Zheng Duoduo has been with Xue Ling for many years and knows her character quite well.
Hearing her say this, it was obvious that the matter had reached a serious level, otherwise she would never have said the word "warning".
He coughed uncomfortably and smiled awkwardly.
"Sister, your future son-in-law loves your daughter, don't you want it? If it were another mother-in-law, she might have to pray to gods and pray to hope that her son-in-law will love and pamper her daughter!"
Xue Ling said "Hey!" and smiled helplessly.
"He loves Xiaoxin, so we are naturally happy. But Xiaoxin is not mature yet, and her character is not stable enough. If I give her an overly pampering environment at this moment, I am afraid that her future will be more difficult. Duoduo,
I believe you should understand my philosophy on educating children."
"I understand, I understand!" Zheng Duoduo nodded hurriedly.
Having been her neighbor for many years and her direct subordinate for many years, I quite agree with her views on education, otherwise her children would not be so outstanding.
"But Sister Ling, you don't have to worry too much." Zheng Duoduo chuckled and said, "Xiaoxin is also a very good girl. Except for her weak personality, everything else is OK!"
Xue Ling slowly shook her head: "As a mother, I don't want her to be too weak. Women can be soft, but not weak. If she indulges in her temperament, she will probably become more than weak in the future."
"It's not that serious." Zheng Duoduo lowered his voice: "Xiaoxin has good academic performance and a gentle temper. I didn't find anything wrong... Could it be that I missed something, or is it Sister Ling that you are too
Sensitive?"
Xue Ling had no choice but to explain: "You haven't met her much and haven't had much contact with her, so you have missed her transformation in the past six months. However, you should know about the new 'Golden House Hidden Beauty' thing about her a while ago."
Forehead?
Zheng Duoduo rolled his eyes in embarrassment and then laughed in apology.
"I knew I could never hide it from you. After all, you are famous for your fiery eyes!"
Xue Ling glanced at him and snorted, pretending to be angry.
"How old are you, and you are still doing this in front of me? I am old, but I am not stupid yet! Xinzhi bought her a house and hired a nanny to take care of her three meals a day. She didn't even need to wash her clothes.
How does she look like a student? Can Teito University arrange a high-end single dormitory for each student, and have a nanny take care of each student? Ah?"
Just because she doesn't say anything doesn't mean she doesn't know anything.
Although she is busy, she has tried her best to spend time with her family since she retired. She does not know everything about her son and daughter, but she can still have a general understanding.
When that girl came back from school on weekends, she immediately had a huge appetite. She ate and drank and wanted to make up for all the food she had eaten before.
Moreover, on the day she returns home, she will take yesterday's clothes home and wash them together. The reason is that it is not easy to hang the clothes on the balcony to get dust when she returns home during the holidays.
Ever since Chen Xinzhi bought her a high-end suite and often took her out to have big meals, she didn't like going home on weekends.
Even when I go home, I just hide in my room playing games or reading books, and my appetite is not high at all.
Two weeks later, she began to notice something strange about her daughter and quietly called her dormitory. Her roommate said that she had not been living in the dormitory recently and asked her to call Xiaoxin's cell phone.
Zheng Duoduo laughed and apologized: "Sister, he has stopped at the brink and abandoned this safe house in time. After Xiaoxin finished her exam, he had fired the nanny and closed the apartment. He just invested in it.
It's just an apartment, a small transition. Don't be angry, he has changed his ways."
Xue Ling stopped and said, "Don't put in good words for him. I still know very well what kind of person Xinzhi is. He is too doting and protective of Xiaoxin. That girl is still in school, so we can't let her lose her limbs."
Diligence makes no difference. She is a girl, and I have lowered my requirements for her, but Xin Zhi will protect her tightly and will only spoil her."
"Xiao Xin is a measured child." Zheng Duoduo couldn't help but make the final struggle.
Xue Ling smiled slightly and said: "Otherwise? If she has no bottom line, how can I agree with her to find a man to fall in love at a young age? If it is an ordinary boy, then I will definitely treat it as a little girl who has just started to fall in love with her.
Just like a brother, I pretended not to know if I knew. But she chose such a powerful business veteran, so I was more worried. Xiaoxin is my daughter, and I still understand it. I was originally worried that she was too delicate.
She indulges herself too much and has no requirements for herself. Now that she has the great protector Xinzhi, she will let herself go even more."
Zheng Duoduo finally admitted defeat and whispered: "It is true... Tietou occasionally dotes on her too much, which is beyond what Xiaoxin can bear at her age."
“Yes.”
.But he has gone too far these days. Duoduo, we are old neighbors, and you should be very clear about my views on money and education of these children."
She had already made a lot of money when her children were very young. She owned large shopping malls, a dazzling array of high-end commercial buildings, and large tracts of expensive land in the imperial capital.
She has many business partners or friends who are struggling with their children's education. Many children only know how to have fun and enjoy themselves, but do not know how to use their parents' resources to create their own wealth, and even destroy the foundation that their parents have worked hard to save for decades.
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There were countless such examples, and she was used to them all.
Of course, there are also some children who are better than their peers. It cannot be said that all second or third generation rich people are like this.
But she is worried that her children will become prodigal, worried that they will destroy her wealth, and even more worried that they will ruin her life and the future of the family.
"Duoduo, it's easier to conquer a country than to keep it. I'm semi-retired, and those who will take over are my descendants or trustworthy descendants, such as you. If I don't educate you all well, how can I keep this industry in the future?
The ancients said: There is no word for luxury when a family is ruined, there is no word for ease when a person is divorced, and there is no word for arrogance when people are unhappy. Xiaoxin has already occupied two of them, how can I not worry about you? Huh?"
After hearing this, Zheng Duoduo breathed a sigh of relief and nodded solemnly.
"Sister, I understand. Don't worry, I will tell Shinzhi."
Xue Ling chuckled: "No need to say more, just give a general outline. Xin Zhi is a very smart person who understands everything. I didn't want to tell him directly because I was concerned about his face. He was originally helping me love my daughter.
Instead, I complained about him. And I was afraid that if I spoke harshly, my feelings would be easily hurt."
"I understand." Zheng Duoduo smiled with crooked eyebrows: "When you say that, I know how to control it appropriately."