Another highly educated mature woman, on the contrary, likes to rationalize various patriarchal systems and label them as freedom and equality.
For example, she gave herself her husband's surname and said that a woman has the freedom to take her husband's surname, and she also has the freedom not to take her husband's surname.
For example, she and her husband discussed having a DINK before marriage, but because her husband cheated on her, she chose to have children.
She kept reflecting on her husband's infidelity, and finally made the decision to have a child. She said that if she didn't want the child, she could not guarantee that her husband would be loyal to her, because her husband cheated because he wanted a child, so in order to save the marriage
, she is willing to break her DINK belief.
There is also a young girl who has been brainwashed by the tyrant’s literature and the consumption concepts created by current capital. She lives in a dream every day, imagining the day when she will be pampered by the tyrant with money.
The guests have all kinds of personalities, but they are all the epitome of today's women.
The way the program is recorded is that the host raises topics and guides everyone to communicate and talk.
Gu Mo rarely takes the initiative to answer questions raised by others, and only occasionally says a few words for the effect of the show.
But at this time, the female guest who took her husband's surname asked her sharply and curiously.
"Ms. Gu, why don't you get married? Is it because you have been hurt by a man? Have you ever thought that you are actually a public figure, and if you don't get married because you have been hurt, you will actually mislead many young people and make them think
Marriage is terrible, so you resist marriage?"
The past about Gu Mo has long been exposed by the media and netizens, and it is not a secret at all.
Therefore, there is nothing wrong with attributing Gu Mo's non-marriage to the fact that he was injured.
But Gu Mo wanted to refute this, but before she could speak, the radical girl next to her refuted first.
She didn't even take a breath when she spoke, and immediately criticized the female guest who had her husband's surname, saying that she was a feminist on the surface, but in fact she was still kneeling down to men's rights. Otherwise, how could she criticize a feminist who did not marry for the sake of freedom?
Who?
Anyway, the words in the words completely put men and women in a confrontational situation, indicating that real women disdain to be with men?
It’s not that I don’t like you, it’s that all men in the world are hot chicks!
Moreover, she cannot tolerate the slightest difference in opinions between others and her own, and her hostility is particularly serious. She regards all those who compromise on marriage and male rights as unforgivable traitors among women.
Especially the female guest who bears her husband's surname, she has always been hostile to her.
"Don't you think you are pathetic? Your husband cheated on you, so you compromised and gave birth to a child to keep her. You even took your husband's surname. Just to maintain this false marriage, you repeatedly showed it to the outside world.
How is the way I am happily married and looking forward to being recognized different from the previous generation?"
"Yes, you have the freedom to take your husband's surname, and you have the freedom not to take your husband's surname. According to what you said, women today also have the freedom to bind their feet or not, and the freedom to wear a headscarf or not.
Freedom, the freedom to go to school and the freedom not to go to school, then isn’t everyone free to choose what they want? Why does the state interfere with everyone’s choices? Because human freedom is upward freedom, not upward freedom.
Freedom, what you call freedom, is it really freedom? Is your marriage really a freely chosen choice by you in accordance with your heart? Is it your freedom to take your husband's last name? No, you are afraid of the world's eyes, so
You chose to get married, and you were afraid that your husband would cheat on you and the marriage would break up, so you chose to have children. You have no freedom at all, but here you justly say that you have the freedom to take your husband’s surname, and you have the freedom to move forward if you want, and who doesn’t have it?
…”
The female guest bearing her husband’s surname also began to refute.
"Although my husband has cheated on me, it does not affect our love and our married life. You may not understand why, but that's fine, because you don't understand men at all..."
She talked eloquently, as if she had a thorough understanding of the human creature.
"There are two types of men cheating. One is just for fun. It's like going outside to play with a gun and shoot the target. After having fun, you will naturally go home. He always puts his family responsibility first and will never abandon his wife.
As it turns out, there is another way to give love, to raise the mistress as love, and even to abandon the original wife for the mistress. This is
This situation is indeed very dangerous for women, but fortunately, my husband has a relatively strong sense of family responsibility. He has not thought about abandoning our marriage. He is just having fun with other women, and has even started to marry me.
My husband never even thought about playing with that woman. It was because his friends around him repeatedly encouraged him that he reluctantly did it..."
"There is also a child. Although I gave birth to it, I did not raise it. In order to ensure that our lifestyle is not affected, my husband found his mother. Now his mother has been raising the child. We just finished
A mission to carry on the family lineage. In essence, we still belong to Dink..."
The two people were going back and forth, with conflicting views and repeated attacks. The host on one side gradually lost his temper in the crowd's expressions.
Even Gu Mo's expression couldn't be restrained.
Her husband wanted a child, so she compromised and had one, but she didn't want to raise her. If she didn't raise her, her husband had to raise her.
But her husband only wanted to give birth to her, not to raise her.
So in the end, the child was raised by the mother-in-law.
Her husband doesn't have to give anything at all. As long as he expresses his needs, a woman will take the initiative to fulfill his wishes.
I have to say that being a man is really a blessing.
In this, women are just functional machines whose purpose of existence is basically to satisfy men’s needs.
Satisfy men's physiological needs, meet the needs of having children, meet the needs of men to take care of children, and satisfy men's emotional values...
Men are indeed vested interests in marriage and still occupy a dominant position in society. Women should indeed wake up.
But Gu Mo felt that the female awakening of the radical girls and the female guests with the husband's surname were over-awakened and directly extreme.
Their views seem to be in conflict, but in fact there is no difference. Put aside the topic of men, and only talk about women. In fact, their ideas are not free in themselves, but they are still using social rules and regulations, under the guise of feminism.
In the name of women, women are divided into three, six or nine grades.
Those who are married and those who are not married, those who have children and those who do not, those who wear bras and those who do not wear bras...
Feminism originally has no distinction between correct and incorrect. As long as you feel comfortable, it is free. Once there are rules and regulations, it becomes dogmatism.