Ahu frowned and asked, "What if it's true? You didn't see how noisy they were!"
"No matter how powerful it is, it doesn't matter." Cheng Tianyuan analyzed: "How serious can a husband and wife be when they quarrel? You helped out and helped your own son - that's your fault. The little tiger was incited by you and even beat Shan You -
You are also responsible for this!"
"I...I didn't say that I was right." Ahu held his head irritably, "Wasn't I angry at that time? I only have two precious grandsons, how can I bear to leave one of them in the South Island!"
Cheng Tianyuan's tone softened slightly and he said in a low voice: "We are just discussing it now, and it has not been finalized yet. If Xiao Huzi refuses, Shan You will naturally not do it rashly. This matter mainly depends on Xiao Huzi."
Ahu said "Hey!" and said angrily: "Yuyou also has no idea! She listens to her dad about everything! She does whatever her parents say! She only thinks about her parents.
Why didn't she think about us! My mother was a widow and raised me, and I didn't marry Wang Qing until I was in my thirties. I only have a son, Xiaohuzi. I finally have two grandchildren, and finally I don't need to pass it down to three generations alone - how can I let Xiaohuzi
This guy is going to the South Island for adoption!"
Cheng Tianyuan shook his head: "Don't think too much. Xiaohuzi and Shanyou are still young, and they are planning to have three children. The Shanyue couple have been ill in recent years, and their only daughter, Shanyou, is married here.
The two old people are too lonely, and they will inevitably want a lively and cute little guy to keep them company, so they made such a request."
"What about me?" Ahu shook his head: "I can't bear to part with it either! I also want my mini tiger!"
Seeing that he was angry, Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help but remind him: "Calm down, your blood pressure is going to spike again."
Ah Hu collapsed on the sofa, angrily speechless.
Cheng Tianyuan wiped Xiao Xiaohu's mouth and coaxed him to watch TV.
"You, you must have a good attitude. As the saying goes, children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. If you are anxious here, maybe Shan You and Xiao Huzi have reconciled and discussed it. The son and his daughter-in-law had a quarrel.
, if it’s just a small quarrel, you just pretend that you didn’t hear it. If the quarrel is serious, you have to step forward to persuade them to leave. When you quarrel, no one will give up. But only one party is pulled away, and there is no one.
The elders can help and coax him, and everything will be fine soon. It would be better for you to help your own son instead of helping him! This is your biggest mistake today."
"Actually, A-Qing and I also love Youyou." A-Hu muffled: "You also know this."
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "I know! But at that time, everyone was so angry that we couldn't think calmly. If we could calm down, there would be no need to quarrel, right?"
Ah Hu let out a long sigh.
Cheng Tianyuan said: "My daughter-in-law is no better than my own daughter. My Xiaoxin is the youngest in the family. She is the most squeamish and loves to act coquettishly, and she has a lot of bad habits. Although I love her the most and dote on her, I still have to say it when I need to.
He said, you have to scold when you should scold. Ling Ling also said that among the children, she is the most worrying. But Xiaoxiao is different. We can scold Xiaoxin, but it is difficult to scold our daughter-in-law, even if the tone is harsher.
No. Even if our daughter is beaten, she was born and raised by us. If her bones are broken and her tendons are connected, she will grow back and recover as before. My daughter-in-law is different. It is my duty to love her, so scolding her is too much."
"You rarely scold your children." Ahu muttered: "How can I be like little Huzi - you have always been angry with me since you were a child!"
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "Every child is different! Xiaohuzi has been naughty and mischievous since he was a child, and we are more gentle. He is angry with you, but he is also filial to you, right? We, Xiaoxiao, are also good children,
Hard-working and polite, she can endure hardships. No matter how hard it was to be pregnant with twins, she persevered. Less than two years after she came into the family, she gave birth to two boys and two girls in one go. She is a great contributor to our family. This alone makes our whole family happy.
You must love her and love her."
Ahu couldn't help but ask: "If the mother-in-law and the father-in-law come and ask for one or two to have their last name - can you agree? Give one to them?"
"Let Yangyang and Xiaoxiao make their own decisions." Cheng Tianyuan chuckled: "Lingling and I really can't control that much. When my mother was still here, she was angry that Xiaoyu didn't follow my surname of 'Cheng', and she even made a lot of noise.
God, you still remember this, right?"
"Yes." Ahu replied, "I remember."
Cheng Tianyuan continued: "Ling Ling and I had the same idea at the time. Let Xue Yang and Xiao Xiao arrange this matter, and we will not interfere. My mother can't accept it because she is an old-fashioned person. Ling Ling and I
We have the same idea. Anyway, no matter what their surname is, they are all our grandchildren, there is no difference at all. Of our four children, one and two have our surname. But no matter what their surname is, they are all our children, there is no difference at all.
.Brother, times have changed, and people’s thoughts and ideas are also changing. Don’t care too much about what you have and what you don’t have. The truth is that you can live a stable life.”
"You said it too easily!" Ahu said depressedly: "That's because you are open-minded... In fact, you are also very traditional at heart."
Cheng Tianyuan chuckled: "I have changed a lot over the years. Part of it is that Lingling has changed me, and part of it is that I am older and have taken things lightly. I don't know why, maybe because I have lived longer and my temperament is much calmer.
Some things that seemed life-and-death in the past now seem to be just trivial things, and I even laugh and don’t care anymore. I’m really getting old.”
When people live for a long time, they no longer care about many things. Sometimes it is the helplessness of being helpless, sometimes it is the calmness of indifference, and it is also the calmness and wisdom accumulated over the years.
Ahu thought for a while and whispered: "What you just said - some people regard bird's nests as treasures, while others regard them as garbage. Whether it is a treasure or garbage, the most important thing is actually what the person thinks, right? I don't care.
When you care about it, it doesn’t matter anymore. When you care about it, it stays in your heart.”
A Yuan and Lingling are both open-minded people, so they don't care too much about their grandson's surname and leave it all to their juniors.
He is different from Wang Qing. They care too much, so they worry about gains and losses.
"That's the truth." Cheng Tianyuan lowered his voice: "Don't take it too seriously, and you can feel more relaxed. You can manage your sons, daughters, and grandchildren. Can you continue to manage them? What about the great-grandchildren? In the past, I was old.
When the ancestors changed their names, they probably thought it was just a matter of recognition and remembering which clan they came from. Later, when there were more people, they lived together, there were intermarriages, and various surnames were given and changed, it became chaos long ago.
During our lifetime, our children will live a good life and live a stable and happy life, which is good enough. Brother, please take everything lightly."
"Alas..." Ahu sighed faintly: "That's all, let them young people make their own decisions. They really... can't be controlled."