Qiao Liang looked at Li Youwei seriously and listened to what he said.
Li Youwei continued, "In fact, all our efforts are for life, but life is like a moody child. When it is happy, we will do well, but when it is unhappy, we will be unlucky and down at any time.
It seems that we use all our energy just to test whether it is happy or not.
Therefore, many people suddenly become rich, and many people suddenly fall into poverty. It is difficult to go from poverty to prosperity in life, and it is even more difficult to go from prosperity to abjection. First of all, it is about the state of mind. Yesterday, there were beautiful cars, beautiful guests, and guests and friends. Today, today
The autumn wind rustled, and I was all alone. When I fell from the clouds, it was not my body that died first, but my heart.
Du Fu once wrote a poem: No relatives or friends, old and sick, but a lonely boat, which vividly describes the situation of a down-and-out person. Similarly, there is also this saying: Poor in the busy city, no one cares, rich in the mountains, with distant relatives.
If you don’t believe me, just look at the wine in the glass. Each glass is served to the rich first. It also directly and simply writes about the desolation of the down-and-out.
There are far more tragic situations for destitute people than these. For example, those who lose everything overnight, then their wives and children are separated, and then they fall ill again... I don’t know if you have noticed, but life prefers to bully those who are suffering.
You fall and think that the disaster is over, but soon you will fall again...until you lose confidence. You are miserable, and it just sits and watches the show. No matter you like or hate life, it will not pay attention to it.
Play by your own rules.
There should be some people who can get back on their feet after being down, but certainly not many. Most ordinary people like you and me don’t have the ability to turn things around. Once they are down, it will be difficult to get back on their feet. If you don’t believe it, look at us
Those people who are down and out around you, maybe they were once very powerful people, but they fell down due to bad luck. You thought they would stand up soon, but in fact, many years later, what you see is getting worse and worse.
He is down and out."
Qiao Liang looked at Li Youwei intently and nodded subconsciously.
Then Li Youwei looked at Qiao Liang, "After ordinary people fall into despair, the chance of turning over is very slim. Therefore, as the old saying goes, it is easy to fall into despair but difficult to turn over. However, we can prevent it in advance and avoid falling into despair. I found
, all people who are in trouble have symptoms before. If a person shows these three signs, it is inevitable that he will be in trouble for the rest of his life."
Qiao Liang blinked and then toasted Li Youwei with a glass of wine.
After finishing his drink, Li Youwei put down his glass and continued, "The first sign: home no longer feels like home. I put this reason first because I am very sure of the importance of a family to a person. All of us
All our hard work and efforts are to make the family live a better life. A family is a private haven. There is a wife or husband, and children here. It is an excellent place for us to lick our wounds and recuperate. We come back every day
, your partner greets you, your children bring you slippers, and there are dishes on the table. During the meal, the children chatter, and you watch with a smile. Sometimes your eyes meet and you give each other a knowing smile. Such a family is worth all you have to give.
It's worth your efforts to protect it.
But there is a kind of family that is not like this. Your partner is inconsiderate, will argue as soon as you get home, and will only look into your pocket for money, completely ignoring that you are tired and thirsty. Of course, they will not care about your happiness at work.
Angry, sad and happy. Each of your children holds a mobile phone. When they heard that you came home, they didn’t bother to raise their heads. For this kind of family, coming back every day is a kind of torture. You will feel that you have only shouldered a responsibility for them.
It’s just a pure obligation, there is no such thing as family affection. If your family doesn’t stand with you and work together for the family, it’s impossible for you to survive on your own.”
Qiao Liang nodded, thinking that she and Zhang Mei once had a family, but now they broke up and were now alone, she couldn't help but feel sad.
Li Youwei continued, "The second sign is that you start to slack off at work.
At our age, jobs have basically stabilized. Some people have been doing their current jobs for several years, and some have even been doing it for many years. Doing the same job day after day, year after year, will inevitably lead to There is aesthetic fatigue, so they become sloppy. Very few people are interested in their work, because it is just a profession, but even so, some people are still very serious, saying that it is just because they are supporting their families that they need to be serious. Some people are careless because they have to support their families and there is no need to take things too seriously.
If you were the boss, who would you choose to keep? The answer is obvious. Don’t think that you will find a job quickly after you lose your job. There are indeed many jobs in the world, but they may not be suitable for you, and you may not get the one that suits you. You, even if it's your turn, you still won't be able to last long if you don't have the professional ethics you should have. Moreover, if unemployment happens twice more, your self-confidence will easily be shattered and you will become cowardly and afraid to face reality. In the end, it was natural for me to feel depressed.”
Qiao Liang nodded, Li Youwei's words made sense.
Li Youwei continued, "The third sign: blaming others when things happen. We already know that few people have smooth sailing. Everyone from children to adults will inevitably experience various blows in life. Life is like playing. An elimination game eliminates batches of people who cannot bear the blow, leaving only those who are strong.
Some people around us always blame everything and everyone when they encounter a blow. They will complain about anyone and everything they can think of, and even complain about the weather and air, but they have never complained about themselves. People who blame everyone and everyone when things happen In my eyes, it is always others who are wrong, not myself.
The more dissatisfied people are with things, the more irresponsible they are. If a person does not reflect, he will not make progress. In the end, he can only live in his own world, surrounded by all kinds of negative energy. If things continue like this, how can he not make progress? abjection."
"Boss, that's great." Qiao Liang felt greatly benefited after hearing this. He couldn't help but stand up and toast Li Youwei. The two clinked their glasses and then drank.
Unknowingly, he finished a bottle of high-strength liquor. Qiao Liang had to rush back to Songbei for work tomorrow and did not dare to drink too much. The drinking game with Li Youwei was over.
It was already after nine o'clock when Qiao Liang left Li Youwei. After checking the time, Qiao Liang thought for a while and called the organization director Feng Yunming.
After the call was answered, Qiao Liang asked, "Minister Feng, have you had a rest?"
"It's only what time, it's still early to take a break. I'm drinking with Lao Zhang now." Feng Yunming's hearty laughter came over the phone.
Upon hearing this, Qiao Liang knew that the old Zhang Feng Yunming was talking about was Zhang Haitao, and immediately said, "Minister Feng, where are you drinking? I'll join in the fun, how about..."
"Xiao Qiao, are you in the city?" Feng Yunming heard what Qiao Liang said and immediately said, "We are at Fengyuan Food City. Come over quickly."
"Okay, I'll be there right away." Qiao Liang smiled.
After hanging up the phone, Qiao Liang immediately took the car to the food city Feng Yunming mentioned.
When Qiao Liang went to the food city, at this moment, in a city in Suhe Province outside Jiangdong Province, a man with a striking black mole on the bridge of his nose walked out of an office building. While waiting for the bus on the roadside, the man took Make a call on your mobile phone.
After the call was connected, the man said, "Secretary Xu, the matter is settled."
"So fast? Is the company you are looking for reliable?" Xu Honggang frowned.
"Secretary Xu, you are absolutely reliable. This is a company introduced by my friend. It is not in Jiangdong, but in Suhe Province. After I contacted them today, I flew over as soon as possible in the afternoon to have an interview with them. Now I just spoke with them. They've finished talking and the deposit has been paid," the man said.
"As long as it's reliable, this matter must be ensured to be foolproof." Xu Honggang said in a deep voice.
"Secretary Xu, don't worry, I will keep an eye on it personally." The man nodded hurriedly and said, "At midnight today, they will gradually start to break the news online. After listening to their operation plan, I feel that it is still feasible, and they have We have a professional navy team with rich experience in hype. I think there is no problem, but the price is a bit more expensive. I’m afraid the one million you paid may not be enough.”
"Money is not an issue. I'll have someone call you if it's the difference." Xu Honggang laughed when he heard that the other party charged a lot. He didn't dare to go to Liangshan without twos and threes. If the other party dared to speak, it meant that he had some ability and could do it. If you spend money to solve the problem, then it is not a problem.
The two talked for a while, and after Xu Honggang roughly understood some of the plans, he finally hung up the phone with satisfaction.
Putting away his mobile phone, Xu Honggang's eyes flashed. There will be a good show starting tomorrow. Next, it will be up to him to stir up the storm in Jiangzhou City. No one can stop Xu Honggang from moving forward!
Qiao Liang came to Fengyuan Food City. Feng Yunming and Zhang Haitao had already drank a lot. If Qiao Liang hadn't called, they would have been ready to leave. At this moment, two more dishes were temporarily added.
Seeing Qiao Liang enter, Feng Yunming said with a smile, "Old Zhang, look, our model young cadre has arrived."
Qiao Liang laughed after hearing this, "Minister Feng, we don't bring people to make fun of others."
"Xiao Qiao, I am not making fun of you. This is what Secretary Guohong said personally. Who dares to make fun of you?" Feng Yunming said with a smile.
"Secretary Zheng probably just said casually, Minister Feng, please don't put gold in my face." Qiao Liang waved his hands repeatedly.
"Haha, it's rare to see Xiao Qiao be so humble." Feng Yunming joked with a smile.
Qiao Liang grinned, "Minister Feng, I have always been very humble. What I told is the truth."
"Xiao Qiao, being modest is right, but being too modest is bad." Zhang Haitao also smiled at this time.
Qiao Liang turned to look at Zhang Haitao. He hadn't seen Zhang Haitao for some days. Qiao Liang noticed that Zhang Haitao seemed to have gained weight and was getting better. He couldn't help but smile and said, "Director Zhang, you seem to have gained weight."
"Haha, I have a big heart and a fat body. In addition, the work is easy and there is nothing for me to worry about, so I naturally gain weight." Zhang Haitao said with a grin.
