After Xue Xin walked away, Ahu and his wife continued chatting with Cheng Tianfang.
Wang Qing still spoke a little slowly and whispered: "It's not like I can't raise or take care of my children, so why do I need DINK? When I get older, I won't be able to have it even if I want it, and it will become a lifelong regret."
"That's right!" Ahu said with a smile: "If you don't want to have too many children, then just have one or two! If we hadn't given birth to little Huzi and little Yun'er, no matter how much money and free time we had, we wouldn't have been able to give birth to them.
I feel so happy and at ease today.”
Cheng Tianfang couldn't help but think of her daughter, and smiled bitterly: "If it weren't for Xiaohan, I wouldn't have been able to hold on... and died in prison. Life without any spiritual sustenance or concern in this world might really be meaningless.
there is none left."
Wang Qing couldn't help but his eyes turned red, and he whispered: "When I had the stroke, I heard Ahu and the two children crying in my ears, and I felt very uncomfortable. Later I finally woke up, and I said to him...
If I had left just like that, I wouldn't have been too sad. Fortunately, he still has children and grandchildren around him, so I don't have to worry about leaving him alone and without anyone to take care of him."
"Hey, hey, hey!" Ahu choked with tears and said with a smile: "Today is a great day, but we can't talk about sad topics!"
Cheng Tianfang quickly wiped away the tears from the corners of his eyes and chuckled: "Yes, we can't bring up such sad topics. My sister-in-law was right just now. The birth of a little life means a lot, and it cannot be expressed in just a few words."
"It is indeed difficult to conceive and raise children." Ahu quickly changed the subject: "We used to live in free-range conditions, and the medical conditions were poor. Many children could not be fed. I also have eight little playmates.
I had a high fever when I was nine years old. The older generation had to have more children, otherwise the survival rate would be low, and they didn’t know how many they would survive in the end. Today’s children have to be intensively raised, which takes a lot of time and energy.
Go and do it, and young people nowadays are under too much work pressure, so they don’t like to have children and take care of them.”
Wang Qing nodded in agreement: "Yes...yes."
"The main reason is that there is too much pressure." Cheng Tianfang said: "When young people graduate, they are already 22 or 23 years old. Rookies have to grow up for a few years, and wages increase slowly. But at this time, they have to buy a house, get married, and have children.
At that time, house prices were so expensive and commodity prices were so high. Once the pressure got high, I would give up all kinds of weird thoughts."
Ahu shook his head and gave up: "If you can't give birth, then there is really nothing you can do, right? But as long as you can afford it and pay for it, try not to be a DINK. I can't stand it!"
"I don't agree either." Cheng Tianfang smiled and said: "People of the older generation don't like these weird ideas. Besides, Sister Achun has wanted to be a grandmother for many years, so she can't let her down. She put her little
Xin Dang is in pain as a beloved one, so I have to think about the old man at least."
"Yes." Ahu muttered: "If you are not married, anything will be fine. But if you are married, you will be a member of the Tietou family. Some important matters cannot be decided by the daughter-in-law alone, and the whole family has to be considered.
Especially what the elderly think, right?"
Cheng Tianfang smiled and said: "Don't worry, Xiaoxin is a sensible and considerate child, she will figure it out. She was just fooled by some sensational personal ideas, and her thoughts were distracted for a moment."
"There are all kinds of things on the Internet now!" Ahu shook his head and sighed: "Some of them are just trying to deceive and mislead young people - it's really too much!"
Cheng Tianfang whispered: "I often tell Xiaohan not to always believe in what is said on the Internet. Try to think more carefully and don't believe everything."
"There are good and bad." Wang Qing sighed: "The speed of information dissemination is really fast now. When we wrote an article, we had to investigate, review and get the leader's nod. Sometimes we had to wait and wait before it could be printed. Write a book
The book was revised and revised again and again. It took more than half a year or even several years to write it, and then the publishing house had to go back and forth several times before it was finally published. Now, just click and click on the mobile phone, type and type on the computer, and publish it with just one click of a button.
Go out, and then anyone with an Internet connection can see it. How great! How convenient and convenient! But without review and careful supervision, it will also cause a lot of problems."
"That's right." Cheng Tianfang explained: "With too many personal opinions, it's easy to lose your bias. Especially the various experts on the Internet. This expert says what that expert says all day long, so they don't have to take responsibility for what they say all day long? They
If one person says the same thing, who will we, the people, listen to? Who is right and who is wrong? How do we know?"
"I won't even listen!" Ahu laughed loudly: "Save me the trouble of not knowing who to listen to!"
Wang Qing smiled bitterly: "I haven't touched my mobile phone for a long time... I'm out of touch with society."
"Don't be afraid." Cheng Tianfang patted the phone screen: "It's easy to use if you can contact people, receive information and make payments!"
"Haha! I think so too!"
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After the banquet was over, everyone set off back to the city after a full meal.
Cheng Tianyuan helped Xue Zhilan pack his luggage, and Xue Lingan let his parents rest before returning to the kitchen exhausted.
The kitchen has been tidied up, except Cheng Huanran, who is waiting for Master Li to make porridge.
"When An An woke up, she said she had no appetite." Cheng Huanran explained: "Maybe she was afraid of nausea. She said she wanted to eat something light."
Cheng Tianyuan quickly suggested: "Put in a little salt or sugar so it won't taste too bland."
"Okay, let's put in some sugar." Cheng Huanran said, "An An said she likes to eat sweet things."
"Yo!" Xue Ling exclaimed happily: "That might be a female doll!"
Cheng Tianyuan asked in a funny way: "Others say that the son is sour and the woman is hot, so what's your theory about the sweet one?"
"Girls love sweets more!" Xue Ling laughed.
Cheng Huanran echoed: "It makes sense!"
Master Li poured the casserole porridge into a large bowl and reminded with a smile: "Be careful not to boil it. It's only slightly sweet. Don't dare to add too much sugar."
"Okay!" Cheng Huanran thanked: "Thank you for your hard work, Uncle Li."
After saying that, he ran back to the room carrying the porridge.
As soon as Cheng Tianyuan and Xue Ling came out of the big kitchen, they saw Lin Qingzhi walking towards him, surrounded by bodyguards and assistants. He looked a little hurried, obviously he had rushed here in a hurry.
"Uncle, aunt." Lin Qingzhi explained apologetically: "I'm sorry, I'm late."
The two asked him with concern if he had eaten.
Lin Qingzhi said that he caught a little cold yesterday and had no appetite to eat.
"How about some white porridge?" Xue Ling asked: "Lao Li just cooked it, is it still warm?"
"Yes." Cheng Tianyuan suggested with a smile: "Fry two more side dishes, a little pickles, mustard or tangerine peel sauce, it should be more appetizing."
Lin Qingzhi answered the question repeatedly after listening.
Soon, two small plates of green vegetables were fried, plus a few small plates of side dishes.
Lin Qingzhi ate happily while chatting with the two elders diagonally opposite.
"A Chong said that he might choose eggs provided by excellent foreign women and give birth to two or three mixed-race babies."