Chen Xinzhi frowned: "No wonder Yangyang blames her for not trusting him enough."
A crisis of trust between a husband and wife is not a trivial matter.
Relationships between people are based on trust, especially between husband and wife.
Xue Xin was extremely embarrassed and asked: "What should we do now?"
Chen Xinzhi thought for a while and analyzed: "A large part of the reason is that Xiaoxiao has been at home for a long time, and there has been a gap with Yangyang who has been working hard for his career. Once the distance is widened, differences will naturally follow."
"You can't take care of so much at the same time." Xue Xin muttered: "Being a strong woman is not that easy. The second sister-in-law is gentle and takes care of the family, so she is not suitable for doing business. My second brother is so busy, if she also follows to help, several
What about the children? Someone has to take care of the family."
"It's Xiaoxiao who didn't adjust her mentality properly," Chen Xinzhi said.
Xue Xin asked again: "What should we do? I have already persuaded her, but she was very nervous and said that she would control all of my second brother's finances, otherwise she would not be at ease at all."
Chen Xinzhi frowned: "Why did Xiaoxiao become so unconfident?"
"How did I know?" Xue Xin explained: "Since they moved out, I have met her very few times. When we usually have dinner together, we chat for a few words and then go away, without having a chance to talk in depth at all. Want me
She said, after she moves out, she can support everything by herself, shouldn’t she be more confident?”
"Not very good." Chen Xinzhi explained: "I heard from Yangyang that it was quite difficult when she moved out. Maybe it was a combination of many reasons that made Xiaoxiao even less confident."
"Really?" Xue Xin asked doubtfully, "Did my second brother say that?"
Chen Xinzhi nodded: "Xiaoxiao said she wanted to be independent, but her financial strength and actual ability could not cope with it. Yangyang happened to be in a low period during that time and was under great pressure. He even asked Ranran to borrow money many times."
"So miserable?" Xue Xin couldn't help but sigh: "It seems that their problems were not caused overnight."
Chen Xinzhi reminded: "The fact that it broke out and let everyone know about it proves that this matter has been traced for a long time. Remember, there are no unprovoked accidents."
"Stop talking." Xue Xin asked: "Do you have any solution? I've been talking about it for a long time, but you can come up with a solution!"
Chen Xinzhi shook his head blankly: "I don't know. I don't have any good ideas."
Forehead?
Xue Xin gave him a big eye roll and said: "Even if my second brother coaxes her to come back, the problem will still not be solved! If the problem is not properly solved, sooner or later conflicts will arise again."
Chen Xinzhi thought for a moment and said, "Then don't worry too much. When she goes back, please ask mom to give her some advice."
Any problem that cannot be solved is left to the powerful elders to solve it.
Xue Xin habitually hides behind her parents and brothers. When encountering difficult problems, her instinctive reaction is to seek help from her parents.
"That's right! Let mom persuade the second sister-in-law. I can't do it. I listened to her crackling words last night and it made my head hurt. Not to mention trying to persuade her, I can't even help listen."
Chen Xinzhi rubbed her hair and said, "Your body has not recovered yet, and your mental state is also poor. I can't blame you."
Xue Xin snuggled into his arms and yawned.
"Actually, I think my second sister-in-law is really... unnecessary. People in our family don't have that kind of romantic gene. From grandpa and grandma to Xiaoshuang Xiaozhu, everyone is the infatuated gene. Not to mention that we don't have it, even
The people you marry are all of good quality and don’t have any frivolity at all.”
Chen Xinzhi chuckled: "That makes sense."
If nothing else, he is quite confident in himself.
As for the other people, he thinks that they are all calm and self-possessed, especially when it comes to relationships. They know more about restraint and propriety, so they don't have to worry about their partners at all.
In this regard, the father-in-law and mother-in-law played a very important role. The home they built with trust and love allowed their children to understand the importance of trust.
After a while, Chen Xinzhi came over with anti-fetal medicine.
"It's a little hot, let's blow it before drinking."
Xue Xin frowned: "Let it dry for a while, don't worry, it will take a while."
Suddenly, Chen Xinzhi remembered the message Zheng Duoduo sent.
"Duoduo said that they are a little busy recently and will come see you when they are free on the weekend."
Xue Xin couldn't help but ask: "How is Xiaomeng doing now? Is the nanny still taking care of her?"
"Yes." Chen Xinzhi explained: "The original nanny helped take care of her. Since Xiao Tong went to work in the group, there was a lot of work at home. The two of them were very busy at first, and it was not until recently that they got used to it a little bit."
Xue Xin felt distressed and lamented: "My mother used to help them take care of the house... now they can only rely on themselves."
"There are cameras everywhere in the house." Chen Xinzhi said: "They don't have to worry about not being able to monitor the nanny and the children. It's just that little Tong is trembling, fearing that the child will be abused by the nanny in a corner that they can't see. After Duoduo said it, he can only take one step.
It’s just one step, I really can’t take care of that much.”
Both of them have to work, and they are very busy leaders. They leave early and come back late almost every day, and they can't take care of their younger son at all.
Xiao Tong said that when the two went out in the morning, their son was probably still sleeping. By the time they came back from get off work, the child was probably already asleep.
It's okay when I don't work overtime. I can play with my children with building blocks and watch TV at night. If I need to work overtime, I can only see my sleeping son when I get home at night.
Xue Xin felt frightened and timid: "I often see videos of nannies abusing children on the Internet...it's too horrible to watch."
"Don't scare little Tong." Chen Xinzhi smiled bitterly: "She is already scared to death. If you threaten her again - she may collapse."
Xue Xin asked curiously: "Why? She has to go to work?"
"Yes." Chen Xinzhi reminded: "You should still have an impression of her previous work, right? She can't stay at home for too long and really needs to go to work."
Xue Xin couldn't help but feel sorry for Xiao Tong, and whispered: "Sister Xiao Tong is not easy. When I see her now, I seem to see myself in the future."
Being a mother is really not easy!
If you don't care about your children, you can only give up your career. When your children grow up, your career may have been missed. If you don't give up, you will worry about your children not being taken care of well or even being abused, which will affect your physical and mental health.
"Don't be afraid." Chen Xinzhi coaxed: "Our children are different. We have a lot of people to help take care of them. With family members around, the nannies or nannies will not dare to mess around."
Xue Xin covered her lower abdomen and whispered aggrievedly: "It's far from the time of birth, but I can already see the worry and despair that are far away."