Chapter 1573 May there be no crutches in the world (38)
By comparison, the child will feel more and more that the adoptive parents care more about them, while the biological parents will only ask for this and that of themselves, and in the end their hearts will naturally be biased.
Therefore, if you want to have a good parent-child relationship with your children, you must change the way you get along with your children.
Therefore, everything in Gu Mo's plan is based on respecting the child's wishes.
Moreover, her plan was discussed with Zhou Yi. Zhou Yi also wanted to read and write. He told Gu Mo seriously, "Do I want to embarrass you by picking up rags? I want to read and write and be useful."
I will bring glory to you!"
Gu Mo also looked at him seriously, trying to change his cognitive bias.
"Not studying does not mean that you are a useless person. Reading is just a choice in life. For example, people who have the same occupation as picking up rags and have read books and read them well can use their knowledge.
Recycling these junk resources will benefit society and at the same time improve one's social status and social wealth."
"People who have not read books do not have a rich reserve of knowledge, so they can only do the most primitive work and hand over the rags they pick up to those who have read books to reuse resources. In the process, they
It is very hard, but their hard work is not directly proportional to their gains."
"You can't say that their jobs are not important, but you have to realize that with the development of society, their jobs may be replaced by others, even machines, at any time. And who developed the machines that replace them?
They are also those who read well. Do you know what this means? Survival of the fittest. When society develops to a certain level and everyone is working hard to study to improve themselves, those who have not read will be eliminated by society.
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"If you want not to be replaced or eliminated by others, you must study. Although studying is very hard, such hardship is nothing compared to the hardship you endure when entering society."
"And if you read the book well, the people you come into contact with will be the type of people who read the book well. In other words, the quality of your circle will increase with the amount of knowledge you have. Excellent and like-minded people
Friends, they will promote your excellence and make you better and better."
After Gu Mo finished speaking, he made a conclusion, "Mom hopes that you study, not so that you can bring glory to me, but because I hope that you can have the right to make free choices in your future life."
Zhou Yi's eyes were shining, "I, I want to be the kind of person you said!"
Gu Mo scratched his hair and said, "Okay, let's work hard together."
A companion who is also working hard can promote the consciousness of struggle in those around him. There is no one else around Zhou Yi now, so Gu Mo has to be the companion who makes progress with him.
Therefore, she must also learn what she asked Zhou Yi to learn.
In this way, Gu Mo taught Zhou Yi while taking care of the orchard, and his life slowly returned to peace.
She still occasionally posts live videos to help orphaned families find their children, and the videos she shoots are full of rural fireworks, which makes people very yearning.
One after another, Gu Mo has used his influence to help many families. When someone questions that Gu Mo is too high-profile, some netizens will refute.
"Let more people know how to find relatives and help more people find relatives successfully. This is the meaning of her high profile."
Over the years, netizens have also seen Zhou Yi's growth and changes through Gu Mo's videos and live broadcasts.
If you want to educate a child who has been traumatized since childhood, it is actually easy to say the theory, but it is really difficult to do it. They saw Zhou Yi getting better day by day, and they all felt the greatness of Gu Mo.
She is really too patient and resourceful. She loves her when she should be pampered, educates when she should be educated, and the way she raises her son is textbook-level in every aspect.
There are also education experts who have specially analyzed Gu Mo’s education methods, praising her for applying the essence of new education.
There are also many parents who specifically seek advice from Gu Mo, pointing out that the child education center, especially those orphaned families who have just found their children, urgently need to know how to get along well with their newly found children.
Gu Mo also often shares his experiences.
Looking at the fairy-like rural life of this mother and son, everyone was envious.
"What happened to Zheng Lanbo makes me sad. Fortunately, this child Zhou Yi is lucky. He met a good mother who tolerates him, understands him, and patiently guides him. Watching him slowly grow up now, I also feel
Breathed a sigh of relief."
Gu Mo actually breathed a sigh of relief. This child was easier to teach than she thought. As long as he was given a little guidance, he would know how to do many things by himself.
Whether it is dealing with people or some professional technical issues, he can quickly draw inferences about other cases.
For example, regarding the orchard, the fruits did not grow very well at the beginning. Gu Mo took Zhou Yi to study a scientific fruit tree planting plan. Finally, Zhou Yi independently formulated a planting plan under her guidance.
After the implementation of this planting plan, in the third year, the orchard ushered in the first big harvest, and the fruits were large and sweet.
Gu Mo drove a tricycle and took a cart full of fruits to the county town to sell them.
Then he contacted other sales outlets and asked Zhou Yi to guard the tricycle wheat fruit.
The cost of their fruits is lower than those imported from other places, and the price is also relatively cheaper. In addition, they taste very good, so they are still very popular in the local market. Junquge
When Gu Mo came back, half the cart of fruit had been sold, and there were many people surrounding the cart, picking fruits and making jokes about Zhou Yi.
Zhou Yi just blushed shyly, lowered his head, silently put the fruit on the scale, and silently collected the money.
When someone praises him or asks about his situation, he will also say thank you in a low voice or that he is doing well.
When he saw Gu Mo coming back, his eyes were bright and he silently showed off to Gu Mo that he had sold half a cart of fruits, like a child asking for praise.
Gu Mo touched his head, and then heard an old man ask, "How do you grow these fruits, and why do they grow so well? What kind of cards do you play?"
After asking this question, he realized that this was someone else's planting secret, and it seemed like he shouldn't ask these questions.
Unexpectedly, Gu Mo said, "We didn't use any pesticides. We used soil and fertilizers that we researched at home. For details, you can ask my son..."
Zhou Yi was pushed out by Gu Mo and met the old man's expectant gaze, still a little at a loss.
However, the old man talked a lot. Seeing that Gu Mo was not shy about these things, he asked again.
Zhou Yi was asked about his areas of expertise and was no longer restrained.
At the beginning, I was a little stuttering, but later on I became smoother and smoother, and my face was glowing red.
