"If we don't get a divorce, the money on the books will be gone sooner or later. Where will I find money to raise my children and how will I support this family? I can't persuade her or control her. What else can I do except get a divorce?"
Chen Min scratched his hair in pain, leaned his head on his knees, and cried bitterly.
After everyone heard this, everyone felt sad for him.
Ah Hu was the most angry and said harshly: "You have talked to me a few times before, and I thought it was just a matter of time. Instead, I advised you to be more generous. After all, they are all my relatives. If you can take care of them, you must take care of them! Who?
You know it’s like this! How can it be like this! Let me tell you – people’s hearts are not as strong as snakes swallowing elephants! There is no bottom at all!”
Wang Qing's eyes were red and she whispered: "Cui Liu... Cui Liu is too much. My mother's family is home, but I have to take care of my own family. No matter how good my mother's family is, it is not your home after all. This is the truth.
I didn’t understand it at first, but then I gradually understood it. My brother was okay, but my sister-in-law was the kind of greedy person who always asked me for things. When my mother was alive, I was worried that my sister-in-law would treat me badly.
My mother was not good, so she tried her best to respond to requests and give her whatever she asked. At that time, I endured it. Fortunately, Ahu was more generous than me and allowed me to make arrangements. Later, after my mother passed away, I couldn't be the same as before. I went on my own.
My sister-in-law said that business is difficult and I can't help them all the time. Of course, my sister-in-law is not happy, but there is nothing I can do about it. My income is unstable and my family relies on Ahu for business. I can't always use my husband's money.
Go and please her. Fortunately, I live far away. Anyway, I can just bring some things to my nieces and nephews when I go back. As for whether she is happy or not, I really don’t care."
"That's right!" Ahu was so angry that he was at a loss and patted his cousin on the shoulder, "Amin! Don't be sad! I'll help you! When Xiaohao gets better, I'll accompany you back to Huicheng! I'll find Cuiliu's family.
Go and reason with me!"
Cheng Tianyuan frowned and shook his head: "How can we reason with a family like that? If their family could be reasonable, would they have ended up like this?"
"Then I'm going to hit someone!" Ahu clenched his fist and shouted: "Just use your fists when there's no reason! Even though I'm old, I still have a lot of strength!"
Xue Ling sighed helplessly and advised: "Calm down first and discuss it carefully. This matter sounds simple, but it is very difficult to deal with. If you really want to get rid of such a family, you may have to divorce. But now Xiaohao is still there
Lying in the hospital, his body is not healthy, and his mentality is not very good. He needs Amin and Cuiliu to give him care and support now. If his parents come to divorce at this moment, there will undoubtedly be more problems for the child.
Serious injury. After they are separated, Amin can temporarily get rid of Cuiliu and his family, but what about Xiaohao? He can no longer bear the blow now."
Everyone was silent.
When two people get married and have children, their families take root and grow together like plant roots, and become entangled like vines. Once they are torn apart, both parties must pay a heavy price.
They have been closely connected for more than 20 years and are dependent on each other. Once they are separated from each other, the skin will be torn and painful, and the skin will be torn and painful. In the worst case, they will be seriously injured, hurt innocent children, and even be unable to afford it.
No matter how great and sufficient the reasons of the parents are, the children of the marriage are innocent after all. If you can see it openly and agree to the separation of the parents, then it can be a different matter, at least you can accept it mentally. If not, for the children
It must be a catastrophe.
Ahu thought for a while and faltered: "It's more difficult for Xiaohao... Although the children are older, divorce is said to be easy, but there are a lot of worries when it comes to divorce, just like Xiaohao. Also, your supermarket has
Two families can still be divided into one person and one family, but other properties have to be divided, so it’s hard to say.”
Xue Ling reminded: "Amin's situation is a special case. If you really decide to divorce and must divorce, you can seek legal support and lean to your side. However, I do not support their divorce now. Once
Cuiliu's condition is not good and it would be very troublesome to leave her. Secondly, Xiaohao's situation is unclear and he needs his parents' support and care."
He Cuiliu committed suicide last night simply because of this incident.
If the divorce could be smooth and proper, why would it be so ugly?
Chen Min shouted excitedly: "I can't live any longer! I'm going to be forced to death by her! It's better for her to burn charcoal and commit suicide on impulse! She's trying to force me to die too!"
"Amin, please calm down first." Cheng Tianyuan frowned and advised: "After all, you have lived together for twenty or thirty years. Even if the relationship between husband and wife has faded, you still have several children. Now Xiaohao needs your love and care, and it is really not necessary.
I’m so anxious to file for divorce.”
Chen Min shook his head helplessly: "This time Xiaohao's incident has caused such a big fuss, which is completely beyond my expectation. When my child was expelled from school, I had already made up my mind to stay away for the time being and settle the child first. Who knew
Xiao Hao was so troubled that he was admitted to the ICU, so I had no choice but to notify her to come and help. Before she came, she told me that the child had better be fine, otherwise she would not want to live. Her husband was unreliable, and if her son was unreliable, there would be no hope in life. At that time, I
I didn’t take it into my heart at all, I didn’t expect that she really… ugh!”
"Amin, is it really necessary to leave?" Wang Qing sighed and asked, "How about we help persuade Cuiliu... maybe it will work."
Chen Min smiled bitterly: "If it had worked, it would have been fine. Cousin, we have known each other for twenty or thirty years. I am not the kind of person who cares about everything unless I am bullied to the point of being bullied. Her family members are just bullying me for being honest.
I have no courage to bully me. They always laugh at me privately and call me a useless coward. Cuiliu wants to take charge of the house, and I have no objection, but she can't bully me like a fool. No matter how honest a person is, there are those who can't stand it.
when."
"Cuiliu is determined not to get divorced, right?" Ahu asked.
Chen Min shook his head: "No, she was always the one who proposed divorce before. When her relatives came to ask for big money or valuables, she would always threaten her, saying that if she divorced me, she would get half of the property. Anyway, at home,
Half of it was hers, so she had the right to make the decision. She mentioned it dozens of times, but I had no choice but to endure it. In the end, I had no choice but to find a lawyer and draft an agreement for her."
"She can't accept it for a while, right?" Cheng Tianyuan guessed: "She was threatening you before, and she was sure that you didn't dare to get a divorce. Who knew that you suddenly became serious, and she was scared. In fact, she didn't want a divorce.
Yes, otherwise she wouldn’t be guilty of burning charcoal or anything like that.”
Chen Min rubbed his pale face irritably and took a long breath.
"After I filed for divorce, I felt a lot more relaxed inside. Before, I always felt that there was no end in sight, and I was extremely depressed. If I can get a divorce, I can at least see some hope."