Xue Yang felt extremely uneasy and didn't know where to place his eyes.
"Our family has always had a lot of people, and there are also a lot of brothers. Naturally, it is impossible for me to have only one child... I told Xiaoxiao before that when the economy gets better and we have more time, we can have one or two more children. I hope that I can have one or two more children with my father.
Mom, you are the same - have four children."
He grew up in a big and lively family since he was a child. He has grandparents behind him, brothers and sisters around him. He never has to worry about loneliness, let alone no one else to shoulder the responsibility of something.
Because no matter what happens, everyone will work together to get through it.
Ever since we were young, the atmosphere at home has been harmonious, with old and young loving each other.
The old people help each other, take care of each other, and have deep feelings.
My parents love each other as deep as the ocean, and they almost never quarrel. No matter what happens at home, they always discuss it and work side by side to support this huge family.
People who grow up in such a big family will naturally love their family and want to strive for their own big family. They hope that their children and grandchildren can enjoy the excitement and sense of community brought by a big family like him.
"It's just..." Xue Yang hesitated: "Now is really not the time..."
Cheng Tianyuan glared at him and asked: "Then when is the time? Huh?"
Xue Yang shrank his neck and whispered: "At least wait until my economic conditions are more stable and I have more free time. After Xiaoxiao finds a job, she still has to adapt to work, and she has to wait until her job is more stable. Also, Xiaoyu Xiao
Peng Neng has gone to elementary school and is more sensible. It will definitely be much easier for us to have children when the time comes."
"Impossible." Cheng Tianyuan and Xue Ling said in unison.
Xue Yang: "..."
Cheng Huanran poked the back of his brother's head and whispered: "Listen to your parents' explanation first."
Xue Ling smiled, with obvious tiredness in the corners of his eyes.
"Yangyang, Xiaoxiao, among the children in the family, you are the only one who is married and has a family, and has raised a pair of children. The others have not officially entered the marriage hall. Mom and your dad are both here, so I have to mention a few.
The facts give you some idea."
Wang Xiaoxiao nodded obediently: "Mom, tell me."
Xue Ling looked at his eldest son and smiled bitterly: "In my opinion, since we gave birth to the eldest son, we have never had any leisure time. Before I was pregnant with the eldest son, the financial situation of the family was very poor, and your father and I were alone.
I had to work two jobs, busy during the day and busy at night. Those days were hard, but also very sweet. When I was pregnant with Ranran, my family’s financial situation was slightly better. I opened a store in cooperation with Ahu and the others.
We used some second-hand goods from a clothing factory to wholesale. After Ranran was born, we continued to work hard while raising the baby. Then the second child was born, followed a few years later by the third child and Xiaoxin. However, he is now thirty-two.
Today, the third child, Xiaoxin, and the others are already in their third year of college, and your dad and I don’t seem to have a few leisurely days to spare.”
Others were stunned.
Cheng Tianyuan sighed helplessly: "Raising a child does not happen overnight, it takes countless days and nights. When he is young, you think it will be easier for him to go to kindergarten. Later, when he goes to kindergarten, you will find that there is still a child.
There are a lot of things to be busy with. You think it will be better when he goes to elementary school, but in fact, no matter whether he goes to elementary school, junior high school, high school, or even graduate school, there will never be a day when his parents don't worry about him."
"Yes!"
Yes - as long as you become parents and elders, you will probably never have to worry about anything in your life."
Xue Yang and Wang Xiaoxiao: "..."
Xue Ling lowered his voice: "I have started several businesses, from clothing to real estate, and later to Tianshu Group and Pharmaceutical Group. My business has expanded little by little, almost from nothing to something. In my opinion
, As long as you are enterprising, you will never be able to settle down at any time, especially before the age of fifty. I used to be busy with my children and my career, but now I am busy with my old age and my babies. I don’t think I will be able to relax at any time.”
"Yes!" Cheng Tianyuan smiled bitterly: "Who doesn't live a busy life while working hard to make money to take care of the children? You think too much about when you can have some free time and when it's the right time."
Cheng Huanran couldn't help but add: "If you work in a company, the next ten years will be very difficult. Xiaoxiao and Yangyang, you both graduated from college a few years later than ordinary people because of competitions and training. When your careers are stable,
It will take at least seven or eight years. By then you will no longer be young, and Xiaoxiao will also enter the category of advanced maternal age."
"How many years have you, Aunt Xue Cong, waited, and your cousin had to undergo thousands of injections before she finally gave birth to little one?"
More than a month ago. He was too young at the time, so he was named that way. The child is prone to illness and is physically weaker than ordinary children. These are all because your cousin gave birth to him at an advanced age."
Cheng Huanran echoed: "So, if you don't want to have children, then that's a different matter. If you still want to have a second or third child, you might as well give birth while you are young and strong now."
"Yes, I think so too." Xue Ling chuckled: "The financial problems you are worried about are not a problem for the time being. In addition, instead of letting Xiaoxiao have to wait for two or three years to have a baby, and unable to stabilize intermittently, it is better to take the opportunity to give birth.
When the three of them grow up and go to kindergarten together, Xiaoxiao will consider going to work. By then, the property Yangyang inherited should be divided. This alone will be enough for Xiaoxiao to be busy, and there is no need to look for a job outside. Take good care of your husband.
Wealth is much more important than other jobs, and you should earn more."
Rather than leaving it to outsiders to take care of in the future, it is better to teach your daughter-in-law to take care of their family's property.
It’s not that we can’t afford to raise several children, or that there are no other ways to find employment. Our company and group are well-known, so why worry about economic problems and future employment!
"That... seems right." Xue Yang pushed his daughter-in-law in his arms and whispered: "Honey, I want to start a business now, and I will have to rely on you to take care of my family business in the future. If you don't want to do other things,
From now on, the work will be all your responsibility."
Wang Xiaoxiao was extremely hesitant, sobbing and sniffing.
"I...I didn't think about it that much. I just felt...I was afraid of dragging you down and my parents. In fact, I couldn't bear to abort the child...I was very confused and worried."
She is a person who loves children very much. She wants to love other people's children, let alone her own flesh and blood.
"Since you can't bear to leave, just stay." Xue Ling smiled: "Anyway, you will graduate in two or three months. At that time, you will hire a nanny or nanny to come to your home to help you and bring up the three of them together.
Make plans slowly and don't have too many worries. Life is long and there are too many turning points and problems. Let's take them one by one and solve them one by one. Just face it with a steady mind."