Shan You was also ashamed and whispered: "If it were me, I definitely can't do it. I can't even raise two children, let alone start a career!"
Wang Xiaoxiao thought for a while and said: "In the past, people of the older generation were busy every day, having to go to work and take care of their children. They used briquettes at home, which made everything slow. Clothes had to be washed by hand, and they even had to carry water to drink...
…I don’t know how they survived.”
"But they still survived!" Shan You lowered his voice: "In such a comparison, we are really weak."
Wang Xiaoxiao smiled bitterly: "My mother said that when she was pregnant, she had to go to work, and she would go up and down the stairs with a big belly every day. She would do all the work she could do by herself. After she gave birth to our sisters, she and her father took care of each other.
She said that I don’t have to go to work now. I have four children and three nannies. Professional chefs prepare large meals and small meals. There are housekeepers for cleaning, and the elders in the family will help take care of the children whenever they have time.
So she helped me. She said she couldn't figure out why I said I was too busy and tired all day long. She didn't know if it was because it was difficult to take care of children now, or because I was too pretentious."
"We are too pretentious." Shan You laughed and told the truth: "Isn't it the same for me? When the child was young, there was a nanny and a nanny. Later, the parents-in-law helped take care of them. Now the nanny still does all the housework.
.”
The two looked at each other, feeling a little embarrassed on their faces.
At this time, Wang Xiaoxiao's cell phone rang.
She glanced at him and whispered depressedly: "Yangyang said he won't be back for dinner because he has something to do and won't get home until about ten o'clock."
Shan You is used to it, but he is not surprised: "The one in my family rarely gets home before ten o'clock. If he can come back before midnight, it is considered good!"
Wang Xiaoxiao sighed quietly: "No, I have to lose weight and exercise hard. I must lose weight, otherwise I may be rejected by my husband one day."
"I think so too." Shan You couldn't help singing a classic line: "Falling in love with someone who doesn't come home, waiting for a door that doesn't open..."
Xue Ling, wearing a straw hat, hurried past with a large pile of weeds and stuffed them into the large trash can in the corner.
Then, she walked back quickly.
Wang Xiaoxiao smiled and shouted: "Mom, take a rest for a while, come here to enjoy the cool air."
Xue Ling smiled and took off his gloves and hat, and wiped the sweat from his forehead with the back of his hand.
"It's not too hot yet, but I can't help but sweat when I'm exposed to the sun. Why don't you go over and have tea? There's Biluochun over there in the pavilion."
Wang Xiaoxiao shook his head: "No, I'm afraid I won't be able to sleep if I drink too much."
"I don't want it either." Shan You said with a smile: "It's a long night, and if you can't sleep, you'll feel worse. It's better not to drink, so as not to lose sleep after drinking too much."
Xue Ling sat on a small stone pier nearby, fanning his big straw hat.
"When I was your age, I wished I could have a little more time to sleep every day. I drank tea just to refresh myself and not make myself sleepy all the time. As long as it touches the pillow, I can fall asleep in no time. Just sit down and drink it.
Tea, try to drink as much as possible, and try to feel better."
The two young mothers looked at each other, dumbfounded as they discussed their troubles.
After hearing this, Xue Ling only found it funny and laughed out loud.
"If Xiaohuzi or Yangyang were the kind of playboys, you might need to worry or worry like this, but they are not at all. They don't have that much time to spend with you because they are really too busy to have time. What are you thinking?
Woolen cloth?"
Shan You blushed and hesitated: "Auntie, he is... different from before. He is not even active in having three children with me."
"It's not up to my ability!" After all, Xue Ling is an elderly aunt, and she doesn't have too many taboos in speaking. She can say whatever she wants: "Regardless of men and women, as long as they have passed the childbearing period and are busy and stressed at work, it is not appropriate for them to be intimate with each other.
Things are not as positive as they were when I was younger.”
"Mom, were you and Dad like this before?" Wang Xiaoxiao asked boldly.
Xue Ling nodded: "Yes! It's not just us, most couples are like this. What we say is common, not everyone is the same. There are exceptions for everyone. In fact, it is even worse for young people nowadays. After all, we are
At that time, the work pressure and financial pressure were not as great as yours. When you were in love, being intimate and affectionate was normal. After you got married, had a baby, and was busy with work and kids every day, your mind and energy were taken up, plus some miscellaneous things.
There are enough things to keep people busy. When I have time, I just want to have a good sleep or be in a daze, playing with my mobile phone. How can I find any charming thoughts when I am so tired!"
Shan You echoed: "It's the same! Every time I go home it's late at night, I take a quick shower, then I lie on the bed and check my phone, then I turn around and fall asleep, my child hasn't woken up since school. Occasionally I can't help but
If you talk to him, he will be tired and say he is under a lot of pressure."
Wang Xiaoxiao pouted: "Yangyang is about the same. He goes home a little early, but he is also exhausted every time. The children crawl around on him, and he coaxes them lazily. Many times the children still
He didn't sleep, he already slept like a dead pig."
Xue Ling understood very well: "I heard from the third child that Yangyang seems to be cooperating with Aqing to open a garment factory recently. People's energy is limited. They have to take care of the company and open a new factory. They are so busy outside.
, of course I just want to fall down and sleep when I get home."
"I'm always worried that he dislikes my poor figure." Wang Xiaoxiao told the truth: "Occasionally I see myself in the mirror, and I can't accept it. Some of my best friends say that men are all big pigs, and the beauty of the family is no longer beautiful.
, of course you have to go out to eat secretly, and not just one or two, the probability is very high. I hear it too much, and I can't help but feel uncomfortable."
Xue Ling smiled and told the truth: "There must be men who cheat and love to eat. There are enough on TV. Ordinary people's families are stable and there is nothing surprising. Naturally, something special must be broadcast, otherwise the audience
I'm not interested in watching it. In the past, the carriages and horses were slow, and you could only love one person in your life. Now, in the colorful world, there are too many temptations outside."
"Mom, do many of your male friends or colleagues cheat on you?" Wang Xiaoxiao asked curiously: "Have you ever thought about it? Not many of them have, right?"
Xue Ling thought about it carefully and answered: "About one or two out of ten people. In addition, men with more traditional ideas generally will not cheat or divorce. On the contrary, the cheating and divorce rates of the younger generation are higher. Real success
People like this, whether they are men or women, will handle their marriage relationship calmly, will not betray their marriage at every turn, and will not divorce easily."
"Why?" Shan You asked funnyly: "Successful and wealthy people also need to be afraid of divorce? Isn't that true?"
Xue Ling smiled and shook his head: "There are indeed a few such people around me, but they are not really afraid of divorce. They just don't want to mess up the family. Maintaining family stability has only benefits for them, no harm. After weighing the pros and cons,
Natural selection maintains the stability of the family."