What does it mean if you can't give birth to a son?
"Is that why you are unhappy because of this?"
Li Chengqian's face was full of confusion: "Isn't it the same when giving birth to a son or a daughter?"
"no the same!"
Li Lizhi looked at Ben Ge in her arms and curled her lips and said: "As the saying goes, there are three types of unfilial piety, the worst is not having children. If I can't give birth to a son, I will definitely be laughed at."
"joke!"
"You are the princess of the Tang Dynasty, the apple of my father's eye."
Su Qingling said seriously: "Who dares to make fun of you, the darling of the current prince?"
"On the surface, I might not dare."
"But if you're making fun of it secretly, who knows?"
Li Lizhi pouted and said, "My sister has a son, my brother has a son, even Qingque has a son, but I don't..."
Seeing her look like that, Li Chengqian also felt a little speechless.
He thought of a thousand reasons why Li Lizhi was unhappy.
But he never expected that Li Lizhi was unhappy because she was afraid that she would not be able to give birth to a son.
How big a deal is this? This is...
Li Chengqian said calmly: "First of all, I have to correct a mistake of yours."
"There are three types of unfilial piety. The greatest is not having descendants. It doesn't mean that having no descendants is unfilial."
Listen to this.
Li Lizhi couldn't help but be stunned for a moment and said: "What does that mean?"
"There are three types of unfilial piety, the greatest of which is not having offspring."
"These eight characters come from "Mencius Li Lou Shang"."
Li Chengqian shook his head and said: "The original text is that there are three types of unfilial piety, and the greatest is not having an issue. Shun married without complaining, which means he has no offspring. A gentleman thinks that he still complains."
"Isn't it better to have no heirs?"
Li Lizhi was a little confused about what Li Chengqian meant.
"fart!"
"The queen here refers to the duty of future generations."
"It means that there are three types of unfilial piety, and not fulfilling the duty of future generations is the most unfilial."
"Shun married a wife without telling his father. Mother, I regard it as failing to fulfill my duty as a descendant."
"If you want to be a good gentleman, you must fulfill the responsibilities and duties that a junior should have."
Li Chengqian rolled his eyes and said, "You are from a royal family after all, and Kong Jijiu taught you in your early years."
"But looking at it this way, you haven't learned any of this knowledge."
Li Chengqian pointed at Li Lizhi's nose and said, "Don't use this kind of word next time, it will be embarrassing if you say it..."
"I see……"
Li Lizhi lowered her head and said aggrievedly.
But soon, she realized something was wrong: "But, does this have nothing to do with me not being able to give birth to a son..."
"Everyone regards their son as very important."
"They also regard their sons as their only heirs."
"If I can't give birth to a son, who will inherit the eldest grandson's family inheritance in the future?"
"Then the Changsun family will all be destroyed in my hands?"
Li Lizhi became more and more excited as she spoke, and her tears began to flow again.
Her eyes also fell on Li Chengqian: "If my sister can't give birth to a son this time, please ask my brother to help my sister to petition my father to take a concubine for my brother..."
And Li Chengqian didn't know what to say, so he kept his eyes on Su Qingling.
I hope that as my sister-in-law, she can give this little girl some good advice.
who knows.
At this moment, Su Qingling focused her eyes on Brother Bang, showing a look of empathy.
"..."
To be honest, at that moment Li Chengqian felt like scolding others.
"I said you all have messed up thoughts?"
"It's just a matter of giving birth to a child. Do you need to put so much pressure on yourself?"
"Aren't boys and girls born the same?"
"Besides, even if I can't give birth this time,
Isn’t there a next time?”
"You have so many years of youth, but you don't have enough time to have children?"
"If you don't give birth this time, you won't give birth next time? You and I will be together from now on, right?"
Li Chengqian reached out and knocked Li Lizhi on the head and said, "Also, what do you think about taking concubines?"
"You're not happy to see your brother have a happy birthday, aren't you?" .??.
"Would you believe it?"
"If I tell my father that I want to take a concubine for Brother Chong, my father will kill me?"
"Even if my father understands, then Brother Chong still has to come over and fight to the death with me."
"Do you really not know what Brother Chong treats you, or are you just pretending not to know?"
Others don't know Changsun Chong's feelings for Li Lizhi.
Li Chengqian knew that.
That is because she has treated Li Lizhi as a daughter-in-law since she was a child. She was afraid of falling if she lifted it high, and she was afraid of melting when she was held in her mouth.
And he has also been clean and self-sufficient since he was a child, and has made sufficient preparations for becoming a prince-consort in the future.
In the courtyard of Zhao Guogong's mansion.
Except for her mother, not to mention the maids and maids, not even the eldest grandson Pingting could enter his yard.
And that's exactly why.
Only Li Shimin was willing to marry his daughter to this guy.
Of course.
This is not something he is pretending to do.
This guy is really a bit crazy.
He had identified Li Lizhi wholeheartedly.
He doesn't even look at other women.
And when Li Chengqian said these words.
Li Lizhi even lowered her head, her eyes were extremely complicated.
And I also saw this look on Li Lizhi's face.
Li Chengqian finally woke up from his own world.
"Brother, let me tell you this."
"I hope to help you feel at ease, not to add stress to you."
Li Chengqian sighed lightly , said: "Brother Chong treats you well because he loves you and hopes you will give him a child, and it is also because he loves you."
"But the matter of having a boy or a girl is really something that no one can control."
"So, you don't need to put too much pressure on yourself, it will only affect your mood."
"And mood is so important for a pregnant woman."
"Didn't your sister-in-law suffer when she gave birth to Brother Bang because she was in a bad mood?"
"Do you want to leave your brother, your father, and your brother Chong at such a young age to go to another world alone to find grandma and the others?"
Listen to this.
Li Lizhi was suddenly startled.
How could she not know the meaning of going to another world?
And at this moment.
Li Chengqian also thought of this little girl's tragic fate.
In his previous life, he had felt sorry for this girl more than once.
She had such a good background and had such a good destiny, but she died at the same age as a flower.
And now it seems.
There seems to be a reason for her demise.
She was too thoughtful, not as broad-minded as Li Shimin, nor as open-minded as Empress Changsun.
And at his uncle's house.
She needs to maintain her gentle and virtuous image so as not to embarrass the royal family.
Her husband is busy and has difficulty taking care of her emotions.
So many times, whether she felt grievances or depression, she could only endure it by herself.
In addition, since I gave birth to a child at a young age, it would be strange not to get sick.
Li Chengqian stretched out his hand and rubbed the top of Li Lizhi's head and said: "You are about to become a mother. You have to be more open-minded and open-minded. If you give birth to a daughter, won't it be the flesh that falls off of you?"
"There's more."
"Your men have told me more than once that they want the baby in your belly to be a girl."
"Because he misses you very much when you were a child..."