The third child continued: "Are you still living at home?"
Qiao Liang shook his head: "That house belongs to Zhang Mei. I moved out and rented an apartment opposite the municipal party committee compound."
"Isn't the house empty then?"
"That's where Zhang Mei's parents live."
The third child nodded: "How is your relationship with Zhang Mei's parents now?"
"As usual, I recognize them as godfather and godmother."
The third child blinked: "Damn it, what's going on? My ex-husband has become my godbrother."
Qiao Liang smiled bitterly: "In Zhang Mei's current situation, I can't ignore her parents, right?"
"No one can tell you what's wrong with you."
"But I can't bear it in my conscience."
"Conscience..." Lao San murmured, "Your kind and loyal character is sometimes a good thing, but sometimes it may harm you."
Qiao Liang didn't say anything. What Lao San said actually makes sense, but what can he do if his character is born like this? It is said that character determines destiny. From now on, whether his kindness and loyalty help or harm him, it may be his own fate.
Destiny is destined. Qiao Liang looked at the deep night sky and sighed slightly in his heart.
After breaking up with Lao Sansan, Qiao Liang called Li Youwei.
"Boss, are you at home?"
"Here." Li Youwei's calm voice came from the phone.
"I want to sit at your place, is that convenient?"
"What's the inconvenience? Come and drink tea with me."
Qiao Liang immediately took a taxi to Li Youwei's house. Li Youwei was drinking tea in the living room, but Gu Shuyun was not at home.
"Where's sister-in-law?" Qiao Liang asked.
"Her mother is not in good health. She will go back and take care of her for a few days." Li Youwei pointed to the sofa, "Sit down-"
Qiao Liang sat opposite Li Youwei. Li Youwei poured him a cup of tea: "Xiaoya went to Baodao a few days ago and brought back the high mountain oolong tea. Try it."
Qiao Liang took a sip from the cup and nodded: "It tastes good."
Li Youwei looked at Qiao Liang: "Is work going well recently?"
"Overall, it's fine, but I'm sometimes troubled by some problems." Qiao Liang said.
"What's the problem?"
Qiao Liang pondered for a moment: "Boss, how do you think gentlemen and villains should be treated in official circles?"
"When you treat a gentleman, you must treat him in a gentleman's way. This is very simple." Li Youwei said directly.
"What about dealing with villains?" Qiao Liang said.
"Have you met a villain?" Li Youwei said.
"Although I haven't had a head-to-head confrontation yet, I feel some villains around me."
Li Youwei mused: "Since ancient times, it is difficult to raise a villain, and it is difficult to deal with a villain. It is the most difficult to interact with a villain, and it is even more impossible to have a good relationship with a villain, unless of course you and the villain fall in love with each other."
"This is not what I am willing to do." Qiao Liang shook his head.
Li Youwei smiled: "Actually, the ultimate goal of dealing with a villain in officialdom is to find ways to keep him away from you."
Qiao Liang nodded: "This is easier said than done."
Li Youwei nodded: "Yes, sometimes it is difficult for you to distinguish between the people around you, which ones are gentlemen and which ones are villains. So you have to remember that you should only speak a few words to people when you meet them, but you can't give them all your heart.
When you get along with a gentleman, you should treat yourself with sincerity, and you can tell everything you know.
But whether he is a gentleman or a villain is generally not something that can be seen through at a glance. Although this move may hurt the gentleman's heart, since the gentleman is a gentleman, he will naturally not care too much about it. The key to this move is to let
There is no opportunity for villains to take advantage of, and you can actively defend yourself against the harm that villains do to you."
Qiao Liang looked at Li Youwei intently: "So, how can we spot the real villain in the officialdom?"
Li Youwei said simply: "You must not be too simple as a person. You must be mentally mature and understand hypocrisy and deceit. Only in this way can you spot the real villain, avoid being hurt by the villain, and even make the villain fear you and stay away from you. Of course, you must understand hypocrisy and deceit.
, does not mean treating others with hypocrisy, it is just to protect yourself."
Qiao Liang nodded.
Li Youwei continued: "Also, try to avoid provoking villains at work."
"Then the villain wants to take the initiative to provoke me?"
"Then you have to learn one word: tough!" Li Youwei looked at Qiao Liang, "The characteristic of villains is that they often bully the weak and fear the tough. If you just give in and accommodate, the villain will think that you are easy to bully, and they will take advantage of you."
Qiao Liang nodded again.
Li Youwei added: "You also need to learn to see through the traps of villains. As villains, their method of harming others is often inseparable from setting traps. The key to seeing through villains' traps is not to be deceived by the villain's appearance, but to
Spend more time and pay more attention."
Qiao Liang listened intently.
"Liangzi, you have to remember one thing, a villain will never say that he is a villain, or even act very unlike a villain." Li Youwei said meaningfully.
Qiao Liang nodded and couldn't help but think of Chu Heng.
Li Youwei continued: "In fact, in the officialdom, villains are also divided into different types. To deal with different villains, you need to learn to use different strategies. For example, when you encounter a sinister villain, you should focus on being on guard and getting along with them.
, you have to be careful everywhere and don’t let him take advantage of you; when you encounter a bully, you can adopt a strategy of preempting others and find opportunities to let him know how powerful you are, and he will generally not dare to provoke you; for villains who like to stir up trouble.
, generally don’t pay attention to it, but if his slander against you has seriously affected your reputation, then you must clarify it, and you can go to court if necessary..."
Qiao Liang listened carefully and thought.
Li Youwei talked for a long time and then took a sip of tea: "Liangzi, do you know what kind of people are the most terrifying in the officialdom?"
Qiao Liang shook his head.
"A gentleman who dares to use villainous tactics when necessary is the most terrifying person." Li Youwei said slowly.
Qiao Liang couldn't help but startled and looked at Li Youwei.
Li Youwei continued: "The biggest characteristic of this kind of person is that I will not offend others unless they offend me. If someone offends me, I will offend them. When it is time to be a gentleman, I will be more upright than anyone else. When it is time to be cruel, I will be more upright than anyone else."
Villain."
After hearing Li Youwei's words, Qiao Liang shuddered in his heart, wondering if he was hinting at something by saying this.
After drinking tea for a long time, Li Youwei seemed to have thought of something, and said thoughtfully: "The officialdom is actually realistic and vulgar. People in the officialdom, regardless of their ethics, once they can sit in the assigned position, they will be the first to plan."
One thing always has to be clearing the board."
Qiao Liang looked at Li Youwei. Li Youwei smiled slightly, his expression a little unpredictable.
I had a conversation with Li Youwei tonight. Although I didn’t fully understand some of what he said, Qiao Liang felt that it was very rewarding. After all, Li Youwei had been in the officialdom for many years. Although he was a down-and-out person, this was not
It hinders his understanding and knowledge of officialdom.
At this time, the problems that troubled Qiao Liang seemed to have been somewhat relieved. Qiao Liang felt that what Li Youwei told him tonight should be gradually experienced and absorbed in practice in the future.
Of course, in the process of experience and absorption, it will not be smooth sailing, and there may even be storms and rough seas.
After leaving Li Youwei's home, Qiao Liang took a taxi back. When passing by the gate of Chu Heng's community, Qiao Liang accidentally looked out and saw a woman getting out of the taxi.
Under the streetlight, Qiao Liang could clearly see that this woman was Su Yan.
Su Yan got out of the car, put on a mask, and wrapped a scarf around her head, and then walked into the community.
Qiao Liang looked at the time. It was almost 11 o'clock. What was Su Yan doing here at this time?
