"Hey, don't you know?" Liu Yuegui said with a smile: "Your second uncle was busier than Ye Shen when he was young. I only get to see him for a few days during the Chinese New Year, or even only once every few years.
"In the past few years, he has been in the army all year round and stayed home for two days a month. Being apart is something we are used to. He can take care of himself."
Hua Zhao......
She still shook her head: "Second Aunt, if I want to make you sad, I think it's better for you to keep an appropriate distance from the children."
"What's wrong?" Liu Yuegui asked.
"Originally, I wanted to talk to you after I return to Beijing. Since I won't go back now, I might as well talk to you now."
Hua Zhao frowned and said, "Have you noticed that you have raised your children crookedly?
"Your idea that men have to do big things and women have to do housework and serve men has been unknowingly instilled in them. You also ask them to do it according to your ideas. Do you think this is right?"
Liu Yuegui's face stiffened.
She was born in the 1920s, and her ideas were correct at the time and not wrong.
At that time, women had to live by serving men, otherwise there would be no room for survival.
So Hua Zhao does not criticize her ideas.
"But times have changed. It's the 1980s now. In the past 60 years, women have been able to hold up half of the sky. Women can go out to work to support themselves. Women can live without relying on men!" Hua Zhaodao.
"But, someone has to do the housework and take care of the children..." Liu Yuegui still didn't feel that she was wrong.
"Then men and women are equal, why should women serve men? Everyone helps each other, and no one should serve anyone else. Housework should be shared, and raising children should also be shared." Hua Zhao said.
"Men are so tired when they are doing big things outside... Isn't home a place for them to rest? If they are not allowed to have a good rest when they go home, and if they are busy with such trivial matters, they will not want to go home!" Liu Yuegui
The more I talk about it, the more it makes sense.
"And look, aren't you doing all the housework at home? When did Ye Shen reach out?" Irina looked at Hua Zhao accusingly, thinking that Hua Zhao was just that, a double standard!
It’s okay for her to do this on her own, but it’s not okay for her to do this!
Hua Zhao felt speechless: "I do things at home because I like to do these trivial things, and Ye Shen is often not at home. He leaves before dawn and comes back after dark, so it is not his turn to do these things.
....”
Why do you sound like Liu Yuegui is right when you talk?
Liu Yuegui really had a look on her face.
Ye Shen pushed the door open and came in: "Second Aunt, I don't do it because my time doesn't allow it. It's not that I don't want to do it or don't want to do it. Moreover, I have found a problem now. I will make up for it and share the burden when I am at home in the future.
Take the pressure off Hua Zhao."
"No! Your work outside is so stressful and stressful. We women take care of our children and do housework at home. It's safe and not tiring. You finally have a rest, but don't get too tired!" Liu Yuegui stopped her!
With.
Hua Zhao felt that she had entered a strange circle, and she quickly discovered the problem: "Ye Shen and I are not good examples. Don't take us as models. Let's just talk about ordinary men and women outside. Everyone is doing the same job.
It’s just as hard work. After you get home, you won’t need to serve anyone else. Do you agree with this?”
Liu Yuegui reluctantly nodded.
"But if you look at the children in the family now, I found that the boys are starting to become lazy and will not pick up the table or wash the dishes after dinner, while the girls take the initiative to do it.
"I even heard that when there are too many clothes to wash, you let the girls come out to wash the boys! You even let the girls clean the boys' shoes!"
"They are a bunch of children, they are all brothers and sisters, who has the harder job? Who should serve whom? The result is that women serve men? This is very wrong!" Hua Zhao said.
Liu Yuegui fell silent.
"If this continues, not only will boys be arrogant and rude, but girls will also have low self-esteem, so Second Aunt, please stop transmitting your thoughts to them."