Xue Ling and Cheng Tianyuan sat together, raising their heads from time to time to greet the guests next to them and looking around.
"Daughter-in-law, look over there." Cheng Tianyuan lowered his voice: "Tietou looks a little cold, but he is very considerate. I just saw him helping Xiaoxin peel the shrimp shells. Look, he is still helping her spoon soup."
Xue Ling looked over and smiled.
"Tietou loves Xiaoxin very much. Even after so many years, he still loves her very much. Considerate men are popular, and girls nowadays like to find considerate boys. My cousin Xue Cong told me two days ago that my daughter is very interested in her blind date.
I don’t have any big requirements. I just hope that the conditions are similar to hers and that I am considerate of her character and temper. Everything else is easy to discuss.”
Forehead?
Cheng Tianyuan asked funnyly: "Aren't these two requirements not high?"
Her daughter has good abilities, good looks, a better family background, and an excellent job. It is really rare to find a young man who matches her - very hard to find!
In his opinion, no one can meet the first condition. As for whether the second condition is considerate or not, it should not be difficult.
Xue Ling shook his head: "Isn't it difficult? It's hard to find a considerate man, especially today's boys."
After hearing this, Cheng Tianyuan turned to look at his three sons on the other side.
"Our eldest brother should be someone who cares about his wife. The second brother probably can't... The third brother, he should be okay, but he's definitely not as good as his eldest brother. He's far behind."
Xue Ling chuckled: "You can't guess. Once some people become husbands, they will unknowingly think about their wives and take good care of them."
Shan You beside him heard the general idea and couldn't help but interrupt.
"Some people will never be able to figure it out in their lifetime, such as Xiao Huzi. Even if someone teaches him step by step, he can't be considerate. He rarely considers other people when doing things, even me and his son."
Xue Ling's eyes darkened slightly and he whispered: "Yuyou, Xiao Huzi has been a child that has been cared for by the family since he was a child. He will definitely not be considerate of you. Give him some time and let him learn slowly."
"He can't learn it." Shan You sighed lowly and paused with the chopsticks in his hand, "Auntie, it's not that I don't give him time. Even if I give him my whole life, he probably won't be able to learn it. Do you know, he will go to school
I went home twice a month. Once, Xiaohu had a fever. After I called him more than a dozen times, he finally came over and took a few glances. He couldn't do anything, so he just stood there and waited.
The second time, he came home lazily after I called countless times. I was feeling unwell and depressed, and he never cared about me, let alone showed any consideration."
Xue Ling couldn't help but look at the little Huzi who was chatting with Xue Heng and eating happily, then turned to look at the little guy sleeping soundly beside him.
"He is still too young after all."
When Shan You mentioned the emotional point, his eyes turned red without realizing it.
"Auntie, sometimes I... really want to divorce him."
Xue Ling was slightly stunned, and then said: "You are all still young, and it is easy to be impulsive when doing things or thinking about things. Youyou, Xiaoxiaohu is still too young. Please be sure to think about him when considering this issue."
Shan You choked with sobs: "I...have been feeling very uncomfortable recently, and I'm always in a low mood. Xiao Huzi is heartless. Apart from buying me gifts and giving me some inappropriate gadgets, he doesn't know how to care about me at all."
Xue Ling thought for a while and asked: "Are you feeling uncomfortable somewhere? Why are you feeling depressed?"
Shan You lowered his voice: "...I don't know. I seem to be depressed and in a bad mood... My life seems to have no goal. Everything revolves around the child. Now I seem to be hoping that he will hurry up."
When I grow up healthy, my mind is empty and there is nothing."
Xue Ling immediately heard what the problem was.
"Yuyou, you may have to find something to do, otherwise you will get sick sooner or later if you stay bored at home all day."
In order to give birth to Xiaohu, she gave up her nascent online singing career and became a full-time housewife.
The cleaning work and meals in the villa are taken care of by the nanny, and the nanny helps take care of the children. Apart from spending time with the children, she has nothing else to do.
If people are too busy, they will get sick from exhaustion; if people are too idle, they will become flustered, and even get sick from panic.
Shanyou's ability to withstand psychological stress is worse than that of ordinary people, and he needs to be relieved in time to avoid a recurrence of his old illness.
"I...but what can I do?" Shan You's eyes were red and he whispered: "Auntie, my diploma is low. I didn't even graduate from a technical secondary school... In addition, I can't pick, I can't carry, and I can't do rough work.
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In big cities like the Imperial Capital, the corporate competition culture is very fierce, and people with low diplomas can generally only find manual jobs.
The family hired a nanny to do the work, but she went out to find menial jobs. If word spread, not only would she be scolded, but she would also be treated as a joke.
But she can’t even do rough work!
She had been coaxed and cared about by her parents since she was a child. She was not very good at housework because she never had to do it. Her body was weak and her temper was weak, so she simply could not bear the pain of doing menial work.
Xue Ling shook his head: "How can I be willing to let you do menial work! Even if you want to, Xiaohuzi will never agree. What I mean is that you continue to develop your talents, your hobbies, and continue to sing online."
Shan You's eyes lit up when he heard this, but he quickly hesitated.
"But...my parents are always worried that the Internet is too chaotic...and they say that girls, especially those who are already married, should not be exposed to the public and perform. They said that the money is not enough, and there is no need to make that kind of money.
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Xue Ling couldn't help but burst into laughter: "What do they think of online entertainment activities? It's just nonsense! In fact, our older generation don't know much about Internet culture. You should popularize it for them and introduce this new technology to them.
culture."
Shan You nodded and asked tentatively: "Auntie, you also think it would be good for me to sing online again, right?"
"Of course!" Xue Ling said: "I support it very much! You don't have to run around and you can still work at home. You just need to be equipped with the corresponding equipment at home. In this way, you can work and take care of your children at the same time.
Don’t be away from home for a long time during the day or night. The little tiger is busy and cannot be home for three or two days. You have to stay at home. This can better protect the little tiger and is good for the growth of the child. Secondly, you must also have your own
Career pursuit. Little Tiger is still young now, but he will grow up in the future and leave you to be independent. Then you will be even more lonely and depressed. With career pursuit, people can live happily if they have something to support their spirit."
"Then I... will discuss it with Xiao Huzi later." Shan You said with a smile.
Xue Ling nodded: "Yes. No matter what the matter is, try to discuss it as much as possible, seek each other's opinions, and learn from each other's strengths."
"Yes." Shan You sincerely replied: "Thank you, auntie!"