Xue Ling held her hand and whispered: "Auntie was also young and had her own youth, so she knows your girlish thoughts. In fact, there is nothing wrong with you falling in love, but you used the wrong method and the time was a little too early.
.”
"Really?" Xue Han's eyes lit up and he asked in surprise, "Auntie, do you really think so?!"
Xue Ling nodded: "Of course it's true. What did I do to lie to you? When did I stop your cousins from falling in love? Who did I stop?"
"...None of them." Xue Han muttered: "Even Sister Xin, you are willing for her to fall in love."
Xue Ling smiled: "Yes, because we all know that you are starting to grow up, understand love, know how to love another person, and share your feelings with others. This is human nature and an emotional experience that everyone must experience.
So we won't stop it."
"Then why did my dad stop me like crazy?" Xue Han muttered: "You saw his furious look last night and how furious he was just now."
Xue Ling explained seriously: "Because you are still too young, too young."
"I'm almost fifteen!" Xue Han defended: "Some of my classmates have boyfriends when they are twelve or thirteen years old, and I am the latest one!"
Xue Ling secretly couldn't laugh or cry, and said: "Our legal age for marriage is twenty. How many years do you think you have until you are twenty? What are you doing in such a hurry? The fruits on the tree must be picked when they are just ripe. The taste
and taste the best. Pick the fruit when it is green and astringent. The taste is astringent and sour. Can you eat it? If you don’t pick the fruit when it is ripe, it will soon become rotten and fall to the ground. Eventually, you will have to eat it.
Not much. This shows how important timing is! Your cousins all fell in love after the age of eighteen, and it did not affect their studies, so your uncle and I will not stop it, and we should not stop it. "
Xue Han seemed to understand but not understand, and looked at her thoughtfully.
"Aunt...you...did you really love your uncle before?"
Xue Ling raised her eyebrows and asked funnyly: "Why do you ask so suddenly? If I didn't love him, how could I marry him, give him children, and live with him for more than thirty years?"
"But -" Xue Han faltered: "Uncle, he is not as good at making money as you are. You have such a big group, and his business cannot compare to yours."
Xue Ling shook his head: "Actually, your uncle's business ability is better than mine, but for the sake of the family and taking care of the elderly and children, he had to sacrifice most of his working time on the family, so his business is not as good as mine.
If he goes to make money and I go to make money, then there will be no time to take care of the elderly and children in the family, so what is the point of us making money? He knows that I like doing business, so he puts his focus on the family so that I can go there without any worries.
Work hard. He sacrificed part of his career for his family. It was not until I retired that he could devote himself to work. Without his silent efforts over the years, driving several children to and from school, and taking care of the family and outside, how would I have time?
And energy to make a lot of money? I was so touched that he could do this for me. I never felt that there was anything to compare with him. In terms of sacrificing for the family, I couldn't compare to him."
When Xue Han heard what she said, he suddenly came to his senses.
"Yes... why didn't I think of this? When you put it like that, I think my uncle is great. In comparison, many men can't do it, right? Many boys are concerned about face and don't like girls who are better than them."
Xue Ling's eyes flashed slightly and he whispered: "Fool, if that man really loves you, why would he care about face? The more he cares about you, the more he thinks he is a great man, and he must love himself even more.
I love you. If your uncle had cared about face issues, we might have often quarreled or even gotten divorced, because I am a very career-minded person. But he loves me so much that he would rather sacrifice his own career to support me.
Chasing dreams. Because of this, he has won the respect of me and my parents, and deserves my deep love for a lifetime."
After hearing this, Xue Han's eyes dodge a few times.
"...Yes, uncle is really good."
Xue Ling stopped and said warmly: "Okay, don't think too much. The most important thing for you now is not to argue with your father or mother, but to find a way to gain their support. You have to remember that your father
Mom is not unwilling to fall in love with you, but she is worried that if you pick the fruit when it is still green, you will eventually taste the bitter fruit yourself. Which parent does not want his daughter or son to find true love, get married and start a family? Right? They
The main reason why you are so opposed now is that you are too young, you are still a student, and you have not done well in your studies. Think about it, if you study hard and improve your studies, what excuse can your parents have to stop you? Age
He is getting older and better every year, and his studies are getting better and better every year. There is no reason for them to stop him!"
Xue Han was moved and murmured: "It seems to be the truth. Just now my dad kept shouting that I must study, and I can't fall in love and delay my study. I have to prove to him that I can fall in love.
Let’s learn and make progress, let’s see how he objects!”
"Yes!" Xue Ling smiled: "You are a smart child who knows everything at a glance. If you can do well in your studies, you can provide conditions and rewards for your parents, right?"
"Yes." Xue Han nodded heavily: "Auntie, I understand."
Xue Ling smiled and said: "Very good, clean up and go have breakfast quickly. If you don't go to eat, you will probably be late."
"Ouch!" Xue Han hurriedly turned around to get his school bag, "Oops! Auntie, we don't have enough time. It takes more than 20 minutes to drive to No. 4 Middle School. If I go there after eating, I might be late! If you are late for early reading, the teacher will definitely
You will be punished by standing still.”
"It's okay. I got breakfast and had it in the car." Xue Ling said, "I'll drive you there. Let's go."
At this moment, Xue Heng walked in with a calm expression, carrying a snack box and a water bottle in his hands.
"Have you packed it up? I'm a little pressed for time. I brought you a few steamed buns and dumplings from the big kitchen, as well as your favorite corn juice. Eat it in the car, don't be late."
Xue Han looked at him in disbelief, with slightly red eyes: "...Thank you, Dad."
"Let's go." Xue Heng showed a slight smile: "I'll drive."
Xue Ling winked at Xue Han and leaned close to her ear.
"Your parents are the people who love you the most and love you the most. There is no need to question it at all. Remember, no matter what happens, you can't hurt your parents. Don't make the people who love you the most sad. Do you understand? Otherwise you are
The stupidest leaky little cotton-padded jacket.”
Xue Han blushed and nodded slightly: "I understand."
After a while, Xue Ling watched his father and daughter drive away, then turned to the big kitchen to have breakfast.