At that time, when I went to the hospital for a pregnancy test, serious doctors would never tell people whether they were having a boy or a girl, because some families would not have the baby once they knew it was a girl.
Will drown in the urinal.
People like this should definitely be arrested, charged with intentional homicide, or shot.
If she had known that Xiaomi didn't carry a sonogram during the B-ultrasound, she would have definitely died. She was able to give birth thanks to a man named Dr. Ma. The clinic opened by Dr. Ma in Shangrao Town had a B-ultrasound machine (illegal). That day Ma
The doctor drank wine and saw Xiaomi's small nose on the screen as that.
Dr. Ma congratulated her father on the spot and did not forget to ask for a red envelope.
Her father was so happy that he gave Dr. Ma a red envelope. After returning home, he would say to everyone he met: "It's a man! It's a man! Everyone is here to eat and have a banquet! Celebrate!"
The banquet cost a lot of money to set up six or seven tables, and everyone in their village knew about it. Those who did not have a son at home were not only envious, but also secretly said that Lao Lin's fortune had changed.
1985, November 26.
Xiaomi was born, and her healthy and loud cry echoed out of the delivery room.
That day, the smile on her father's face disappeared.
Her father felt embarrassed and felt that Xiaomi's mother was not living up to expectations. His father didn't know how to face the villagers in the future. After all, the banquet was held and the story spread.
When she got home that night, her father was about to throw the millet into the urinal and drown him, so that he could report to the outside world that his "son" had died in infancy.
Xiaomi's mother hugged the little Xiaomi tightly and cried heartbrokenly. She told her father that you should hit me because I didn't live up to expectations and the third child was a loser. Let's just keep the fourth child.
Her father had a place to vent his grievances, and Xiaomi's mother, who was still in confinement, was hit with a broken wrist and a broken nose. Not to mention eating fish and meat to replenish her body, and eating rice soup and pickles, Xiaomi's mother gradually lost weight.
one day.
Xiaomi's father saw that his child had opened his eyes and thought of a way.
In order not to be embarrassed in the village, he decided to raise her as a boy and named her Lin Yixiu.
Xiaomi has been standing to relieve herself since she was very young, wearing boys' crotchless pants, getting a bald head, breaking bread, setting off cannons, playing football, pushing hoops, and digging out bird's nests. When she was a child, she had done everything that boys had never done before.
Because at that time, I didn’t understand that it was okay to pee while standing up. She would wet her pants when she peed while standing, and she would be beaten when she went home. Her father didn’t let her go to school until she was almost ten years old.
Xiaomi wandered around the village all day long, and no one knew she was a girl because her name was Yixiu. Children younger than her at the time called her "Brother Yixiu."
Ikkyu is the little monk in the cartoon who is scratching his head and trying to figure out a solution.
By adolescence, Xiaomi had become sensible. She knew that she was not a boy at all, so why did she keep shaving her head? This was her rebellious period. One day, Xiaomi was beaten again. She couldn't bear it anymore, so she secretly hid in a fishing boat in the village.
Ran away from home.
She stayed in many places during those years.
Yichang, Zhangzhou, Suizhou, Yichang, Qingyuan, and later went north to Beijing, Zhengding, and then to Henan.
Because he is still underage and wandering all the way, one can imagine his sadness.
Carrying dishes and washing dishes, picking up bottles and cardboard boxes, handing out leaflets and sweeping the streets, they all did it. It was not until she met Uncle Liao two years ago that she stabilized her life and stopped wandering. She changed her name to Uncle Liao, and from then on
Became Liao Xiaomi.
You can understand why Xiaomi doesn’t want to mention her past, right?
I was raised as a boy, so I gradually became a tomboy. What I said was true. If she didn't tell it herself, she wouldn't be able to tell the truth.
Later, Uncle Liao said that this matter should be settled. If you have no feelings for that family anymore, just go back and take one last look, then start a new life, and don't miss it anymore.
She hates her father, but after running away from home for several years, she still wants to see her mother.
In 2002, Liao Bo took Xiaomi back to Shangrao Town, Chaoshan.
That day was the twelfth day of the eighth lunar month, and the local area was preparing for the "Tower Burning Festival".
In addition to ancestral temple culture, there are many folk festivals in the Chaoshan area, such as the Pagoda Burning Festival, the Menglan Basin Festival, the Qingsheng Festival (Human Festival), the Chandelier Festival, the Children's Appearance Festival (Double Ninth Festival), etc."
August 14, 2002 was the Pagoda Burning Festival. On this day, in addition to laying bricks on the tower with mud, people also had to "pull the cuffs" and "give you sesame seeds". Sesame seeds are balls made of sesame seeds and are eaten.
It was on this day that Xiaomi took this photo on her mobile phone. If she doesn't come back to Chaoshan in the future, I have this photo in my hand to look at and keep in mind.
The reason Red Eyes reacted so strongly to this photo of the Pagoda Burning Festival is because he is also from Chaoshan...
The dialect he spoke that I couldn't understand, Xiaomi could understand and speak.
This dialect is a type of Min dialect of southern Fujian. The region of Min dialect is very complex and most people who are not locals cannot understand it. It also includes Chaozhou dialect, Leizhou dialect, Hok Lo dialect, Xue Lao dialect, and Hakka dialect.
dialect, Longdu dialect, Raoping dialect, Zhao'an dialect, Pingpo dialect, etc.
My red eyes kept saying "Oh dad, oh dad" when I heard it. This kind of language like Bangyu is actually a dialect, which is the Raoping dialect in the Fujian dialect.
I asked Xiaomi specifically.
"Oh dad oh dad" probably means "cold, cold, cold".
