That night, Fu Yiqian called Bo Zhanye and Fu Ziyang together, and then told the story of his quarrel with Hathaway.
After some analysis, he still didn't quite understand where the real problem lay.
"You said, she and I got along like that before we got married, and it hasn't changed since we got married. Why did it make her sad?"
"As for the wound, I didn't tell her because I thought she was already working hard taking care of the child and I didn't want her to worry anymore."
"Why did it make her so sad and collapsed? And why did she raise such a serious issue as divorce?"
Fu Ziyang: "A woman's heart is like a needle in the sea. Sometimes quarrels and emotions are unnecessary reasons."
A woman like that actually did such a ridiculous thing...it still lingers in my mind.
Bo Zhanye said: "No matter whether you are wrong or not, you are still wrong if you make your woman sad."
"This matter is indeed your problem."
"My brother-in-law looks at things from a different perspective. No wonder my sister is completely devoted to him."
"Brother, please ask your brother-in-law to help you analyze it in detail. I think there is hope for your marriage with your brother-in-law here."
Fu Yiqian indeed cast his hopeful eyes on the noble Bo Zhanye: "Speak carefully."
Bo Zhanye said slowly: "First of all, it's okay to get along so well before marriage, but after marriage, in addition to being your secretary, she is also your wife. You should consider her status as your wife in everything you do.
Let’s take the core root of your problem as an example. In the past, you were on a business trip for a few days, or disappeared secretly for a few days. You really couldn’t let her know.
Now that she is your wife, you have the right to report to her in detail and share various situations, otherwise she will not be able to help but think about what you are doing, whether there is a woman around you, whether that woman will throw herself into your arms, and whether you can
Sit with your arms calmly."
Fu Yiqian: "..."
"Secondly, the person next to you happens to be Qiao Sheng, who likes you. If you get along with such Qiao Sheng day and night, even if you have no second thoughts, it is a mistake in itself for a married man to get along with a woman who likes him day and night.
And because of your physical condition, only Qiao Sang can help you, accompany you, and take care of you. As a wife, she has no idea or is excluded, watching you and Qiao Sang get along harmoniously. You said, she is your wife.
Can my wife not be jealous or angry?"
Fu Yiqian: "..."
"In the end, she quarreled with you in that way without just keeping silent or running away from home, which was a good way to deal with it.
What she said is right. If she comes to tell you this mistake, it will only mean that you think there is no mistake and it is meaningless, just like asking you for a gift will appear unnecessary.
And in this situation, you did not reflect deeply, find out and solve the problem, and made more mistakes."
Fu Yiqian: "..."
The whole person was completely shocked and stunned.
He had no idea that the problem was so serious, and that all the seriousness came from him.
No wonder she said he was such a failure in this marriage...so sad and broken...
It's his fault.
"What should I do now?"
Fu Ziyang Fu Zijun: "What else can we do? Of course we should bring my sister-in-law back first."
"Yes, apologize quickly and admit your mistake."
"No, this is the second step." Bo Zhanye interrupted.
Fu Yiqian frowned in surprise and asked: "What is the first step?"