From different standpoints, your thoughts will naturally be different.
Young people will pretend that they are the daughter-in-law and find Gu Mo's behavior of fighting back against the evil mother-in-law very satisfying. However, there are also older people who, from the mother-in-law's point of view, feel that Gu Mo did indeed go too far.
As a daughter-in-law, you will be filial and serve your mother-in-law when you come home. How can you hit your mother-in-law?
What's wrong with your mother-in-law scolding you and hitting you? Whose daughter-in-law didn't come here like this, and I haven't seen other people's daughter-in-law be such a big mother-in-law. Gu Mo is treasonous and should be punished verbally and in writing.
There are also some people who objectively analyzed the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in modern society based on the conflict between Gu Mo and her mother-in-law.
"Actually, I think that modern women who are truly self-reliant and have independent economic and personality have no reason to hate their mother-in-law. If their mother-in-law is not good to them, they can just stay away from them. Who are the people who really hate their mother-in-law? They are all those who are unable to support themselves.
, who chews on his parents-in-law, while objectifying himself in the name of tradition, asking his mother-in-law for a house and love, asking her to take care of the children, and at the same time asking her mother-in-law to treat him as an equal person like in modern society, how is this possible? "
"Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are strangers to begin with, so they should only get along with each other according to the standards of strangers. Isn't it embarrassing to put two strangers into the mold of relatives and make them get along like mother and daughter?"
"Since the daughter-in-law is married, she should treat her mother-in-law well? Think about it, the son who worked so hard to raise is now spending money to support other women, cook for other women, and have children with other women.
My child, my mother-in-law has sacrificed so much, why can’t my daughter-in-law have a bigger picture and treat her mother-in-law better? Do I have to argue with her mother-in-law?"
"The speech above made me laugh to death. My mother-in-law worked so hard to raise her son. The son earns money for his wife to have children with her, but my wife has taken a huge advantage. Then give this advantage to my mother-in-law? Let my mother-in-law have children with my son?
Also, the woman didn’t just jump out of a rock and grow up on her own. Her parents worked hard to raise her. She turned out to be sensible and able to make money, but she married into someone else’s family and went to serve other people’s parents. The woman’s family has no
Sacrifice? How come I don’t see any man in the world treating the woman’s parents like his biological parents? What’s even more cruel is that if the woman cares about her natal family even a little bit, she will be scolded by her husband’s family, as if in their eyes, the woman married into them
Home, it has nothing to do with my parents’ family.”
"If a daughter-in-law is good to her mother-in-law, the mother-in-law should also treat her daughter-in-law with courtesy and respect, and not interfere in the affairs between her son and daughter-in-law. If a daughter-in-law is not good to her mother-in-law, the mother-in-law has no reason to beat or scold her daughter-in-law, because she has never given birth or raised a child.
Daughter-in-law, I think if you want others to respect you, you must first learn to respect others, and the same is true in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law."
"The reason why sons-in-law and mother-in-law and father-in-law don't have such problems is because the mother-in-law's family generally maintains the same idea, separate themselves from the young couple's small family, do not interfere with the young couple's life, and help when they are needed.
When I am not needed, I live my own life. Taking good care of myself means less trouble for my children, and I never ask my son-in-law to treat me as a biological parent. The way my mother-in-law is good to her daughter is to be good to her son-in-law.
The son-in-law is good to the daughter, but the mother-in-law is different. Most of the in-laws' families still retain the old traditional thinking. They think that when the daughter-in-law marries into their family, they become the property of the in-laws' family. If there is nothing to do, they have to come and act as monsters, and they have to use other people's daughters.
The child treats him as his biological father and mother and finds fault in all kinds of ways. If this continues, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become weird. "
How to get along with the complicated relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has once again aroused heated discussion among netizens
Especially after the internet celebrity posted a video of another mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the same village. The mother-in-law shouted pitifully, "Mother Sun, where are you? Come home and see your two sons. The two of us are older."
I need someone to serve me...”, which did not attract the sympathy of netizens. On the contrary, there was a new wave of complaints.
"Based on your words about coming back to serve you two, I don't think she will come back."
"I want the mother of my child to go back, but then I say bad things about my mother in front of the child. It's really terrible.
"The meaning of this is obvious. Even if the daughter-in-law comes back, they will not let the daughter-in-law take the child away. Instead, they will hold the child and use the child to keep the daughter-in-law to continue to serve them. It is really a good calculation.
Ah, although I feel sorry for my two young children, I really don’t want this daughter-in-law to come back and continue jumping into the fire pit."
"It's true that the poorer a place is, the more it likes to torture its daughter-in-law."
"Hey, no matter how difficult it is, since you have given birth to a child, you should raise it. Now the child has no father, and the mother has run away again. The child is so pitiful and innocent."
However, the blogger's video was not as popular as Gu Mo's video. Most netizens were still immersed in the feeling of Gu Mo's refreshing retaliation against his mother-in-law.
Until someone posted a comment in the comment area: "I heard that the daughter-in-law here was married to this family for a high price of 160,000 yuan. Haha, this is a rural area. The price of 160,000 yuan as a bride price is probably worth the money of this family."
The family's wealth was completely emptied, but when she got married, she found out that she was a wicked woman. As a mother-in-law, shouldn't she be beaten and scolded? Isn't it the mother-in-law who should be pitiful? "
The high-priced gift of 160,000 yuan shocked the hearts of most male netizens.
"Woot! Isn't it? Is it really 160,000 yuan? Is this woman crazy? I married her back with 160,000 yuan. How dare she do this to an old man?"
"She is obviously a poisonous woman. There are so many little fairies on the Internet supporting her. I hope your brother or younger brother will also marry such a woman and come back to torment your parents."
As soon as the 160,000 yuan gift came out, most netizens felt that whatever the mother-in-law did to Gu Mo was appropriate, it seemed that 160,000 yuan could buy off the daughter-in-law's life, and the daughter-in-law should be a slave.
The online comments suddenly changed direction and began to criticize Gu Mo, saying that Gu Mo deserved to be beaten and scolded by her mother-in-law, who asked her to ask for such a high bride price.
Most men also started discussing the bride price. Unsurprisingly, there was almost no man on the Internet who was in favor of the bride price.
In their eyes, the existence of betrothal gifts is simply inhumane. It is because of betrothal gifts that they cannot marry a wife. Previously, there was a village on the Internet that advocated zero betrothal gifts, and a school brought the promotion of zero betrothal gifts into the campus. From the time they were arrested,
The whole Internet is criticizing me, but they are very supportive.
Why do you ask a man for a bride price? Why do you ask a man to buy a house or a car? After buying a house and a car and giving the bride price, there is also a fleet of wedding dresses and banquets, as well as money for getting off the bus and payment for change of account. Isn’t this treating a man like a man?
The pigs at the pig-killing feast in the countryside were cut off again and again.
Isn’t the point of a man growing up to give his parents a better life? As a result, when he grows up, he actually increases the burden on his parents because of marriage, making his parents continue to suffer even when they are much older. Is this fair to men?
