If he really wanted to find Shirley, he didn't think it was impossible, but he had to make sure of Rong Jingyan's mentality.
He just wanted to see the child, so he could show him the photos. As for him, there was really no need to go find Shirley and disturb Shirley until she finally walked out and saw Rong Jingyan again.
Fell.
The feeling of hanging on a wire is so uncomfortable.
Since he doesn't love Shirley, Rong Jingyan should never appear in front of Shirley. This is the greatest gift to Shirley.
Regardless of whether Shirley has children or not, this is the best way.
Once he sees the child, it means there is a bond. As a man, he understands the constant entanglement between blood ties, which no one can cut off.
"Rong Jingyan, if you don't like Shirley, I don't want you to see her and the child. If you really want to see the child, I can show you the video. It's the same. You and I are both men, but
You should clearly know that blood ties can never be cut off. Every time you see them, they will become deeper and more reluctant to part with you. Once you have such emotions, no one can guarantee that you will
Will the child be snatched away from Shirley's hands? So your absence is the best thing for Shirley and the child."
Ou Qing's strength left Rong Jingyan with no room for rebuttal.
Men know men best, and he would never let go of Shirley and the child as easily as he said.
This is impossible.
Even if he doesn't like Shirley anymore, the child is his. He has never seen a real person before, so he doesn't think there is any problem. But the child is really there now, and there is no way for him to convince himself that he should completely treat it as a child.
nonexistent.
but……
He still wants to see the child.
Unexpectedly, before Rong Jingyan could speak, Ou Qing spoke again, "My meaning is very clear. If you don't like Shirley, then don't disturb their mother and son. This is the only thing you can do for them as a father."
As for the baby growing up in the future, I think Shirley, as a mother, will tell the baby that you exist. At that time, if the baby is willing to recognize you, that is the baby's own business, but now I don't want you and
I have nothing to do with Shirley, and I don’t want you to hurt Shirley again."
"Hurt? Why would it hurt Shirley? I just looked at Shirley, so how about harm?" Rong Jingyan couldn't understand why he thought that if he went to Shirley, he would cause harm to her?
What kind of logic is this?!
"Rong Jingyan, I think you should know Shirley's temperament. She has deep feelings for you, otherwise she would not have bothered you regardless of her face. Moreover, she is very stubborn. If you keep looking for her, even if
If you do it for the child, she will also wonder whether you will start over with her because of the child! So Rong Jingyan, if you don’t really like her, just let her go. She has already avoided you, so why should you?
Pursuing it again will only increase everyone’s troubles. When the baby grows up, she will tell her that you are the baby’s father. What the baby chooses is the baby’s own choice and we will not interfere.”
Rong Jingyan's frown deepened. He naturally understood the cause and effect relationship. He didn't like Shirley and hurt her deeply.
What Ou Qing said was true, but he was still unwilling to accept it after all.