Ahu patted his arm and whispered: "Pay more attention to the child in the future, and it will be fine. He is still young now and has many opportunities."
"Alas..." Chen Min smiled bitterly and sighed: "I'm already in my early twenties, so it's a little late."
Ahu said "Ha!" and said: "The brat in my family finally stabilized after getting married. Before, he was doing everything in his power. If Ayuan and sister-in-law hadn't helped me suppress him, that brat wouldn't have known that he was here.
Somewhere in the corner, you’ve become a second-rate person.”
Cheng Tianyuan didn't think so, explaining: "Little Huzi is just a bit skinny. He likes to play rather than study. He doesn't have any big shortcomings. The worst thing is probably that his family environment is too good, he spends money lavishly, and he likes to show off. Everything else is fine.
It's just a minor problem, and as long as the time comes and the person matures and has a more stable personality, many of them can be corrected over time."
"Hey!" Ah Hu stopped and said, "If you hadn't been so strict at that time and my sister-in-law had found an opportunity to help him with his career, he definitely wouldn't have been able to change. Man, you have to know how hard it is to make money before he knows how hard it is to make money.
It’s not easy, you have to save some money and don’t spend it indiscriminately.”
Chen Min couldn't help but feel envious and said: "He is making so much money now, married a beautiful wife, and has two such lovely children. Brother, what else are you dissatisfied with?"
Ahu laughed loudly: "Satisfied! I'm quite satisfied!"
He touched his swollen beer belly with emotion and admiration.
"I think he is only in his twenties, he can have his own career, and he can buy such a big courtyard house in the imperial capital, and he has a wife and son who can sleep on the bed. Compared with people of his age, he is considered to be top-notch. I think.
At his age, we are still like idiots. I went to learn to drive, and you sold things to people in the supply and marketing cooperative, and you didn’t have a few cents to spend in your pocket all day long. Thinking about it this way, that kid is really not a bad guy!
"
All three of them laughed.
Go around the corridor, come to the back garden, and go straight to the back door.
Cheng Tianyuan walked ahead and led the way, looking back from time to time.
"Amin, take advantage of this trip to come to the imperial capital to give the child a change of environment. Xiao Huzi is no longer the brat he was a few years ago, especially in the past two years, his temper has become much calmer. I suggest that it is better to let Xiao Huzi take care of the children.
Chen, let him look at the broader world, maybe his worldview and values can undergo major changes or changes."
Ahu also echoed: "That's right! We are all old antiques, and our thinking has long been unable to keep up with this society. Today's young people are all about the Internet. If they have a computer or a mobile phone, they can know everything about the world.
. We are no longer good, we have been out of touch a long time ago. We don’t understand any of their trendy words. After all, young people have to be led by young people in order to be led."
"Oh." Chen Min smiled sheepishly and hesitated: "I'm just afraid of causing trouble to you...Xiao Huzi has a family and a career, and is very busy every day. I'm afraid it will affect his work or something."
"What are you afraid of?!" Ahu said cheerfully: "I'll go back and tell him to go! That brat can't do anything else, but his arrogance is almost the same as when I was young. I am righteous, and he is also righteous. Take care of my little cousin, take care of him
Isn’t that what my relatives should do?”
Chen Min still didn't dare to agree and whispered: "Xiao Huzi is very busy and has a big career now. He has always cared about and cared for his cousin, which I have always been touched by. But that kid Ah Hao is too hopeless.
, maybe I don’t even dare to follow Xiao Huzi—”
"Don't think nonsense!" Ahu interrupted angrily: "How can you talk about a child like this? He is still young and still studying, how can you judge that he has no future? He has no future now, and he will definitely have no future in the future. You said you
As a parent, you just blame your child! Even if you really don’t dare, you still have to encourage him!”
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "Yes, you have to encourage your children appropriately. Xiaohao is now facing an academic and emotional crisis, and he is already exhausted physically and mentally. You parents must change your perspective. Instead of getting angry and blaming, you must first encourage and help your children to move forward.
come out."
"Alas!" Chen Min sighed in embarrassment: "I don't dare to tell my wife at home... If she knew that the boy jumped into the river, she would probably have to jump into the river too."
Ahu curled his lips and said, "What's so difficult about this? If you don't tell us and we don't tell you, how could my sister-in-law know?"
Chen Min scratched his short gray hair, feeling helpless and sad.
"When I was a son, I always thought about my family, taking care of my parents and my sisters. Since I had a son, I always felt that their generation had a very good life. They had enough to eat, drink, live, and go out.
They sit in the car and have money in their pockets. They don’t need to take care of their parents. They don’t have to earn money, they just need to study well. But they get depressed at every turn and want to jump into the river as soon as they turn around! I don’t know what day it is.
Life is so good, or what? It’s already so good, what else do they want?”
After hearing this, Ah Hu giggled.
"I have thought about this too, but I can't think of the reason at all. That's right! It was so difficult for us at that time, and it was not easy to have a full meal. How could we survive well? How come we are now young people?
Senior, on the contrary, you are so fragile and without experience!"
Cheng Tianyuan thought calmly and concluded: "It is probably caused by the general environment."
Chen Min smiled wryly: "We also have our own problems. Neither my wife nor I know how to teach children. Look, your children are all very good, especially A Yuan's four children. Each one is better than the other and each has its own merits.
They are both grown up and their academic performance is also very good. What I envy the most is that they have good temperament, confidence and sunshine, and are generous. On the day Yang Yang got married, I saw that their brothers and sisters got along very well. They also knew how to entertain guests and talked very well.
Okay. While I watched secretly, I was secretly envious."
"There are also a lot of shortcomings." Cheng Tianyuan said: "Don't just look at other people's strengths and focus on your own shortcomings."
Ahu nodded hurriedly: "That's right! The four children of Ayuan's family are all the best among people. You can't compare with them. In addition, they also have some shortcomings, but you haven't been in contact with them for long, so you didn't notice them."
"Every individual has shortcomings." Chen Mindao: "No one is perfect. However, A Yuan's children are indeed outstanding and have few shortcomings. The key is to make parents worry less. Unlike Xiaohao and Xiaohu
Son, one is so dull that he can't even speak, and the other is so naughty and restless - they are both careless guys!"
Cheng Tianyuan laughed dumbly, motioned to Ah Hu to open the door, turned around and sat down on the wooden pile at the door of the courtyard.
"Didn't I just say that? Don't always envy others. Others may not be as good as you envy. We are all parents, so we should have the same feeling. Those in my family have also made me happy