Xue Ling looked at him with squinted eyes and asked, "Why? Tell me the truth."
"That--" Zheng Duoduo whispered: "She is not the kind of person who compromises easily. I only thought about letting her fall to pieces, and then she came to her senses. Instead of persuading her to give up, it is better to let her give up on her own.
"
"Nonsense!" Xue Ling shouted in a deep voice: "You clearly know that she will not compromise easily, but you still let her stumble and persevere?! The more this happens, the more anxious and uncomfortable she becomes, and the less she dares to give up!"
Zheng Duoduo was thoughtful and hesitant: "I-I want her to give up completely. In the past, I protected her so that she could have a smooth life with the group. But she thinks she has outstanding abilities... She must be recognized
Let’s be clear about the facts.”
Xue Ling rolled her eyes at him and asked: "Then what? Did she realize it? She only knew that you were indifferent and did not help her and did not support her in starting a business. If you left her alone, she would be angry with you. It is easy to lose her anger.
Reasonable, even divorce was proposed - this shows how serious it is!"
"I was wrong, I was wrong." Zheng Duoduo took the initiative to admit: "In this regard, I am indeed too stubborn."
"You guy!" Xue Ling scolded in a deep voice: "You are usually quite smart, but why are you messing around at such a critical moment! People's hearts cannot withstand torture. Not only can they not withstand temptation, but they cannot withstand indifference."
Zheng Duoduo defended: "I can't help her... and she won't let me help."
"Does she really think so?" Xue Ling couldn't help but ask, "Really? Are you sure? If she doesn't have any illusions about you, she doesn't want you to help her."
Zheng Duoduo was slightly stunned, then said: "I admit - I also have some elements of anger."
"Thankfully you are still a man!" Xue Ling said: "You have been bragging all day long that your wife was married to be loved and coaxed. You talk about it nicely, but at the critical moment you become angry and cold and confrontational! You say one thing and do another! Really?
How hypocritical!"
"Sister~~" Zheng Duoduo said coquettishly: "Don't! I was wrong. I was wrong. I will change it! Change it immediately!"
Xue Ling glanced at him and asked, "It's impossible for Xinzhi to support you in doing this, right? Why didn't he persuade you?"
Zheng Duoduo told the truth: "I didn't tell him much, and he didn't know much about it. I talked to Yangyang before, and he was quite supportive of me."
"Yangyang?" Xue Ling was speechless for a while and said: "You boys will definitely do nothing good if you get together! Personal situations are different. Xiaoxiao grew up in the national team and received various strict trainings since she was a child, so she has an independent personality.
Tough and strong. Xiao Tong grew up with the love of her parents. She has been beautiful and smart since she was a child, and her academic performance is so good, so she has arrogance and a spirit of reluctance hidden in her bones. Listen to Yangyang, have you ever thought about his wife?
Is your wife’s personality different?”
"...No." Zheng Duoduo replied in a low voice.
Xue Ling continued to analyze: "Xiaoxiao used to challenge new records every day. She knows that there are people outside the world, so there is a spirit of humility and exploration in her bones. Xiao Tong is different! She knows it is impossible, but she still dares to grit her teeth
She is a very proud girl. She cannot suppress her, but can only coax her to recognize the reality and follow her temper, do you understand?"
"I understand." Zheng Duoduo said with admiration: "Sister, Jiang is still very old. Looking at people, you are much more experienced than me."
Xue Ling sneered: "Because I'm older than you!"
"Where is it!" Zheng Duoduo coaxed: "You are the immortal goddess in our hearts, always young, beautiful, smart and wise."
Xue Ling chuckled: "Okay, okay, don't coax me. Keep this part of your heart and coax your wife. Husband and wife, in the feudal dynasty before, the husband was the guide for his wife, but times have changed. The husband comes first.
, because the husband plays a leading role in the family, the leader and the helmsman. Whether your wife can go ahead with you or hold you back depends on you as the leader."
"I know." Zheng Duoduo smiled bitterly: "I made a miscalculation and deliberately made her angry...that's why the trouble became so serious."
"The most unforgivable thing is that you don't know it!" Xue Ling pointed out the most critical point, saying: "When thinking about things, you have to consider many aspects and don't be stubborn. Although you are smart, you can't be smart all your life. Even a saint can
Maybe people who are smart can be confused for a while, let alone us ordinary people."
"Yeah." Zheng Duoduo nodded after being taught: "I will definitely learn my lesson this time. I...I will go find her when I get back."
Xue Ling smiled slightly and explained: "I had lunch with Xiao Tong and chatted with her for a long time. I took her to a romantic place, coaxed her well, and ate her favorite food with her -
—Don’t forget to bring a bouquet of flowers to apologize.”
"Thank you, sister." Zheng Duoduo was very grateful and said, "I guessed that you came here for our business, but I didn't expect that you had already looked for Xiao Tong... Thank you."
Xue Ling said warmly: "She also realizes her mistakes, but she can't admit it, especially in front of you. She is a proud girl. If you go down the slope and give her face, there will be no need for cold wars or quarrels.
As a man, you should be more flexible and flexible, just for the sake of your family, your children, and your mother."
"Oh." Zheng Duoduo agreed.
I believe that with Sister Ling’s advice, he will get twice the result with half the effort this time and achieve immediate success.
He smiled helplessly: "My mother has suffered a lot recently because of the two of us. She often doesn't sleep well at night. She can't sleep at night and has to help take care of the children during the day."
Mom always talked about "everything will be happy when everything is at home", but he didn't feel much about it before. Until he became a family, he and his wife had all kinds of troubles and anger, and the mood was almost the same.
Both he and his children suffered. Now he finally understood the profound connotation of this sentence.
Xue Ling shook his head and chuckled: "We are all of this age, so I shouldn't let my mother worry about it anymore. Take this as a warning and I won't do it again."
"I don't dare anymore." Zheng Duoduo said, "When I coax Xiao Tong to go home, my mother will be happy soon."
Xue Ling stood up: "Okay, I have to go back too. The matchmaker has to run in both directions, and the person trying to persuade you has to run in both directions! I used to be a matchmaker for you, and I even had to go to Rongcheng. I didn't expect that we got married smoothly, and...
You have to rely on me as a matchmaker to break up the fight."
"I promise - I won't do this again!" Zheng Duoduo solemnly patted his chest.
Xue Ling patted him on the shoulder and said warmly: "Sister, I'm happy to do anything for you except to break up the fight."
Zheng Duoduo smiled and held her hand.
"Sister, let me take you down."
Xue Ling shook his head: "No, it's not like I don't know the elevator entrance. I don't need you to run up and down with me. There's still half an hour left for lunch break, right? Go and squint for a while, close your eyes and take a nap, any amount is fine.
I will feel much better in the afternoon.”
Zheng Duoduo felt warm in his heart and hurriedly agreed: "Okay, I'll listen to you."