Xue Ling found it even more funny and asked: "Electricity is very dangerous. Do we not use electrical appliances because it is dangerous? Water can drown people. Is it possible that we do not use water or drink water because we are afraid of being drowned?"
Wang Xiaoxiao was speechless for a moment and hesitated: "That's not true."
Xue Ling chuckled: "Many people feel that it is tiring to support a marriage. They think that marriage is a burden, a shackle, a burden, and an arduous responsibility. In fact, marriage is indeed like this. But everything has its disadvantages and advantages, and you can't just look at everything about marriage.
It’s disadvantages and ignores its beauty.”
Shan You pouted and said aggrievedly: "There must be some good things, but it feels like there are too few. If it can be done half and half, then it's okay. But obviously the disadvantages outweigh the good things! Some people around my age don't even want to
Even though I'm married, I'm already a mother of two children. I have an old one and a young one. The responsibilities are so heavy that sometimes I can't breathe. Many times, I really envy my friends who are not married. They are free and can do whatever they want.
Well, you can take a trip anytime and anywhere. For stay-at-home wives like us, it’s simply impossible.”
"Didn't I say it just now?" Xue Ling explained with a smile: "You envy others, but how do you know that others don't envy you? Some people envy you for being a mother of two children at a young age, envy you for living in a mansion in a courtyard, envy you for having
She has a luxury car and a very motivated husband. The prerequisite for traveling as long as you want is that your financial conditions permit, your work environment permits, and your family of origin permits it. Not everyone can be so cool as long as they are not married."
Shan You said "Hmm~~" and then smiled.
Xue Ling squinted his eyes and continued to fan, and said: "Everything needs to be managed carefully, and relationships and marriages are the same. If you invest more and do it in the right way, you will get more. If you manage it properly, the happiness and happiness you get in your marriage will be the same."
There are many good things. If it is not managed well, your family will be like a mess, filled with all kinds of trivialities and discomforts, and it may even go bankrupt - divorce."
Shan You and Wang Xiaoxiao looked at each other, both feeling deeply and thoughtfully.
Xue Ling still wanted to pull weeds and was about to get up——
Wang Xiaoxiao took her hand and said coquettishly: "Mom, you are so good at business and marriage. Why don't you give us a trick and teach us!"
"Yes, yes! Auntie, please give us some tricks." Shan You also acted coquettishly.
Xue Ling laughed and said: "First, correct your attitude and acknowledge your choice and marriage. Then, live in harmony with your family, respect the elderly and love the young, be considerate and love your husband. Especially the fact that you love your husband and care about your husband, you must remember it well.
live."
"Why do you feel so distressed?" Shan You couldn't help but smile bitterly: "He is so busy that he doesn't even let me see his soul. How can I be considerate and distressed for him?"
Xue Ling shook his head: "I have worked hard outside, and I understand that it is not easy for men and women in the workplace to work hard outside. Emotions need to interact with each other. If you love him, he will love you. If you are considerate to him, as long as he is not a jerk,
He will also know how to be considerate of you. If he is a hard-working man who works hard outside and just wants to take a rest when he comes home, hoping that someone will love him and be considerate of him. But you want him to be considerate of you when he comes home instead.
He still has to coax you, and over time, he will feel tired or disappointed. When he is missing something, he can't help but be moved when someone offers him warmth."
Speaking of this, Xue Ling lowered his voice: "Some men cheat not because they want to cheat, but because they can't get family warmth and consideration from their wives, and others can give it to them, so they turn to others. So, be sure
When you live there, don't take your husband's love for you for granted. You must also know how to reciprocate his love. Remember, love is mutual and is never an unconditional contribution from one party. Of course, this is an example of a good man and a good husband.
Suitable for playboys and scumbags.”
Shan You and Wang Xiaoxiao both laughed.
Xue Ling said warmly: "We are all lucky to choose the person we like to live our whole life. I have always advised the younger generation that the most important thing when choosing a person is character, and then fall in love. In addition, it must be because you love the other person deeply.
Marry him. After the passion, all that is left in a marriage is three meals a day, even trivial matters on the floor, and all kinds of cruel realities that make people crazy. If that person is not the one you truly love, you want to stick to it.
It’s really hard to go down.”
"So, my mother never forces the eldest brother to go on a blind date, nor does she force the third child to have a relationship." Wang Xiaoxiao laughed and revealed the reality: "If it weren't for my grandparents nagging me all the time, my mother would even arrange various social events for the eldest brother.
I don’t even want to have a party.”
Xue Ling suppressed a laugh and hurriedly looked in the direction of her parents. She found that the two of them were staring at the newly sprouted rapeseed. Apparently they had not heard the "gossip" here and secretly breathed a sigh of relief.
"I already have a lot, and I don't want to trade my children's happiness for something I already have. As long as they are happy in their hearts and can find someone who truly loves each other to be with them for the rest of their lives. Slow down, hurry up, or don't choose in the future.
, I wouldn’t mind it too much.”
Wang Xiaoxiao laughed softly and whispered to Shan You, who was confused.
"Recently, several of Mom's business friends came to her, saying that they were interested in her eldest brother's talent and work ability, and wanted to marry powerful families. Mom refused, saying that if her son fell in love with their daughter or niece, he would naturally
Take the initiative to pursue him. The most she can do is force her eldest brother to attend social events, but she will never arrange a marriage for him."
Shan You suddenly understood and said with a smile: "I know Auntie, she is not that kind of person. She creates wealth but is not constrained by wealth. She is a businessman, but she is not a profit-seeking person who only values benefits."
"Yes!" Wang Xiaoxiao was full of admiration: "From now on, I will follow my mother's example and be a worldly person, but not trapped by the world. I can see through the world and live a free and easy life."
Xue Ling laughed loudly, "I was so excited after hearing this! It's not as good as what you said! I'm just a common man. I'm just older than you and have seen more worldly things than you, so I know a little more than you.
.When you reach my age, you will definitely be more transparent and free-spirited than me."
"Madam! Madam!" Ah Chao hurried over and lowered his voice: "Earlier, someone was sneaking across the road to spy on Xinyuan. The person seemed to be a private detective."
"Oh?" Xue Ling asked calmly: "What's the background? Have you found out?"
Ah Chao replied: "We only found out that he is a well-known detective apprentice. For the specific reason why he spied on Xinyuan, we have to contact him face to face. But according to industry regulations, he should not reveal it."
Xue Ling thought for a while and whispered: "Don't be careless. Contact him after thorough investigation. Be sure to find out who hired him and what the other party's specific purpose is."
Ah Chao nodded and quickly backed away.
That evening, Xue Ling received investigation information from the bodyguard.