Chapter 1573 May there be no crutches in the world (38)
In contrast, the child will feel more and more care about adoptive parents, and the biological parents will only ask themselves to ask themselves. Finally, the heart will naturally be off.
Therefore, if you want to have a good parent -child relationship with your child, you must change the mode of getting along with the child.
Therefore, in Gu Mo's plan, everything is based on the premise of respecting the child's will.
And her plan is discussing with Zhou Yi. Zhou Yi also wanted to read and recognize words. He told Gu Mo very seriously, "I want to pick it up to shame for you. I want to read and recognize words.
People, give you glory! "
Gu Mo also looked at him very seriously, and changed his bias after the cognition.
"Not reading does not mean that you are a useless person. Reading is just a choice of life. For example, those who have been picked up in the same profession, read books, and read books well. They can use their knowledge
For these tattered resource regeneration, benefit the society, and improve your social status and social wealth. "
"And those who have not read books, they do not have rich knowledge reserves, so they can only do the most primitive job, and hand over the tatling picked to those who read the book for reuse of resources. In this process, they
It is very hard, but their hard work is not proportional to their gains. "
"You can't say that their work is not important, but you have to realize that with the development of society, their work may be researched by others or even machine replacement at any time.
Those who read the books well, do you know what this means? The survival of the fittest, when the society develops to a certain degree, when everyone is working hard to improve themselves, those who do not read the book will be eliminated by the society.
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"If you want to be replaced and eliminated, you must read. Although reading is hard, this kind of suffering is nothing at all with the suffering you eat in the society."
"And after reading the book, the people you have touched are the types of people who read the book well, that is, the quality of your circle will be improved with your knowledge.
Friends, they will promote your excellence and make you better and better. "
After speaking, Gu Mo finished, and finally made a summary, "Mom wants you to read, not to let you compete for me, but to hope that your future life is a life that can have the right to choose freely."
Zhou Yi's eyes are shining, "I, I want to be the kind of person you said!"
Gu Mo grabbed his hair, "Okay, let's work together."
A companion who also strives for the same effort is to promote the consciousness of the people around him. There is no other person around Zhou Yi now, so Gu Mo will be the companion who progress with him.
Therefore, what she asked Zhou Yi to learn, she must also learn.
In this way, Gu Mo taught Zhou Yi while taking care of the orchard, and his life slowly returned to peace.
She occasionally poses a live video to help those lonely families looking for children, and the videos she shot are full of rural fireworks, which is very longing for.
One after another, Gu Mo has used his influence to help many families. When some people question Gu Mo too high -profile, some netizens will refute.
"Let more people know how to find relatives and help more people find relatives successfully. This is the meaning of her high profile."
Over the years, netizens have also seen Zhou Yi's growth and changes through Gu Mo's videos and live broadcasts.
If you want to educate a child who has been traumatized since childhood, it is actually easy to say the theory, but it is really difficult to do it. They saw Zhou Yi getting better day by day, and they all felt the greatness of Gu Mo.
She is really too patient and resourceful. She loves her when she should be pampered, educates when she should be educated, and the way she raises her son is textbook-level in every aspect.
There are also education experts who have specially analyzed Gu Mo’s education methods, praising her for applying the essence of new education.
There are also many parents who specifically seek advice from Gu Mo, pointing out that the child education center, especially those orphaned families who have just found their children, urgently need to know how to get along well with their newly found children.
Gu Mo also often shares his experiences.
Looking at the fairy-like rural life of this mother and son, everyone was envious.
"Zheng Lanbo's incident makes me feel sad. Fortunately, Zhou Yi is lucky. He met a good mother who tolerates him, understands him, and patiently guides him. Watching him slowly grow up now, I also feel
Breathed a sigh of relief."
Gu Mo actually breathed a sigh of relief. This child was easier to teach than she thought. As long as he was given a little guidance, he would know how to do many things by himself.
Whether it is dealing with people or some professional technical issues, he can quickly draw inferences about other cases.
For example, regarding the orchard, the fruits did not grow very well at the beginning. Gu Mo took Zhou Yi to study a scientific fruit tree planting plan. Finally, Zhou Yi independently formulated a planting plan under her guidance.
After the implementation of this planting plan, in the third year, the orchard ushered in the first big harvest, and the fruits were large and sweet.
Gu Mo drove a tricycle and took a cart full of fruits to the county town to sell them.
Then he contacted other sales outlets and asked Zhou Yi to guard the tricycle wheat fruit.
The cost of their fruits is lower than those imported from other places, and the price is also relatively cheaper. In addition, they taste very good, so they are still very popular in the local market.
When Gu Mo came back, half the cart of fruit had been sold, and there were many people surrounding the cart, picking fruits and making jokes about Zhou Yi.
Zhou Yi just blushed shyly, lowered his head, silently put the fruit on the scale, and silently collected the money.
When someone praises him or asks about his situation, he will also say thank you in a low voice or that he is doing well.
When he saw Gu Mo coming back, his eyes were bright and he silently showed off to Gu Mo that he had sold half a cart of fruits, like a child asking for praise.
Gu Mo touched his head, and then heard an old man ask, "How do you grow these fruits, and why do they grow so well? What kind of cards do you play?"
After asking this question, he realized that this was someone else's planting secret, and it seemed like he shouldn't ask these questions.
Unexpectedly, Gu Mo said, "We didn't use any pesticides. We used soil and fertilizers that we researched at home. For details, you can ask my son..."
Zhou Yi was pushed out by Gu Mo and met the old man's expectant gaze, still a little at a loss.
However, the old man talked a lot. Seeing that Gu Mo was not shy about these things, he asked again.
Zhou Yi was asked about his areas of expertise and was no longer restrained.
At the beginning, I was a little stuttering, but later on I became smoother and smoother, and my face was glowing red.