However, Xue's mother was still not at ease and reminded: "This is not the imperial capital. There are foreigners outside, so it's not good to let your children find random partners."
Finding a partner means that you may get married. What if you find a foreigner and you can't communicate even half a sentence?
After all, this is not the imperial capital, so just leave it alone!
"Yeah." Xue's father agreed: "If we are in the imperial capital, we can send people out to ask. Even if we can't know the details, we can at least understand their details quickly. It's different here!"
Ahu laughed and joked: "What if you find a dark black man?"
Wang Qing glanced at him and reminded: "Most of them are Chinese...there are no black people here."
Ahu explained: "I'm just making an analogy. There are no black people, but there are quite a few locals. They still don't look much like us."
Xue Zhilan sighed "Hey!" and explained: "I have already asked her, but the child's mouth is like a clam shell, and she can't ask. She won't let me ask, and I can't force it. Fortunately, Ling Ling
Let people follow her all the time, otherwise...otherwise, how can I rest assured?"
They say they can't control it and it's not easy to control it, but as an elder, they really can't sit back and do nothing and let it go completely.
His son was thousands of miles away, and if something happened to his granddaughter under the care of his "guardian," he could not escape the blame.
It's just that he is really powerless, and he and his son have been vaccinated in advance, saying that he has tried his best.
Mother Xue glared at her daughter and asked, "Did you find out something? Really?"
"No." Xue Ling said truthfully: "I didn't ask for anything. I just told those who follow Xiaohan to cheer up and not let her get hurt or deceived."
Mother Xue couldn't help but get angry when she heard this: "What kind of advice is this? The people who follow her can at most protect her from getting hurt. What if that man makes her sad, hurt, and cheated?"
"There's no guarantee." Xue Ling asked funnyly: "Who can guarantee that their daughter will not be cheated or hurt when she goes out to have a relationship? It is enough to protect her from the outside. As for whether she will be hurt inside - no one can guarantee it.
Bar?"
Nowadays, young people are very carefree in falling in love. If they see each other, they will start a conversation and even turn around and go to the hotel.
Physical injuries are protected by someone, but as for falling out of love, breaking up, being sad - no one can guarantee that everything will be safe!
Xue Zhilan also felt that it made sense and said: "Xiaohan's child is a little weak in mind. Let her suffer more and she may become stronger."
"You can pull her down!" Father Xue reminded angrily: "What if she becomes depressed again? Her condition has only gotten better recently."
Xue Zhilan couldn't laugh or cry: "When the soldiers come to block the water and the earth, what else can we do? Overprotection will definitely not work. I can't stand a little setback. Once I can't stand it, I will make all kinds of noises. It's better not to look too closely and give her appropriate space.
Float for a while, then take it back when it doesn't work anymore."
"What if it drifts too far?" Ah Hu muttered: "Can't you take it back? Could it be that you married abroad?"
Xue Zhilan was amused and asked: "If it can happen, wouldn't it be great? When a girl grows up, she will get married sooner or later. Wouldn't it be better if she can find a reliable person to marry and start a family and start a career early?"
"That's right!" Ahu couldn't help but nod: "It's better to fall in love and get married early than to be a leftover girl! My little Yun'er is about to become a 'leftover fighter', and my wife and I are worried to death!"
Mother Xue thought about it and didn't object anymore.
"If the other party is a decent person, that's definitely a good thing. Foreigners are foreigners, as long as they are young and get along well."
Since the reform and opening up, more or less young people around us have married or married foreigners.
For example, when Ah Heng was studying abroad, he brought back a foreign woman with an "awkward" identity.
Another example is that Xiao Xiao, who has passed away, also married a chubby foreigner.
Although the results are not ideal, they are still there.
Xue's father still disagreed and reminded: "You still have to ask... If you are of Chinese descent, then it will definitely be fine. If not, then you have to be more cautious. Our Xue family does not have any foreign species yet, so it is not easy to get weird.
You must be a weird half-breed."
"Hey!" Ahu said with a smile: "Uncle, don't worry. Mixed-race children are quite good and very handsome! There were none before, but that doesn't mean there can't be some now and in the future!"
"That's right!"
Half a foreigner, right? Don't you have any objections to our Xiaoxin marrying him? As long as Xiaohan likes it and is a decent person, why should we care too much."
Regarding this point, Xue Ling is quite open-minded.
Xiaohan is a very sensitive child. The more they try to stop her, the more she likes to go against her elders.
Rather than having the opposite effect, it is better to be more relaxed and give her enough freedom to express herself.
If she falls out of love or is heartbroken, she will bear the responsibility herself.
She told Xue Heng that the purpose of bringing Xiaohan here was to change her environment so that she could learn to adapt to the environment better, instead of giving her a completely sealed and generous environment to protect her from the world.
Some things cannot be solved by guarding against them all the time. Rather than worrying about them all your life, it is better to face them calmly.
Xue Zhilan also felt that there was no need to worry too much, saying: "We, the older generation, are all half-buried people, and our ideas are inevitably too outdated. Even if you are looking for a foreigner, it will be no problem. If you have a few mixed-race children, it will be no problem. Anyway,
Someone in the family has to be the first to try something new and break the record, right?"
Father Xue chuckled: "You have said so, then there is nothing to worry about."
"Good attitude!" Ah Hu gave a thumbs up and praised: "Uncle Zhilan is becoming more and more discerning! This character is simply amazing! He has a sense of déjà vu like a fairy!"
Xue Zhilan laughed loudly: "I'm really old! Isn't the so-called immortal spirit open-minded and open-minded? When I get old, many things are taken lightly, and my tolerance is naturally different."
Xue Ling followed and laughed.
Wang Qing was still very curious and asked: "Really... a gringo? Really?"
Xue Ling shook his head: "Probably not. Xiaohan's English is not good, and Wen Guo's language is even worse. If you can't communicate, you will definitely not be able to fall in love. So I guess they are mostly Chinese or international students."
"That's good, that's good." Xue's father breathed a sigh of relief and muttered: "Don't really give birth to a black foreigner! Give birth to a few little charcoal-black kids - it feels weird just thinking about it!"
Xue Ling was amused and shook his head: "Not necessarily! Anyway, let's wait and see. If they can't talk and break up later, then our worries here are in vain, right?"