Ahu couldn't help but frown and asked, "Not at all?"
"No!" Chen Min smiled bitterly: "The eldest is almost the same as Yang Yang from Ayuan's family, but Yang Yang is already the father of four children! There is no one for the three of them, and they still refuse to look for them - I am worried to death!"
Ah Hu also had a look of disbelief: "At their age, if I could get a fixed salary a month, I would definitely find a partner! When I was in my twenties, my heart was burning with passion every day, and no matter what the obstacles were, I would
Don’t live like that!”
Everyone laughed.
Cheng Tianyuan said: "We were different back then. We were not as rich in materials as we are now. We were very simple. We were lucky enough to be able to barely fill our stomachs. At that time, weddings were simple, with wedding candies and a formal suit.
Wearing a red flower on the clothes and affixing the word "happy" is considered a wedding. For families with a better financial situation, it is grand enough to put a few dishes on the table and invite friends to get together."
"That's right!" Ahu said with a smile: "If the employer can pay you thirty yuan in salary, you can be considered a top-notch person! So I don't understand the young people nowadays. They have everything and their lives are so good. Why?
Why don’t you get married and find a partner?”
"Influence." Chen Min frowned and explained: "My daughter loves to watch TV dramas on TV and mobile phones all day long. She always tells me that the divorce rate is so high now. If she will eventually get divorced, why should she get married?
The partner can make money, and she can make money. When you get married, the woman has to bear and take care of the children, and she has to do housework. What can you get from the exhausting work? Eventually, when life gets boring, you have to divorce. After divorce, the child
How pitiful, she has to work and take care of her children, so where can she find the energy to make money and live a good life? She can't do anything about it, anyway, she is afraid of marriage and childbearing. She also said that unless she can marry a rich and beautiful CEO like her cousin,
I would rather be single for the rest of my life.”
"Little Tong?" Ahu asked, "Duoduo's wife? Right?"
Chen Min nodded: "Among all my sisters, my younger sister, Xiao Tong, is the best to marry. She is beautiful and has good academic performance. If she stays in the imperial capital after graduation, she can still find someone as good and as rich as she is.
My husband is the envy of all his relatives. Young girls think that others can marry well, so why can’t she? So she picks all kinds of objections and has an outrageous vision. That’s how my daughter is treated
The impact is coming.”
"How come there are so many CEOs!" Ahu laughed: "With so many companies and groups in the imperial capital, how many unmarried young CEOs can there be? Ten fingers are enough to count them, right?"
"Yes!" Chen Min stopped and said, "Everyone has to be chosen well. With such high standards, how can you find so many outstanding CEOs to marry, right?"
Cheng Tianyuan said with a smile: "Little Tong is not necessarily that happy. She has to study and take care of her family and children, which is quite hard. Besides, Duoduo is a workaholic, putting work first and working overtime every three days. The couple
Everyone is so busy that I probably can’t even get together more on the weekends. It looks very beautiful and looks good, but how many people can understand the hard work and bitterness involved?"
"Look!" Chen Min smiled bitterly: "Xiao Tong also has Xiao Tong's depression!"
Wang Qing's hands trembled and trembled, and she whispered: "Mindset...it's all a matter of mentality and three outlooks."
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "It is indeed a matter of mentality."
"But I don't know how to persuade them." Chen Min shook his head: "I can't persuade them, and I don't know how to persuade them. Say more, they think I'm nagging. I won't say anything, and it doesn't seem right.
.As a parent, how can you be willing to let your children live alone without finding a partner, right?"
Ahu patted his shoulder and sighed: "Brother, don't think too much, there are really not many things we can take care of. Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. If they think it's good, then let them do it."
"There's nothing you can do if you don't follow." Chen Min chuckled and said, "They can do whatever they want, I don't care. I ended up getting divorced myself, so I have no qualifications to teach children how to organize a family and take care of it.
family."
"You can't say that." Cheng Tianyuan whispered: "There are still many things that we can't do! Is it possible that we are not qualified to care about our children? Right?"
Chen Min smiled bitterly: "Parents are role models for their children. If I can't do that well, the children... are quite disappointed with their marriage and family. They are afraid of marriage and childbearing, and this is also the reason why their parents' marriage failed."
"It's not your fault." Ahu comforted him, "You have always been a good father, and they all know it in their hearts. Now they are close to you and are very filial to you, that's enough."
Chen Min's eyes turned slightly red, and he whispered: "If my family is harmonious and beautiful, why would my children be like this? Look at A Yuan's family, he and his sister-in-law have always been very loving, and the children are doing well. Even if it's too late,
Some people are looking for a partner, but they will eventually find one. They will not be afraid of getting married, let alone insist on not getting married and having children. Family and parents are the main influencing factors... I know."
"It's up to them to figure it out." Cheng Tianyuan reassured: "There will be some influence, but not all. The main reason is that the current media propaganda concepts are not very correct. The optimistic consumption concept is not correct. That kind of thing
Life is short, love yourself more, buy all kinds of luxuries, spend too much, etc., are all wrong."
Ahu frowned and shook his head: "It's all wrong! It's harmful to people!"
Cheng Tianyuan continued to explain: "Some young people spend their money and even use their credit cards to buy luxury goods - these will harm the younger generation. How much they earn can be spent, and their parents and families don't have to bear the burden? Even if they don't have to bear the burden for the time being, they don't have to plan for the future.
Making plans? We, the older generation, are all afraid of not having any savings. If we don’t have money around us, we will feel unsure and have all kinds of panic and uneasiness. Young people must taste the pain and panic of not having any savings before they finally wake up. Some wrong ideas
It spreads too fast, and the impact is very bad. It sounds reasonable. Young people are prone to make mistakes due to all kinds of cajoling and temptation, and in the end they pay a heavy price."
"Young people have soft ears and little social experience, so they are easily deceived!"
"That's right! Recently there has been a lot of propaganda about favoring boys over girls, which has made family relationships indifferent and caused all kinds of conflicts with parents. My little Yun'er can't help but get angry every time she sees it! Girls are also born to their parents.
How could a person who was raised by parents occasionally engage in antagonism and confrontation because of their different treatment? The family relationship is getting worse and worse because of all kinds of messy TV series and media videos. Fortunately, Xiao Yun'er has grown up and understands
Decide what’s right and what’s wrong.”
"Not necessarily. One generation was lucky enough to escape. Isn't there another generation? Don't let your children see those messes. We should promote correct values and family values to avoid being taught bad things indiscriminately!"
Cheng Tianyuan raised his eyes and unconsciously realized that the sunset had already set, and quickly got up.
"We can't rest anymore. Let's quickly go back and wash the river clams. If we continue talking, there will be no dinner left!"