Lu Haowen who returned to his hometown of Laizhou to recuperate, Li Gang who worked as a mediator in Fujian, Yu Wenxu who accompanied his old wife in Chengdu, Xu Jingheng who went fishing in Wenzhou, and Li Guang who frightened people in Hangzhou, all of them are recognized as having better tutors.
Soon after, they all received an urgent letter from Zhao Guan's family, which was 800 miles away. The core question was only one: dear friends,
How did you become a father to your son?
If someone asks this, what do you mean if Li Gang and others can scold him? But the official family will definitely not be so boring? Looking further down, the Zhao Guan family, who has no bottom line, is embarrassed to say that he has no patience to let his son become more and more angry, so he has to sell
awful.
He only said that he had never seen Daojun and Emperor since he was a child, and had no idea what fatherly love was, so when he became a father, he would not be afraid that the widowed parenting style would lead to another foolish king.
The Song Dynasty is in danger. You are all good at educating your children. Please give me some suggestions. Don't worry, I am not asking you to support anyone, but I am just talking about education issues in detail.
When it comes to the disaster caused by these two typical failures of Daojun and Yuan Sheng, no one has the thought of protecting themselves wisely. They all wake up from nightmares when they sleep. They quickly write down all the lessons learned about raising their sons, but
As I was writing, I realized, hey, I didn’t seem to care much about it at that time. I just taught reading, and then beat me when I made mistakes. Is there anything else?
Oh, by the way, teaching by words and deeds is very important.
When I was an official, I usually had my son by my side.
Otherwise, marry a virtuous wife and educate her at home. If you are an official, you are running around and you haven't established a queen. This is very bad!
Except Lu Haowen,
Almost all the rulers who have taught their children well have expressed this view.
Zhao Jiu's face turned dark after seeing this. I am so irresponsible! When we go out, we are either fighting or inspecting.
It’s not a sightseeing trip, so how can you take your children with you! However, the problem of a few left-behind children must be solved. After thinking about it, Zhao Guanjia read the replies from several prime ministers and absorbed the useful content:
Li Gang said that if a child makes a mistake, he should be told that it is wrong. If he does it again, he will be beaten. If he does not teach him, he will be punished and called cruelty;
Both Li Guang and Yu Wenxuzhong said: Family harmony is very important. Parents need to be a good person and a bad person, and children cannot be made to feel that someone is supporting them;
Xu Jingheng said that at this stage, it is best to give both labor classes and cultural classes. Knowing how difficult farming is, there are already mulberry trees and fish ponds in the palace for the prince to work;
Lu Haowen suggested that he patiently chat with his children and teach them in accordance with their aptitude because he knew Zhao Guan's family well.
It can only be said that it is no wonder that the family has been prosperous for a long time, and the standard is there. The Zhao Guan family decided,
Just do it,
First, Yan Yuese (who pretended to be so) called his two sons and said, "Dad ignored your education in the past, so this time you fight, other than the fact that you have to finish your sentence in big letters, I won't punish you.
But when you go back and think about where you went wrong, if you don’t understand or do it again, I will definitely punish you severely.”
The two princes with good attitudes were simply flattered, but they were frightened by the cold violence of Zhao Guan's family these days, and they did not dare to make mistakes, so they went back to think things over.
In fact, it is too common for boys to be naughty, but Zhao Jiu found that as they grew up, they began to be very afraid of him. This is not surprising. When they started to go to school, their mother, teacher, and even Fu Mu would tell them that their father is king.
father.
What is a king's father? With a flip of his hand, he can destroy the Jin Kingdom and Xixia, and with a flip of his hand, he can equalize the land in the north and south of the Yangtze River. Every word in the book says that the king's heart is God's will, and the king's orders cannot be violated. Not to mention the bad father-son relationship between him and Taishang Daojun.
Secretly, as princes, they are even more sensitive to imperial power. They may envy their sisters for being able to act coquettishly in their father's arms, but they will know that they will never get this favor. - The above comes from an anonymous person who does not want to be named.
Mr. Yang’s analysis.
Zhao Jiu knew that they were likely to be involved in the whirlpool of imperial power, but he could not sit back and watch this situation develop. Even if it was unavoidable in the future, it would not be possible at this age. It would be too cruel.
So he summoned their mothers and Yiyou successively, and said to Concubine Wu: "I don't look down on your natal family, but since Concubine Pan has been demoted, they have said too many things in Yuan Zuo's ears that should not be said. You
As a mother, you have to figure out what is most important."
Concubine Wu burst into tears and said: "In the official family, my son is my mother's heart, do I know what to do?"
Zhao Jiu said: "Okay, don't cry. You also need to tell your children that I don't really value girls over boys. God bless them. It's not a problem for me to protect them all my life. Is it okay for a boy? Don't always be honest when you see me.
In fact, if you go to heaven and earth as soon as you leave me, I won't tolerate you anymore next time. Of course, I also made mistakes."
Concubine Wu kowtowed and said she didn't dare. Seeing that she was tired like this, Zhao Jiu ordered her to go back.
As for Pan Zhaorong, it was even more straightforward, "You and I cannot involve children. You have heard that although Dezuo suffered a loss this time, he couldn't help but take action first. If you are angry, tell me,
Don’t talk to your children about what you have and what you don’t have.”
Pan Zhaorong suddenly wanted to express his grievances. Unexpectedly, Zhao Jiu stopped him with one sentence, "I wanted to give you a promotion this time, but it turned out that when this child made a fuss, it was difficult to speak." The delicate beauty.
It felt like my neck was stuck in an instant.
Finally, he looked at Yiyou, his daughter who looked like a girl, took her hand and sat down, saying: "Since you were born, you have been the most favored by me, but your two sisters have endured hardships since they were young, so in the past two years, my father has been more fond of me.
Don't be jealous of them, Yiyou will always be daddy's treasure."
Yiyou's eyes turned red and he called out, "Daddy." Then he lowered his head and said, "It's because my daughter is ignorant and didn't take care of her brother well."
Zhao Jiu became softer and said: "Although you are all my flesh and blood, the second brother and your mother are the same, which cannot be changed. Your mother and concubine have this temper. When you are older, you have to tell De Zuo the truth of many things.
, who told you to follow dad the longest!"
Yiyou nodded solemnly as if he had been given a sacred task.
Then they asked the two princes to work for half an hour every day, pulling weeds at noon, and experiencing what it means to hoe at noon. The youngest Zhao Dan couldn't rest and watch, he had to be responsible for feeding the chickens. He would go there in a month
Yue Tai followed Han Yue to experience military training. For two days, the three princes complained incessantly and said they would stop doing anything and promised not to fight. But at this time, Zhao Jiu darkened his face and said: "Every porridge and a dish, you should know what is coming."
It’s not easy. You are born with rich clothes and fine food, and you should know this hardship so that you can put an end to waste and give up extravagance in the future.”
This statement was unanimously recognized by all the important ministers present. Han Shizhong even said that he would write it in his family motto when he returned. Yue Fei, who had just arrived, even asked Yue Lei, who was studying at Taixue, to work. Yue Yun reported him, and Zhao Guan's family stopped him in time.
Yes, you are calling it overcorrection. Yue Yun didn't grow crooked because God opened his eyes. Fortunately, Yue Yun left with the mission the next day, otherwise he would be the one who was "overcorrected".
On the day when the Dali delegation left, Zhao Xu lost his temper because he couldn't do anything anymore and was starved to death by Zhao Guan's family. Zhao Yang was lazy and worked overtime for half an hour. Of course, Zhao Jiu was not a strict father.
Sometimes I would work with them, and then talk about why we sent people to Dali to negotiate, why we moved the capital to Yanjing to rebuild Taiyuan, and why we pulled weeds at noon. Although they still don’t understand some of the words, they will always be subtle.
land influence.
After half a month of screening, Lan Gui found out eighteen restless palace maids and chamberlains, and expelled them all from the palace to serve the Supreme Emperor. He himself resigned on the grounds of old age.
In the past year, there have been many mistakes in the palace, which made this old eunuch who was nearly sixty years old realize that he should retire. Otherwise, what will happen to a person with no roots? After Zhao Jiu persuaded him to stay, he found that he had already decided to leave, so he agreed to let him retire.
, "He has been working for me since he was in hiding for thirty years, and he was especially loyal during the chaos. He was especially known by the Ministry of Internal Affairs." Later, he was allowed to resign, which was considered to be the highest level of eunuch, and he was given two hundred in private when he left.
Acres of land and two shops in the county town, "You have no one to live with, and you don't have to worry about the children you care about. You have always had good eyesight. Your ancestral home, Chenliu, was the first to receive land due to military exploits, so I can only give you so much."
, if you have any difficulties, please tell Zhengfu quietly."
Old Lan Gui burst into tears and knelt down: "Guanjia, you can only walk when I hold you in my arms, wuwu..."
Not far away, several princes watched silently, and Zhao Dan asked ignorantly: "Eldest brother, second brother, and chamberlains should serve us, isn't it right?"
Zhao Xu lowered his head and said, "I don't know. I just feel that what dad did was right, but I can't explain it. Let me think about it."
After Lan Gui left, Feng Yi was officially promoted to the position of chief chamberlain, which was considered to be his wish. With the consent of Zhao Guan's family, he released more than a hundred palace maids who were willing to leave the palace, and recruited two chamberlains from outside.
Ten people and fifty maids.
In the seventh month of the month, Empress Dowager Yuanyou, Meng Ruji, passed away, and there were many sacrifices inside and outside the palace.
----Small theater extra----
I want to live
Dongxiao Palace in Hangzhou is located at the foot of Dadi Mountain on the east branch of the Tianmu Mountains. According to legend, a long time ago, a Taoist monk attained enlightenment and ascended to heaven riding a white deer. The palace is surrounded by mountains, with lions and elephants guarding the gate, phoenixes returning to their nests, and sky pillars standing on the walls.
Pleasant landscapes such as the Great Dichen Heart have attracted a large number of literati and poets since ancient times. However, in recent years, all celebrities and Taoists have avoided it. The reason is naturally that no one wants to be contaminated by the Supreme Emperor Zhao Huan inside.
But Zhao Huan himself is not having a good life these days. In the midsummer weather, he wants to wrap himself up in a quilt in the abbot's room that was destroyed by Fang La. The sound of chanting sutras comes from the hall opposite. This feeling makes him disgusted and frightened.
Because since he was a child, he had listened to his father who only knew how to play art read "Taiping Qingling Book" over and over again. In the end, Taiping did not see Taiping, but saw Jinren, soldiers and horses. - He always subconsciously ignored it.
He was the emperor at that time.
There was a "squeak" sound, and the door was opened. Zhao Huan trembled and actually got into the quilt. He instinctively said: "I was wrong. Guan Jia has mercy on me, Ninth Brother has mercy on me."
"Dad, it's me." A thin young man's tired voice sounded as if he was not surprised. "The Empress Dowager Meng has passed away in the palace. The entire clan has to mourn, and the officials have ordered you to mourn for great merit."
Zhao Huan breathed a long sigh of relief, and when he saw that the visitor had changed into his filial piety clothes, he said, "My son is still filial, so go and get my filial piety clothes."
"There is one more thing, let's talk about it after you hear it." Zhao Chen, perhaps the most unlucky prince in history, said numbly: "Li Xianggong said, if dad doesn't explain this sentence, 'I learn from Chen Si to compose Doufu, and my younger brother imitates Wei Wu to view the sea.
'What do you mean, he had no choice but to come and pay his respects in person."
Zhao Huan felt that the world was spinning and he almost fell off the bed. After a while, he said: "Brother, my son, please go and tell Li Guang that I am confused and can't see people. No, no, I have dysentery..."
....”
"That's enough." The gentle and thin Zhao Chen suddenly burst out and roared: "I don't ask you to be an emperor or prince, at least you have the appearance of a man. These words were said by the queen mother before she committed suicide. See for yourself, you
This Supreme Emperor is considered a man, no, is he a human being?"
Zhao Huan was startled for a moment, then became angry and said: "Son, I am the Supreme Emperor. You, me, who gave your dog the guts to talk to your father like this? You are not a human being."
Zhao Chen sneered and said: "Okay, come to see Li Guang with your courage, don't lie on the ground like when Lu Benzhong came last time and couldn't get up. What's the use of glaring at me? The biggest traitor in the world is in Tokyo, but he is
Emperor, one word can determine the life and death of you, me, and even my father! Since I know that I am afraid, I can't bear the hardship to write a poem, and someone will take advantage of it. The day before yesterday, Mrs. Han told me that she would be unlucky for eight lifetimes to marry me, but I
Isn’t it true that I have been unlucky for eight lifetimes to become the crown prince of a subjugated king like you? I tell you, I want to live. Officials like honest people. If you don’t tell me, then I will go. Anyway, I really didn’t participate at all. Du
Even Yanshou and Du Chong can know the state, I don't believe that Uncle Jiu won't give me a way to survive."
"Live well" were the last words left to him by his mother who was about to die. He would not be buried with his stupid father.