No matter how enlightened Cheng Tianyuan is, he is still an old father who is greatly influenced by traditional thinking.
"You can have a late marriage and have a quick marriage...but 'not getting married' is unjustifiable."
The third child has not been naughty since he was a child and is a well-behaved and cheerful boy.
He studied hard and his grades have always been very good. Later he fell in love with painting, and he painted for more than ten years.
To be honest, he is one of those children who are born to be academics. His parents never have to worry about his studies. Even though he went to Teito University, which is full of talented people, he was still able to get scholarships every year.
Others still rely on their parents to provide pocket money and living expenses through bank cards, but he has become financially independent. He has been earning a lot of money as early as high school, and now he has an annual income of over 10 million before graduating from college.
While others worked hard to find channels to study abroad, he was recommended by his tutor to receive a semi-guaranteed place at a prestigious school. After approval, he would receive a full scholarship.
Unexpectedly, the third child, who had the least worries and least need for them to worry about, would come up with such a weird "non-marriage" view on marriage at the most wonderful age when he had both good academic and career achievements!
Cheng Tianyuan, who was severely frightened, secretly expressed that he couldn't accept it at all!
Father Xue echoed: "That's right! It doesn't matter if it's a little later. People nowadays are well-maintained anyway, and they look young when they are forty or fifty years old. He will go to study abroad next, and it will be later. Anyway, his big brother will be there to support him.
, we won’t rush him.”
"They said 'no marriage!'" Mother Xue slammed the table angrily: "It's not 'late marriage'! Did you hear clearly? The third child said that we should not get married - no marriage!"
Wang Qing laughed apologetically: "A Chong is young and energetic, and he is probably just joking with his mother. He can't count his actions, and he can't take them seriously."
"That's right!" Ahu explained: "My sister-in-law also thinks that he has a child's nature and doesn't take it to heart at all, so she doesn't even try to persuade him. If we take it seriously, my sister-in-law will not be the first to spare him! Hahaha!"
Cheng Tianyuan didn't think so in his heart. Once the pimple popped up, he couldn't get it back.
He and Xue Ling have been married for decades, and they know each other best. She would not suddenly say that for no reason, and he could tell at a glance whether his wife was joking.
If the third child was just joking, why would Ling Ling look so embarrassed?
Wang Qing helped Xiao Xiaohu wipe his mouth and said: "Nowadays, the Internet is too developed. One person has a mobile phone, and one mobile phone is the world. Young people's thoughts are too free and indulgent. When any trend comes out, it is easy to follow the trend. The third child
He works on the Internet all year round, and it will be affected to some extent. I heard that young people abroad, especially the younger generation in developed countries, are very few who want to get married and have children - there are many who are not married and have no children.
. Maybe when we become more developed, more children will not like to get married. However, the third child grew up in a big family, and he likes children so much. I believe it will only be a short-term impact, and it will definitely not happen in the future."
"That's right!" Xue's father praised: "Ah Qing is right. Children from our traditional families tend to have more traditional thoughts. The third child is engaged in Internet painting, and he is easily misled by other young people. But as long as
After some persuasion and discussion, he can eventually return to the traditional family model."
Ahu couldn't help but nodded: "Yes, yes! The third child likes children so much. Before Xiaoyu's friends were born, he would rush over to the little tiger brothers whenever he saw them, hugging and kissing them.
Hahaha! People who love their children love their families! Don’t worry!”
Xue's mother was an action person and muttered: "When he comes back at the weekend, we have to test him. If he dares to say that he doesn't want to get married, we will scold him to death - he won't be allowed to mess around!"
"What are you talking about!" Father Xue asked in a funny tone: "Are you willing to give it up? When he says "Grandma" with a big smile, you will laugh more happily than anyone else!"
Mother Xue glanced at him and gave up: "One thing is another thing. If he engages in non-marriage or hedonism, we really can't spare him."
"What? Hedonism?" Father Xue asked: "What is it? What kind of enjoyment?"
Xue’s mother explained: “It is said on TV that some young people now feel that social pressure is too great and domestic competition is too fierce. They decide to lie down. Now they are drunk and now they are drunk. Moonlight is moonlight and time is time. Anyway, they are living a good life.
Just enjoy the present moment."
"That's not possible!" Father Xue shook his head: "If our ancestors thought so too, then how did we get here? Without the people in the past who overcame all obstacles and opened up new territories, and without the various sacrifices of the older generation, where would we be?
Today's good life? Even animals know how to protect the next generation of the race. Otherwise, they cannot reproduce and the race will be extinct sooner or later. How can we humans not understand?"
"Who knows!" Xue's mother sighed helplessly: "There are too many unhealthy ideas nowadays! What some young people say... Anyway, I don't break the law and I don't commit crimes. I can do whatever I like. It doesn't matter to other people.
Things - I have the final say in my life. Some young people can't stand the pressure, so they just don't care and lie down. We really can't understand or figure it out."
Cheng Tianyuan smiled and said warmly: "Dad, Mom, let alone you eighty or ninety-year-olds, even those of us in our fifties and sixties can't figure it out."
"That's right!" Ahu smiled bitterly: "We didn't have anything we wanted at that time, and even having a full meal felt like the happiest thing in the world. Today's young people have everything they want, but they like to make all kinds of troubles. They
, it’s just that my life was going too good!”
"No." Wang Qing corrected: "They feel that their life is too bad."
Xue’s father really couldn’t figure it out and analyzed: “Maybe...maybe it’s because we eat too much and things get more complicated. In the past, we were busy running around all day just to have enough food and clothing. Our pursuits were not high.
Just live a better life. Today's young people have to pursue too much, as long as they can pursue it. If they can't pursue it, they will easily become world-weary, lie down, and comfort themselves with indifferent attitudes. How should I put it? It should be regarded as an inevitable product of social development.
Bar."
"Yes, yes, yes!" Ahu said: "The better the living standard, the more and more weird ideas there are!"
Cheng Tianyuan smiled and said: "But if the living conditions are good, it is better than when the conditions are poor, right? There are advantages and disadvantages. How can everything be good? Then there will be no worries. Where there are people, there will be worries. Materials can keep up.
If the spiritual level cannot keep up temporarily, it will take time to slowly filter and finally retain the most suitable concepts and thoughts."
Xue's father whispered: "When the third child comes back, I will talk to him again. Whether it is unmarried or DINK--all of them are not acceptable."
"Hmm." Cheng Tianyuan was thoughtful.
"Okay!" Mother Xue stood up: "Everyone, go about your business and stop talking about society. Those who should go to work go to work, and those who should take care of their children will take care of their children. Life must be good. No matter how hard it is, there will always be something good.
day."
"Yes! Ayuan, you should go to work!"
"Little Tiger has to go to kindergarten, it's almost time!"