Xue Ling thought it made sense and agreed: "Okay, I'll mention it to Duoduo later. Nutritionists are not difficult to find, so I won't ask Ah Qing to introduce them."
"That's okay." Cheng Tianyuan said, "Aqing has so many things to do. He's so busy every day. It's really hard to bother him all the time."
Xue Ling doesn't think so: "He is also our child. Sometimes don't be too polite to him, he will feel a sense of belonging in our family. However, just like other children, we cannot rely on them for everything. Even if they are biological parents
, there must also be a certain boundary line.”
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "Fortunately, we can still do it and don't have to rely on them for everything."
"But we have to let them help more." Xue Ling reminded: "We are old, and sooner or later this home will be theirs. If we don't let them take more responsibility, they will not know how to take care of this home in the future."
Cheng Tianyuan also agreed with this proposal and said: "It should be."
At this time, there was a knock on the door!
Xue Ling stood up and opened the door.
I saw Chen Xinzhi leading Xue Xin and holding a big box in his hand.
"Mom, this is a little supplement for you, please remember to bring it."
Xue Ling took it with a smile and thanked him: "Then I'm not polite. However, the food and drinks in Xinyuan are very good, so I can't spend money to buy them again in the future."
"I know." Chen Xinzhi replied.
However, Xue Xin pouted and said, "You have to buy everything. Our family doesn't produce supplements and medicines. You and my dad didn't pay for them, otherwise there would be so many. You buy them, and he buys them too."
If you want to buy it, can’t you let him buy it?”
"Yes." Xue Ling replied: "We can buy it after we finish eating, don't be in a hurry."
Xue Xin caressed her bulging belly and smiled happily.
"Mom, have you noticed that he has grown very fast recently?"
"Yes."
Xue Xin raised her eyebrows in surprise: "Really or not? You wouldn't lie to me, would you? It's too exaggerated!"
"Why are you lying to me?" Xue Ling explained: "When I was pregnant with you and your third brother, I was so old in the last month that I had to stay in the hospital."
Xue Xin has never been a mother before and has never experienced the pain of ten-month pregnancy, so it is difficult to understand what kind of discomfort it is.
Now that she has embarked on the road of becoming a mother, she finds that it is so difficult for her to conceive even one child. It is really hard to imagine how hard her mother must have been to safely give birth to their two brothers and sisters.
The more this happens, the more I understand how difficult it is for parents, especially mothers who continue to work and make money after becoming pregnant.
"Mom~~" Xue Xin said coquettishly: "After the second sister-in-law and second brother reconcile, you will return a few little carrot heads to them, and then come back to accompany me to wait for the birth, do you understand?"
Xue Ling nodded: "I understand. This is your first child, and you have always been pretentious, so naturally I have to stay with you. Besides, your grandparents are all here, and I don't dare to leave for too long."
"Hee hee!" Xue Xin muttered happily: "Then you have to come back next month! It's almost winter in the imperial capital, so it's better to come back early to avoid having to suffer the cold there."
Xue Ling motioned for them to come in and sit down.
As soon as Chen Xinzhi sat down, he talked about what Xue Ling was worrying about just now.
"Duoduo contacted me at midnight last night and said that the nephew's condition was not very good. The doctor suggested that they should spend more time with the child. The child may have some mental disorders."
What?!
Xue Ling was startled and asked: "Is there any psychological disorder? Isn't it said that it is an allergy? Why does it sound more and more serious the more I hear it!"
Cheng Tianyuan also felt that it was serious and hurriedly came over.
"What did Duo Duo say? What else did he say?"
Chen Xinzhijun's face was solemn, and he frowned and explained: "The medical system in the imperial capital is very tense because of the epidemic. The little guy goes to the hospital from time to time, but the effect is not very good, and it is tiring and frustrating. The doctor said that maybe the child was a grandma when he was a child.
He was brought up, and his grandma suddenly disappeared... He couldn't find familiar people in a familiar environment, but he couldn't express his sadness and longing, so he became more and more silent. Slowly, he seemed to have some psychological barriers."
Xue Ling said quickly: "Then quickly find a psychiatrist for counseling, and parents should stay with them more!"
Chen Xinzhi explained: "Xiao Tong still insists on going to work and only spends weekends with the little guy. Duoduo plans to take a long vacation and bring the little guy to live here for ten and a half months. Duoduo needs to catch up on the work at hand these days and strive for
Come here quickly. He also said that he misses his grandpa very much and wants to spend more time with him."
Cheng Tianyuan and Xue Ling looked at each other and guessed something.
"Your grandpa has always loved Duoduo the most. Duoduo grew up under his care. He would secretly tell grandpa any grievances and discomforts he had. It was probably because the little guy's matter was quite serious this time, and Duoduo was under too much pressure, so he wanted to go there.
Come this way."
Chen Xinzhi frowned and said: "This is their first child, and it is human nature to have little experience in raising children. My mother used to help them take care of the children, but she suddenly disappeared...the two of them are a little overwhelmed."
"Yes!" Xue Xin explained: "Before, we were in Rongcheng, where Xiao Tong's parents helped to take care of him. Unfortunately, there was no heating there in the winter, and the little guy caught a cold several times. Later, when he returned to the Imperial Capital, most of the time
We can only rely on nannies. But nannies are unreliable, and they have been replaced several times, almost one every month, and some even quit after working for less than two weeks."
"A nanny is a nanny." Xue Ling said: "How can she be compared with my own grandma? Sister Achun is attentive and considerate, gentle, hard-working and loves children. Where can I find a nanny who is similar to her? Impossible!
"
Xue Xin nodded in agreement: "Because of this, little sister Tong is not very satisfied with the nanny. This one doesn't work, that one doesn't work, so she changes it again and again. My nephew is still young, and he is always being taken care of by someone else, which is not good for him.
.I finally became familiar with one aunt, and then I changed to another one. I have never raised a child, but I also know that this will definitely not work."
Chen Xinzhi didn't want to comment on his sister-in-law's actions. He only said: "I told Duoduo that my mother is going to take a few children back. Even if my nephew comes over, he won't have many playmates here. I suggest that he don't be anxious and can take the children to Aqing quietly."
I’m looking for you in my suburban home. Maybe the child is just in need of playmates and friends.”
"Okay." Xue Ling said: "We have never been out, and there are no health problems. The plane is also our own, so we can fly directly to another hospital. There is no need to worry about the epidemic."
"It's them who are worried." Xue Xin reminded: "Recently, there have been more than a dozen cases in the Imperial Capital. Mom, you will have to tell Brother Dodo to wear a mask when the time comes."
Cheng Tianyuan thought for a while and said: "As long as the children have fun and have children to play with, they will soon be happy. There is no need to worry about the psychological aspect."