"The moral standards promoted by these village cadres are completely only for daughters-in-law who marry out of the family. They blindly require the woman to be filial to her parents-in-law and not fight back if they are beaten or scolded. They also say that asking for a bride price is a bad habit. Isn't it a bad habit to ask the woman to be filial to her parents-in-law and swallow their anger?
?Why don’t you break it?”
"Their ideological education is just a process. It neither solves any problems for the poor daughter-in-law, nor does it really play a role in promoting family harmony. It is simply condoning domestic violence and covering up crimes. This is really a highly educated person.
Is it something that a public official can do?"
"What these village cadres do is no different from the three aunts and six wives in our family. When a couple has a conflict, the woman will always be the one to persuade them. It is not good to persuade you to quarrel just after you get married. It is not good to persuade you to be angry when you are pregnant with a child.
It is not good to have a bad temper during the period of confinement. When the child is born, they say that they must endure it for the sake of the child. It seems that in their eyes, as a woman, she must tolerate all kinds of people and not be angry or careless, otherwise she is not a good woman...
"
"Village cadres are so fond of persuading and educating women to become slaves, so let the village cadres collectively sign to guarantee the woman's standard of living and happiness after marriage, and to ensure the man's future. You can't just ask the woman for everything, right? If that doesn't work, let the village cadre's daughter
Get married."
"Whenever something happens, I know how to advise women to be virtuous, generous and tolerant. Why don't you advise men to take care of their families, be good-tempered and love their wives?"
"None of the men in the village can get a wife. You should advise the men that it is not easy to get a wife. No matter how bad the wife is, just turn a blind eye."
"My father-in-law and mother-in-law did not treat my daughter-in-law well when they were young. When they are old and have difficulty moving, are you going to persuade your daughter-in-law again? They are old, so you have to be filial?"
People on the Internet are complaining about the moral kidnapping behavior of village cadres. Even the village's promotion of zero bride price has been brought out. After all, the village cadres regard this as an advanced deed and it has been publicized in the news.
If this policy is indeed to break bad habits and promote social development, that would be fine. But the problem is that their various policies are completely targeted at women and do not require men to make any commitments or set an example.
They believe that it is the woman's fault that men in the village cannot marry wives, that family disharmony is the woman's fault, that the high divorce rate is the woman's fault, that the low fertility rate is the woman's fault...
Anyway, it’s all the woman’s fault. She is wrong in everything, so she must be regulated and educated in everything.
After the zero betrothal gift, the woman must not get involved in her husband's property. She must be a cow and a horse and be filial to her parents-in-law without any regrets. If she is beaten, she must respect the elderly and love the young and endure it. If you cannot have children, you must reflect on yourself. It is even more sinful for you to file for divorce.
amnesty……
He completely treats the woman as a slave bought without spending any money.
When Yuan Shen got married, the campaign to promote zero betrothal gifts in the village had not yet begun. The 160,000 yuan wedding gift was considered a sky-high price in their eyes. This made the village cadres think that Yuan Shen was a negative example, and the Li family also thought that they had spent it in vain.
I paid more than 100,000 in betrothal gifts and suffered a huge loss.
Therefore, the original person was trained by the Li family and became the key target of education for the village cadres. In their hearts, they even felt that the Li family had spent 160,000 yuan as a gift and should do whatever they wanted to the original person.
Is there something wrong with this inappropriate thinking of resisting and still wanting a divorce?
"With village cadres like this, local women will probably marry outside the country, right? After they marry outside, these village cadres will have to do psychological work on these women, accusing them of being poor, loving the rich, greedy for gifts, and unwilling to marry for the local people.
Contribute to the increase in fertility rate?”
"Isn't it good to promote zero bride price? Then some people will understand that if they can't get a wife, it's not about the bride price."
“Excessive betrothal gifts are clearly a problem caused by the preference for boys over girls, but now it’s the woman’s fault?”
The village cadres were so dissed by netizens that they could not hold their heads up, and a special meeting was held to criticize their actions.
The village cadres were very annoyed. The first thing they did after the meeting was to go to Gu Mo to settle the score.
They were talking sincerely, but for Gu Mo? But Gu Mo actually recorded what they said and distorted the facts online?
As a result, when they arrived at Li's house, they saw Gu Mo going crazy and beating the Li family again.
Father Li and Mother Li are already so old, and they were beaten so hard that their noses were bruised and their faces were swollen, and they were screaming and pitiful.
Beating her parents-in-law, she is simply a vicious woman! If they had not cared about it, this vicious woman might have killed someone long ago, so what is wrong with them doing Gu Mo's ideological work? Those people on the Internet don't know anything, why should they call them old?
feudal?
They rushed over to stop Gu Mo, "Gu Mo! Didn't you promise us that you would try to control yourself in the future?"
Gu Mo, "I said I would try my best to control myself, but I really can't control it. You can't let me hold it in. I still have a child in my belly. It's okay to hold it in. It won't delay me.
Contribute to the country’s fertility rate?”
Village cadres, "...?"
Marde, what's going on with this arrogant look about having a baby?
At this time, the three members of the Li family, who had bruises and swollen faces, said miserably to the village cadres: "Several leaders, you have also seen it. She is really crazy. She is not a human being. She will beat people whenever she sees it.
If the beating continues like this, all three of our family will be beaten to death by her. Take her away quickly and lock her up! Yes, lock her up. As long as she can give birth to the child, she will die.
We won’t hold you accountable..."
Unexpectedly, as soon as Father Li said these words, Gu Mo gave him a big bag with his backhand.
"Father-in-law, look what are you talking about? I married into the Li family, was filial to my parents-in-law, and had children. How can I be sorry for you? You actually want to lock me up? Your ideological consciousness is really low!
I'm too embarrassed to ask the leaders to educate you, so I came on my own, after all, I educate myself."
Father Li, whose ears were ringing after being beaten, said, "You, you, you, you vicious woman! Our Li family can no longer afford you, get out! Get out!"
As the head of the family, Father Li has always been aloof. His wife surrounds him and takes good care of him. After his daughter-in-law got married, she also obeyed him. But now, he has actually lived a good life.
Three days for a small dozen and five days for a big dozen?
Gu Moxiao said, "I married into the Li family and will never leave. The Li family is my roots and the Li family is my soil. How can I live without my roots and this soil? Father-in-law, if you say such things again,
I’m really going to be angry.”
Gu Mo's expression turned grim, and he clenched his fists loudly as he approached Li's father.
It was as if he wanted to teach Father Li how to behave.
The faces of the village officials turned green.
"Gu Mo, stop it!"
It's too arrogant to attack in front of them, "If you don't stop, we will call the police!"
