Ye Xinyi said, "The reason why we complain is nothing more than nine words: can't let go, can't see through, can't forget. Complaining is like a cancer embedded in the body, it will spread faster as your mood becomes depressed.
, the only good medicine to cure it is to control your emotions and not be led by your emotions.
We often see that when some people do not get what they want, the most common and easiest thing to do is to complain and complain. It seems that this can solve the problem and reverse things. But in fact, the problem is still
There, if you don't solve it, it won't go away on its own. Your complaints are just a waste of time and you miss the best opportunity to solve it. What you need to do is to calm down quickly, analyze the problem, and actively look for solutions or recovery methods.
Don't complain about the unfair treatment you receive. There is a philosophical concept that says: What exists is reasonable. The treatment you receive has its background, conditions and reasons. You cannot control others, but you can control yourself; you
You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood. Controlling your emotions and learning to be the master of your emotions is the best way to stop complaining. Life is short, why bother."
"Yes, life is short, why bother?" Jiang Xiuxiu murmured and repeated this sentence, her eyes couldn't help but look at Qiao Liang, feeling a little melancholy and loss.
Ye Xinyi was keenly aware of Jiang Xiuxiu's eyes, her heart moved, and she couldn't help but glance at Qiao Liang.
At this time, Qiao Liang was staring blankly at the ceiling, not knowing what he was thinking.
That night, Qiao Liang and the others didn't drink much, but they talked a lot, and the relationship between them couldn't help but become a little closer.
This was also one of Qiao Liang's reasons for calling them together.
The next morning, Qiao Liang went to work in the office as usual. While standing at the window drinking tea, Qiao Liang saw Xu Chan also entering the office building.
Qiao Liang thought for a moment, then asked his secretary Fu Minghai to notify Xu Chan to come over.
Fu Minghai came to Xu Chan's office, knocked on the door gently, and then walked in, "Director Xu, County Magistrate Qiao, please come over."
Xu Chan stood up after hearing this and asked seemingly casually, "Xiao Fu, what does County Magistrate Qiao want from me?"
"I really don't know about this. You'll find out when you go there." Fu Minghai said with a smile.
Xu Chan's eyes flickered and she didn't ask any more questions.
The two walked out together, and Fu Minghai asked, "Director Xu, where were you on Saturday afternoon? There was a cadre meeting held in the county. I called you several times but no one answered."
"Really? I didn't receive your call here. Maybe it's because my mobile phone signal is not good and you didn't call." Xu Chan said with an uneasy expression.
There was a strange look in Fu Minghai's eyes. When he called, he clearly heard that the call was connected and did not hear any other prompts. But Xu Chan said so, and Fu Minghai couldn't ask more questions.
Xu Chan walked into Qiao Liang's office and saw that Qiao Liang seemed to be waiting for her. She quickly stepped forward and said, "County Magistrate Qiao, you are looking for me."
"Director Xu, sit down." Qiao Liang pointed to the chair in front of him and motioned for Xu Chan to sit down.
Xu Chan nodded and sat down. She glanced at Qiao Liang secretly. Seeing Qiao Liang's attitude, she seemed to want to talk to her specifically. Xu Chan felt nervous for no reason. She had been feeling guilty for the past two days and became nervous at the slightest disturbance. Qiao Liang
Liang's appearance made Xu Chan feel even more uneasy.
"Director Xu, how long have we known each other?" Qiao Liang looked at Xu Chan and asked softly.
"I really haven't calculated it carefully. Anyway, we have known each other for a long time." Xu Chan smiled and gently brushed the bangs in front of her forehead. A woman's intuition made her feel uneasy.
"Yes, we have known each other for a long time." Qiao Liang whispered to herself, looking at Xu Chan and said, "You have always given me a good impression. You are proactive and have more energy than ordinary lesbians."
"Mr. Qiao, you praise me so much, I'm a little embarrassed." Xu Chan smiled unnaturally, her heart skipped a beat, and her uneasy feeling became stronger.
The so-called proactiveness, to put it another way, can also be understood as ambition.
Qiao Liang stared at Xu Chan silently for a while. At this time, he didn't want to beat around the bush anymore and said straight to the point, "Director Xu, Jiang Hui has been arrested. Did you know?"
"Ah?" Xu Chan was startled. She had heard about this from Miao Peilong before, but Qiao Liang took the initiative to talk to her about it, which undoubtedly made Xu Chan jump with fear. At this moment, Xu Chan put her hands on her hands a little uneasily. At the table, he pretended to be surprised and said, "County Magistrate, didn't Jiang Hui escape before?"
"Yes, he escaped, but now he is arrested again." Qiao Liang stared at Xu Chan, "Jiang Hui told some things about you."
"This is impossible, I and he must be talking nonsense." Xu Chan was a little incoherent. No matter how she told herself to calm down before, her defense was instantly broken at this moment.
"Director Xu, Jiang Hui said that he sent you several amounts of cash. He specifically wrote down the time and place of each payment, and explained it clearly." Qiao Liang sighed, and he told Xu Chan this. For the sake of it, I just want to tell Xu Chan that Jiang Hui has made it very clear, so that Xu Chan should not have any luck.
Xu Chan was already panicking and tried to keep her composure on her face, "County Magistrate, Jiang Hui must have said that to slander me. You must not believe what he said."
"Then why does Jiang Hui slander you? There are so many leaders in the county, why doesn't he slander others?" Qiao Liang stared at Xu Chan.
Xu Chan was speechless and glanced at Qiao Liang. Seeing Qiao Liang staring at her, Xu Chan lowered her head, not daring to meet Qiao Liang's eyes.
Xu Chan was already confused, but at this moment, Xu Chan still insisted on shaking her head, "County Magistrate, I haven't confiscated any money from Jiang Hui. It's all his nonsense."
"Xiaochan, don't deny it right now. You should know it best in your heart. I'm talking to you today just to give you a chance. Do you understand? Otherwise, it's not me who's looking for you now, but the county. It’s time for the inspection.” Qiao Liang said.
Hearing Qiao Liang's words, Xu Chan's heart trembled, especially when she heard Qiao Liang call her 'Xiao Chan', it touched Xu Chan's heart. Ever since she met Qiao Liang, Qiao Liang had almost never called her that. After Qiao Liang was transferred to Songbei, both of them had official titles. Now that Qiao Liang called her, he was undoubtedly playing the emotional card with her. At the same time, Xu Chan also understood Qiao Liang's painstaking efforts. He hoped that You can seek a chance for leniency.
Xu Chan's expression changed, and Xu Chan turned pale. She told herself that she would never admit it. She had finally climbed to where she is today. If she admitted it now, it would not only mean that everything she had worked so hard to achieve would be in vain, but also that She will become a prisoner in the next few days, which she cannot bear to accept. Even if she knows that Qiao Liang is doing it for her own good, she must not admit defeat. She, Xu Chan, will definitely be able to climb to a higher position. Nothing will happen to her at this time.
Seeing that Xu Chan remained silent, Qiao Liang sighed inwardly and said, "If you surrender voluntarily, it will be different from the county prosecutor coming to check you. The organization will also consider how you will be dealt with. I believe you should understand this."
Qiao Liang's words once again shocked Xu Chan deep in her heart. After a brief hesitation, Xu Chan finally gritted her teeth and denied, "County magistrate, I really haven't received any benefits from Jiang Hui. It's all Jiang Hui's nonsense." .”
"This is your chance to seek leniency. Think carefully and don't do anything you regret." Qiao Liang frowned.
"County Magistrate, I have nothing to think about. I have indeed taken away Jiang Hui's benefits. You can't let me admit things I haven't done, right?" Xu Chan shook her head firmly. She was determined not to admit it. , she is not willing to lose everything she has now, not to mention Su Huaxin helping her, this is the biggest confidence in Xu Chan's heart.
Hearing Xu Chan's words, Qiao Liang's eyes flashed with disappointment. He didn't expect that Xu Chan still didn't admit it. The Xu Chan today was indeed not the Xu Chan he once knew.
Thinking of the time when she first met Xu Chan, the interactions between the two, and the things she once admired about Xu Chan, Qiao Liang felt chills in her heart. People change. Yes, Xu Chan did change. Now, I almost don’t recognize him anymore.
After a moment of silence, Qiao Liang said to Xu Chan, "You should go back and think it over carefully. I hope you won't have any luck. Instead of letting the county prosecutor come to you, why not surrender yourself and give yourself a chance to get leniency."
"County Magistrate, I haven't done anything. You keep asking me to surrender. I don't even know what case I want to surrender to." Xu Chan smiled bitterly.
Xu Chan's words made Qiao Liang stunned. He looked at Xu Chan deeply. Qiao Liang felt a little sad and said, "Okay, then just pretend that I didn't say anything."
"County Magistrate, if there's nothing else, I'll go and get busy first." Xu Chan stood up.
"Well, you go ahead." Qiao Liang nodded.
Xu Chan stood up and fled Qiao Liang's office in a panic.
Qiao Liang looked at the opponent's back and frowned. At this time, Qiao Liang's heart was extremely complicated and regretful. This complexity and regret seemed different from when Miao Peilong was dismissed. In any case, Xu Chan once had a relationship with him. That kind of relationship, and once you have this kind of relationship, when you deal with some problems, it seems that your thoughts will be affected in some way involuntarily.
Qiao Liang didn't like the way he felt now. He shook his head vigorously and was stunned for a while. Then he sighed deeply and took out his cell phone to call Jiang Xiuxiu.
Jiang Xiuxiu guessed what was going on when she saw Qiao Liang's call and asked, "County Magistrate, how was your discussion with Director Xu?"
"Oh, just do whatever you want." Qiao Liang said helplessly.
"Why, are you really right?" Jiang Xiuxiu laughed, "I just said that Director Xu doesn't look like someone who would take the initiative to surrender. It's a pity that County Magistrate Qiao loves her so much."
"Okay, please stop making sarcastic remarks." Qiao Liang shook his head and smiled bitterly, pondered for a moment, and then said, "Xiuxiu, I suddenly thought of a question. What do you think is the greatest sorrow in life?"
Jiang Xiuxiu thought for a moment, "There are many answers to this question, what do you think?"