Xue Ling couldn't help but smile bitterly: "Who would tolerate and agree? It's just that the child is very stubborn, and she can't listen to our words!"
"You have to train when you need to, and you have to scold when you need to scold!" Cheng Tianyuan said solemnly: "You even have to hit when it's time to hit! Just don't hurt her, you have to make her brain listen!"
Xue Ling sighed and shook his head: "It's too difficult... Our own children are relatively simple, and we have been strict with them since they were young, so even if they do something wrong, they usually don't go too far wrong. Xiaohan is different from them,
She grew up in a dysfunctional family. Both parents would only pamper her, follow her, and take care of her as much as possible. On the surface, she looks weak, but in fact she has a very awkward temperament, a strong self-esteem, but is also extremely fragile.
I'm vulnerable. I don't have much contact with her and don't know her well, so I can't think of a way to persuade her at the moment. If she were our daughter, we would scold her when she needed to and beat her when she needed to. But we are just uncle and aunt, she
Her parents are by her side, so how do we have the qualifications and rights to teach her a lesson?"
"Alas!" Cheng Tianyuan was so angry that he sat down and said angrily: "It's all the adults who have sinned! They have harmed the children! A good family was finally torn apart, not only harming themselves, but also harming the children!"
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"It's all over, there's no point in talking about it." Xue Ling whispered.
Cheng Tianyuan loudly said: "I have to say it out, so that all the young people in the family can take a warning! Young people nowadays just get divorced casually, if they can't survive, then leave. It sounds easy, but have they thought about the consequences? People can't
Live willfully, and willful people will never have a happy ending! Who said that every married couple can be happy, and they all have to live a good life and shoulder their family responsibilities well, otherwise where will happiness come from? Love when falling in love
You have to work hard, and if you have the ability, use the courage you had at that time, and take on the responsibilities of marriage! If everyone could do it, the divorce rate today would not be so high! If Cheng Tianfang hadn't been willful, why would she not even have one today?
She doesn’t even have a family! Her daughter won’t end up like this!”
"Stop yelling, please keep your voice down!" Xue Ling slapped his arm angrily and whispered: "Xiaohan is in the guest room to the south."
Cheng Tianyuan didn't care at all and said: "I not only want to tell her now, I will also tell her tomorrow. She wants to fall in love and get married when she is only a teenager? What qualifications does a person who has to rely on his parents to provide food, clothing, housing and transportation have to get married?
?If Xiaoxin doesn’t study well, doesn’t work independently, and thinks about relying on her husband to get married, then I will never agree to her getting married. Girls can get married and rely on their husbands. Is this what she thinks? Then she should find a husband.
Good husband, why are you looking for a second-rate guy who dropped out of school and lived on the streets to rely on? Have you told her these things? Huh?"
"No." Xue Ling told the truth: "A Heng saw her dressing up weirdly, wearing revealing shorts and miniskirts, and clinging to that second-rate guy, and I went crazy all of a sudden! If I hadn't stopped him,
He probably had to beat the person seriously. It was obvious at first glance that the boy was irresponsible. When the two of them were caught, he ran away without even saying hello. Such a boy has no sense of responsibility at all.
It’s totally unreliable.”
"Hmph!" Cheng Tianyuan snorted coldly: "Wasn't her mother like this back then? She was fooled into believing it after being coaxed for a few words. If she didn't learn a lesson in time, she wouldn't be where she is today. She would have been ruined long ago.
You have to contact Cheng Tianfang and ask her to use her own negative teaching materials to teach her daughter!"
"Don't be angry." Xue Ling rubbed his forehead helplessly, "A Heng was also so angry that he almost vomited blood. He kept talking nonsense and his brain had lost its normal function. Xiaohan was so angry that he quarreled with him. The father and daughter were on the street.
I was cursing, crying and making a fuss, and many adults and adults who were out for a walk came to watch - it couldn't be too lively. I couldn't help it, my throat hurt from shouting, and I couldn't stand it anymore, so I simply called a car and put Xue Heng in.
Let’s go, then we called a car and took Xiaohan away.”
Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help but roll his eyes: "It's embarrassing to throw it on the street. This is the kind of person I'm talking about. Ah Heng is over fifty, why are he so impulsive and quarreling with her in public? Take your daughter away first, slowly.
Ask slowly and tell slowly. If you make such a fuss - even if the matter is not big, it will be big!"
"Yes!"
She couldn’t believe that her father, who always obeyed her in everything, would scold her in the street for the first time.”
"The outbreak of conflicts is by no means accumulated over a period of time." Cheng Tianyuan sighed softly and said: "You are wrong. In fact, this matter is not as simple as it seems. In the final analysis, it is the lack of family education and the lack of parents.
Correct guidance. This cannot be corrected in a short while."
"Yes." Xue Ling couldn't help but whisper: "But we still have to deal with it quietly and let the child think things through. She said earlier that she didn't want to go to school anymore. Her father no longer loves her and she wants to run away from home.
From now on, I will make money with my own hands. She was very impulsive and spoke very excitedly, so I turned a deaf ear to everything."
"Not going to school?" Cheng Tianyuan snorted coldly: "Then she will be miserable!"
Xue Ling sighed tiredly: "I was dizzy from the quarrel between father and daughter, and my head is still dizzy. I am getting older every year, and my body is getting worse every year. I have nothing to do today, just accompany the third child.
Buy clothes, then run to the suburbs to find Xue Heng later, and you know what happens next - there is not much to do, but my head can no longer bear it."
"You eat the bird's nest and go take a bath and rest." Cheng Tianyuan stood up: "I'm going to see that bad boy."
"No!" Xue Ling said, "I borrowed Xiaoxin's pajamas just now. She had already taken off her makeup and took a bath so she could sleep. Her eyes were swollen from crying and she was in low spirits. I coaxed her to sleep before coming over."
"Removing makeup?" Cheng Tianyuan chuckled and sneered: "I really admire Xue Heng and Cheng Tianfang! The children are like this, and they are still kept in the dark!"
Xue Ling held her head and stood up, then stopped: "Don't be angry, let's rest first. A Heng has calmed down just now. He sent a message saying that he will come to pick her up from school tomorrow morning, and then we will have a good talk with her."
"The problem can never be solved so easily." Cheng Tianyuan shook his head with a stern face: "The root of this matter is there. Is there any way to solve it? If you don't believe it, just wait and see!"
Xue Ling's head hurt, so he opened the quilt and lay down.
"Stop talking, I'll lie down for a while. If you don't want to eat the bird's nest, you can eat it. When I stop feeling dizzy, I can take a shower and change into pajamas."
"Okay." Cheng Tianyuan said warmly: "You squint for a while, and I'll get you some essential oil to rub it on."