuan. He is destined not to be a wealthy and idle person in this life. Since there is no choice for the road, let's make ourselves stronger.
It would be better to have more choices when walking on small roads.”
Wei Zi looked at Feng Danyuan blankly: "Have you thought about these things?"
Feng Danyuan couldn't help but glance at her: "Do you think I'm heartless, looking at Feng Jiayu like a stranger, throwing him as far as I can?
"You are his biological mother, and I am also his biological father. I didn't like children before, but I am different from your child. I will make the same plans as I should."
Wei Zi was silent.
She understood that what Feng Danyuan said was right.
This was ancient times thousands of years ago, a feudal dynasty that could have wars at any time and was precarious. It was not the peaceful era she had lived in - and in fact, she was just born in the golden age. Her grandfather's generation was still
Having experienced war, her parents came from an era of extreme scarcity of supplies.
War and turmoil have never stopped in the thousands of years of human civilization.
In the past, her parents protected her so well that she didn't have to think about these things.
When she arrived here, she was nervous at first, but since she was with Feng Danyuan and protected by his wings, she seemed to have acquiesced in such peace and stability.
Actually that's not right.
Be prepared for danger in times of peace, no one knows what will happen when you open your eyes tomorrow.
Only when you are strong enough can you be able to withstand risks.
Noble as the wind and the ocean, this is how he grew up.
And his and her children must also take this path.
It's because she thought simply.
Modern educational concepts and methods are a summary of the general environment a thousand years from now, but they may not be suitable for today.
Wei Zi couldn't help but look at Feng Danyuan with complicated eyes:
She was a modern Ph.D. with an elite education, and he had only taken care of the child for two days, and he had only been thinking about the child's education for two days at most. But the result was that he thought more thoroughly and profoundly than she did.
