She would take the initiative to call them every week to urge them to give money. At that time, the original body felt like a beggar, especially when her parents impatiently scolded her for spending money and not knowing how to save.
She wished she could find a hole in the ground to bury her dignity completely.
Obviously they are her parents, they obviously know that she is still studying, and she needs living expenses. As parents, it is only natural to provide her with living expenses when she is not yet an adult, but why should she ask for it like a beggar?
Only then are you willing to give it?
But her parents, who were so stingy towards her, showed a particularly generous side to her nieces and nephews.
The youngest cousin goes to the same school as Yuan Shen, and every time Yuan Shen sees him, he is wearing new sneakers and new clothes, and he even generously uses his pocket money to treat his classmates to dinner.
The money they spend for one meal out is almost half a month's living expenses.
The original parents did not hide it at all and showed this partiality clearly.
When others ask about their own children, they will only reluctantly say that as their children, they can definitely understand them.
Indeed, from the perspective of a bystander, you may think they are great.
But if you put it into the original person's perspective, the original person can't understand it at all.
Why should she let others out if they don't have their parents anymore?
Why did her parents let other people's children live a good life with new sneakers and new clothes and a few hundred yuan a week for living expenses, but she had to beg for mercy in front of her parents for a living expenses of two hundred yuan a month?
If you can raise other people's five children, why can't you have one more?
Why did they have to kidnap the weak and helpless girl morally and ask her to understand after they had already done everything?
The original person was resentful, but her situation did not allow her to spend too much time on resentment. She clearly knew that the teacher was right: children like them who came out of the countryside, especially
For girls, studying is the only way out.
So I studied hard and studied hard.
Finally, Huang Tian paid off her hard work and she was admitted to university, finally taking the first step towards a better life.
It doesn't matter if her parents don't want to spend money for her to study. She can get student loans, and she can apply for poverty subsidies. As long as she is willing to move forward, nothing will be hard for her.
After graduating, she would find a job, work hard to save money, take her grandparents to see doctors, and let them live a good life.
Everything was going in a good direction, but when I was a sophomore in college, my parents had some objections.
The first cousin and the second cousin are old. They have no car, no house, and no money. No one wants to marry him. No matter how hard the Gu family and his wife work, even if they work 24 hours a day without taking a break, they can only make enough money for a family of seven.
It’s just daily expenses, and I can’t save much money at all, let alone buy a car or a house for my first cousin and second cousin to get married.
The third cousin and the fourth cousin are also getting married, and getting married also requires a dowry. What's more, they are good uncles and aunts. They cannot accept betrothal gifts from the groom's family, but they have to prepare a generous dowry, otherwise the eldest cousin and the fourth cousin will be
People look down upon.
My fifth cousin didn't get admitted to an undergraduate university, and couldn't even go to a formal college. But he still wanted to continue studying, so he spent a lot of money to go to a pheasant university, which was a waste of money.
The Gu family and his wife have worked hard for so many years, and their bodies are almost exhausted. It is too difficult for these good people to do, but they are not willing to give up.
At this time, they naturally thought of their original bodies.
At first, in their imagination, if they were admitted to college, they would be able to enter a big company with one step, earning tens of thousands a month and making a lot of money.
their burden.
Therefore, even though they did not support the original student's college education at all, they still supported the original student's college education in their hearts, and were even ready to repay them after graduation.
But the problem is, they can't hold on anymore. They can't let the eldest and second nephews get married, they can't let the third and fourth nieces get married, and they can't let the fifth nephew stop studying, right?
Since others can't do it, you can only let your own do it.
Therefore, the Gu family asked me to give up my studies and return to my hometown to get married.
They even found a partner for the original person. The family was a businessman. They were not rich but they had some money. They wanted to marry a college student to improve the genes of their offspring. The bride price was quite generous.
There is no problem in using it to make a down payment for my eldest nephew.
Of course the original person didn't want to go back. She even thought her parents were crazy. How much effort she put in to get into college. How much hardship she put in to get to this point. Just for her betrothal gift money, she gave her cousin a down payment.
Do you want her to give up her studies and go back to marry someone she doesn't even understand?
So I just ignored my parents and worked harder to make money and study in school.
In poor and backward places, almost everyone thinks that as long as a farmer’s family gets into college, he will be successful.
But the fact is that children who come from rural areas have no background and no resources, and are trapped in a cocoon with poor information. They have to work a hundred or even a thousand times harder than children in the city just to barely keep up with the pace of the children in the city.
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The time cost and trial and error cost during this period are very huge.
She was originally in college. In addition to studying, she was also busy with making a living. She had no chance to see the world. She just followed the steps step by step, stumbling and exploring. Even so, she refused to give up. She still firmly believed that in the future,
The result will be worthy of your current efforts.
On the other hand, the original parents in the county did not give up and brought her home in exchange for bride price.
They were also extremely disappointed with the original body, feeling that they had worked so hard, but the original body was still not close to them and wanted them without any heart or soul.
They kept calling the original person, either crying or trying to kidnap me morally, saying, "I have worked so hard as my biological daughter, why can't you understand us?" They said the same thing as the couple.
In the end, the original person got so annoyed that he didn't even answer their calls and couldn't contact the original person. Gu's mother went directly to the school to find the original person.
She persuaded the original person to go back, but if the original person didn't go back, she wouldn't go back either.
But staying in a hotel in a big city is expensive, so Gu's mother simply went to live in the original's dormitory, and squeezed into the one-meter-two small bed with the original every night.
She told the original body that she would go back whenever the original body came back.
The mother and daughter were at a stalemate, and Gu's mother stayed there for a whole semester. Her roommate in the same dormitory had a good relationship with her and did not tell the dormitory manager about it.
But Gu's mother had been living in the dormitory, and they were not comfortable either, so some moved from dormitory to dormitory, and others lived outside.
