Mini Tiger did not participate in the argument, and his chubby hand raised a giant Superman.
"I want to give this to my dad! My dad is the most powerful! He is the superman of my brother and me - superman dad!"
Xiaoshuang and Xiaozhu continued to argue.
"Mom loves blue!"
"Mom loves pink!"
"No! It must be blue!"
"It must be pink!"
Wang Xiaoxiao laughed and rubbed the top of his son and daughter's hair.
"My mother likes both. Whether it is blue or pink, my mother likes it very much. The blue one is like a swimming pool, like the sea, more like the blue sky. It is my favorite. Pink represents girlish heart and pink color.
It’s cute, and my mother likes it too. As long as it’s a gift from you, my mother likes it!”
"Awesome!" the little guys cheered in unison.
Mini Tiger held up the big Superman and asked: "Would my dad like this Superman, or Superman without the shield?"
"One with a shield." Wang Xiaoxiao answered seriously.
The mini tiger immediately ran away and shouted: "I want to be a shield!"
Xiaoshuang and Xiaozhu also continued to "work" quickly, busy around the small castle they created.
Wang Xiaoxiao looked at the little ones with loving eyes and explained: "Today is the weekend, and the children don't have to go to kindergarten. Xiaohu caught a cold last week and didn't go to school for two days. He has to make up for classes today, so he hasn't come back yet. The father and son have now
I have lived in Xinyuan for a long time. With them here, Xinyuan is much more lively! Especially the children, they keep each other company every day and have a lot of fun, and I don’t have to talk to them."
"Yeah." Xiao Tong looked at the little guys greedily and whispered: "The children will be happier if they have playmates."
In the past, little Zheng Zheng liked to play with other children in the community. However, the community had just been developed and not many residents had moved in. The community had a large activity space and good facilities, but everything was empty and no one was walking around.
Little Zheng Zheng often couldn't wait for playmates, so she had to run around alone to find someone. At this time, she would probably get upset and feel that walking around was a waste of time. It would be better to go back early, and then take the child home.
After returning home, I threw a lot of toys to my child, and then turned on the computer to read the report. The child played quietly, and she also worked quietly - everyone was happy!
Thinking of this, Xiao Tong's heart clenched unconsciously.
Other mothers consider that their children can have one or two more playmates and have more fun. But she never cares about what their children like or want. She only thinks that she still needs to work overtime and wants to complete reports and manuscripts.
More perfect.
Wang Xiaoxiao smiled lovingly and looked at the children with gentle eyes.
"Little Tiger and Mini Tiger have dared to live together in the same room, and Xiaoshuang and Xiaozhu have dared to sleep in a small room alone. However, I will go over to check on them from time to time at night, which really makes me feel uneasy. The two little ones dare to sleep alone in a small room.
I have to accompany them to coax them to sleep, tell them stories and sing songs, and then they will close their eyes to sleep. Occasionally, I only need to make them a bottle of milk, hold them in my arms and drink it, and then they fall asleep."
"When we get older, can we sleep in separate rooms?" Xiao Tong suddenly asked.
Wang Xiaoxiao nodded: "When I was a child, I didn't feel safe, so the nanny and I would accompany the child to sleep in the nursery. Once the child cried or kicked the quilt or something, we could detect it immediately. Later, when they got older, I would arrange for them to sleep together.
Keep each other company. When children wake up and see their brothers and sisters next to them, they will not be so scared and continue to sleep with their eyes closed. If they need to go to the bathroom, they can also keep each other company. When they are in elementary school, they can slowly practice being alone.
A small room will be scary at first, and it will take a long time to get used to it little by little and adjust to it slowly."
Xiao Tong was stunned when he heard this.
Wang Xiaoxiao gestured to several thick notepads on the small table beside him.
"I don't have much memory, so when I have time, I will write down the changes in my children during this period and make some signs. I didn't take any of the things mentioned in the books and TV. I believe that books are worse than no books. Even the elderly at home say no.
Necessary. Children in every family are different, and there is no unified standard. Let the child feel comfortable first, and if there are bad habits, correct them slowly. If you make mistakes once and a half, don’t be too serious or too anxious. The growth of a child is a process.
Year after year, not day by day, there is no rush and no rush. But, in my opinion, the children seem to grow up in a blink of an eye. Next year my two little ones will also go to kindergarten - it's so fast!"
"...Is it fast?" Xiao Tong asked confusedly: "Why do I feel that I grow...a little slowly?"
Wang Xiaoxiao has always been simple, has no thoughts, and does not think deeply.
"It's not slow! Although I see them every day, I also feel that they grow up quickly. Look! In a flash, the little tiger is already a second grade student. The mini tiger and our two little ones will also start kindergarten.
.When they go to school, I will have more free time. I go out in the morning and come home in the evening, which will not be much different from our work schedule. Yangyang said that he hopes that I will go to work in his company and help him take care of more things. Fortunately
If there are drivers or elderly people helping to pick me up, I don’t have to worry about anything.”
"...Very good." Xiao Tong thought for a while and asked: "You--are you still planning to have more children?"
Wang Xiaoxiao hurriedly shook his head: "No, there are enough. Originally, we didn't dare to have the third and fourth children, but our family was very supportive. We finally decided to have the baby. Fortunately, Yangyang and I both like the atmosphere of a big family.
.With a few of them, it’s good enough.”
After a pause, she lowered her voice and added: "It's really nice to live with everyone. The old people are very good-natured. They help take care of the children and help arrange this and that. Others will also lend a hand, and they will hold each other when they come back.
, chatting and laughing lively. Last year, I suddenly wanted to try to live independently, and on a whim, I took the children to live in the city center. My parents came to stay with me for a few days, but they soon got bored. They were used to living in small counties.
I don’t like big cities. I can’t handle so many things at all. Even if I hire several nannies, I’m still extremely busy. I have to arrange everything for food, drink, and groceries. I live in the city center and there’s traffic jams every day. I have to buy something to pick up and drop off my kids.
I had to sit in traffic for a long time. I didn’t realize the joy of independence, and the huge bills almost made me depressed. Anyway, I won’t consider moving out again in a few years, or even ten years.”
Xiao Tong's eyes turned red without realizing it, and he turned around to say goodbye and left.
Wang Xiaoxiao walked her to the door and then went back to spend time with her child.
Little Tong walked step by step, deeper or shallower, as if stepping on cotton, and his body swayed from time to time.
She knows that her child needs to be put to sleep, but she feels that her child is very independent and must develop a sense of independence from an early age.
Therefore, she never put her son to sleep, and the child slept alone in the nursery since he was a child.
The little guy likes to have company with him and loves to be clingy. She thinks it's not good for the child to be like this. The more he wants company, the more she won't let him get his wish.