In the dusk, two cars were driving one behind the other on the road along the Wei River.
Qin Linlin is in front and Li Duanyang is behind.
Passing by a parking space, Qin Linlin parked her car in the parking space, and Li Duanyang also parked the car afterwards.
Weihe Tangtang (shang shang), the two walked for a while and sat down on a long chair under the shade of the trees.
The evening wind was very warm and gentle, ruffling the water of the Weihe River and ruffling Qin Linlin's long hair.
A scent of hair fragrance drifted into Li Duanyang's nostrils. He stretched out his arms and climbed behind the chair, quietly looking at the starry lights on the other side of the Wei River, and quietly feeling Qin Linlin's emotions.
"I've been a little anxious and confused recently..."
Qin Linlin broke the long silence between the two and said.
"This is very common, everyone has it." Li Duanyang said calmly and authentically.
Among contemporary college students, except for those whose parents have already arranged their future and who are not rebellious or ambitious, everyone else basically has varying degrees of anxiety and confusion.
When facing and about to face things like finding a job, choosing a career, falling in love, and starting a family, the ignorant can still try to avoid thinking about it like an ostrich sticking its head in the sand, and just focus on their studies or make up for the lost happy time in middle school. It is normal.
Those who have a clear understanding of society will fight for the future.
How could there be no anxiety and confusion in this?
Not to mention other things, the five major exams held by the school alone can make college students anxious, including CET-4 and CET-6, major-changing exams (usually at the end of the first semester of freshman year), postgraduate exams, various qualification certificate exams, civil service exams, uh
, it is really a struggle to cross the sea of hardships in life!
"But I feel like you don't have one." Qin Linlin turned to look at Li Duanyang and said.
The dim light from the street lamp shone on Li Duanyang's face, and Qin Linlin felt that he was so calm and peaceful.
"Indeed I didn't." Li Duanyang said calmly.
"Ah?" Qin Linlin opened her mouth slightly.
Then she had the urge to beat this guy up, it was so cool.
However, it seems that this guy really has nothing to worry about? His medical skills are so good, and yet he is acting so evil in just his junior year...
"Because my goals are clear and my level is high enough. The most important thing is that I don't have any pressure from idols." Li Duanyang said calmly.
It seems to make sense. But——
Eh? This last sentence seems to have a meaning?
Are you talking about her?
Sure enough, the guy turned to look at her next: "Qin Linlin, your so-called anxiety and confusion are actually caused by yourself. Why do you tell me that you are anxious and confused? You are beautiful and lonely.
You are smart and have a good family background. You are not worried about not being able to find a boyfriend or a job, and you are not worried about your future food, clothing, housing and transportation. What are you anxious and confused about? Your anxiety is, to put it bluntly, pressure from idols and fear of yourself.
What would others think if you failed in a certain exam? Your confusion is simply about your future career choice, should you engage in Western medicine or Chinese medicine, right?"
"What, you guy, where did I get this bullshit idol pressure? I'm not a star, it's just nonsense!" Qin Linlin finally punched Li Duanyang and shouted.
"Don't explain. An explanation is a cover-up, and a cover-up is the truth. Don't be impatient. Listen to me and give you an explanation. If you are worried about what others think of you, just leave that circle temporarily and let others slowly forget your existence.
Then it won't matter to you.
If you are confused about choosing a career, let me give you my analysis. If you want to engage in Western medicine in the future, you are destined to enter a hospital, because Western medicine doctors are nothing without their instruments. However, Chinese medicine doctors can choose to enter a hospital or work alone.
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Both have their pros and cons, but you have to choose one as early as possible, because you will be taking the postgraduate entrance examination next year, right? You have to get a master's or doctoral diploma anyway, so that it will be easier to enter the society in the future. We are Qin
Master's degree, um, or, we're Dr. Qin."
"Bullshit!" Qin Linlin snorted softly, but then she really started to think seriously.
"What about you? Do you want to work alone or in a hospital in the future?" Qin Linlin thought for a while and felt confused, so she asked Li Duanyang.
"I want to be a traveling doctor. Even if I stay in the hospital for a while, I won't stay long." Li Duanyang said.
"How curious, why do you want to be a traveling doctor?" Qin Linlin widened her eyes and said, "Even if you don't work in a hospital, you can open your own clinic?"
"Why should I open a clinic to fix myself? In my life, I will travel around the world whenever I have time, visit various doctors and Taoist priests with special skills, or go to various places to inspect medicinal herbs. Money is such a thing
, just seize the opportunity to earn enough to live on.”
"Ah, how can you think like this?!" Qin Linlin stared at Li Duanyang in surprise, this is simply weird!
"Actually, many people have this dream, don't they? The key point is that most people don't have this condition. They can't live without their own place. I am different. Wherever I go in the future, I will bring my own traffic and money-making ability.
, what’s wrong with living a life of freedom and ease?”
Qin Linlin stared at Li Duanyang. After listening to his words, she suddenly felt the same way. What's wrong with that?
But she immediately thought of a question: "No, Li Duanyang, you won't get married or have a family in the future? You won't have children in the future? You have a family and children, and you still run around like that?"
Li Duanyang looked at Qin Linlin who was staring at him and smiled: "You didn't understand what I said. I just said that I would go out for a walk whenever I have free time. I can't just run around three hundred and sixty-five days a year?"
People can't stand that kind of time. At most, I estimate that there are only a few dozen days a year wandering around, or going to see a doctor, and then taking the opportunity to go sightseeing. Well, the rest of the time is best to stay at home.
Bask in the sun and have fun with your family.”
Qin Linlin blinked her long eyelashes and imagined for a while, and then discovered the problem: "Shit, if you are really famous and become a famous doctor in the future, can you still stay at home with peace of mind? How many people will there be in a day?
Coming to find you?"
"Hide, try to hide, oh, you've got half a day to spare." Li Duanyang said and laughed, "Haha, it's just a wild thought. After all, it's impossible for a person to carry a pigtail three feet above the ground. But, no
That's for sure if you stay in the hospital, the restraints there are too severe."
After listening to Li Duanyang's reverie and nonsense, Qin Linlin felt a lot more relaxed. Then when she turned back to think about her own problems, she felt less entangled and confused, and her anxiety quietly dissipated.
Yes, there is nothing wrong with the world and no one can disturb it, but she is confined to a small self-designed circle and cannot escape.
In fact, she really doesn't have to be anxious or confused. Li Duanyang is right. Why is she anxious and confused?
You really asked for it.
As they drove on the road again, Qin Linlin secretly made up her mind. Li Duanyang was also giggling in his car. In fact, what he just said to Qin Linlin was naturally half true and half false. As a person who has lived a lifetime, how can he
Still confused about your own future?
Saying some silly things is just teasing Qin Linlin, and at the same time it is equivalent to giving her advice invisibly.