Those who can rely on their mouth to make a living are almost all experts at picking up girls.
Because they all know how to do what they like.
Under normal circumstances, as long as the girl asks for something, you will satisfy her, and it will basically be settled.
If you are unable or unable to satisfy them, then you have no choice but to lie to them and promise them that you will satisfy them soon.
As long as it can give them hope, the effect is still decent.
Of course, if they see through it, you will be a complete failure.
This is the secret to picking up girls.
Sometimes you don’t even need to take the initiative at all.
As long as the girls see that you have everything that meets their needs, they will obediently come closer to you.
Just like Huo Xin pestering Ning Weimin to beg for nothing, this is just like the nature of bees collecting honey.
So the "Pan Donkey and Deng Xiaoxian" given by Wang Po to the high-ranking officials of Ximen is actually just an appearance.
This is just a summary of the typical needs of most girls, not the core principles of picking up girls.
When it comes to the real general outline and key points, it boils down to the four words "do what you like".
It is precisely because of this that the better a person is at communicating with strangers, the easier it is for his or her emotional and private life to become chaotic, and the higher the rate of cheating.
It is precisely because of this that people who are not good at communicating, such as men in science and engineering, and programmers, are naturally vulnerable groups that are excluded from love.
No matter how good your personal conditions are, you will inevitably become a miserable single.
Even further, these four-character mantra can be regarded as the basis for maintaining good interpersonal relationships in the world.
Even if it is applied to business negotiations, handling public relations crises, and maintaining harmonious family relationships, it has the same miraculous effect.
There is no doubt that for Ning Weimin, this is his guiding thought in dealing with current problems.
He believed that as long as he could analyze the psychology of his parents, he would have found the key to solving the problem.
This is not difficult.
Actually, why are Qu Xiao’s parents so sad and angry?
Essentially, it’s not because of the prejudice and incomprehension about the modeling profession that they think their only daughter is doing shameless things behind their backs.
Qu Xiao’s parents really thought that their daughter was a bad student, and they did not hesitate to deceive them with lies, making their twenty years of hard work completely in vain, so they did irrational harm to their only daughter.
As long as they can let go of their worries and concerns, and then have a good hope in their hearts.
Naturally, nothing can hinder Qu Xiao’s family from getting back together and restoring a harmonious family atmosphere.
So it was near noon on September 25th, when Qu Xiao returned to her home and knocked on the door.
Ning Weimin is not as melancholy and hopeless as this girl.
The little guilt and nervousness he had in his heart were washed away by the excitement of being able to turn the tide through his eloquence.
Based on the impression left by Quxiao’s parents in his memory, he was at least 70% sure that he could achieve a relatively perfect result.
And this first treasure, he put it on clothing.
Whether we are willing to admit it or not, in fact, each of us has the mentality and habit of "judging people by their appearance".
Although this is a derogatory term, it is something that happens all the time.
For no other reason than because it is completely impossible to penetrate a person's skin and understand a person's inner being in a short period of time.
On the contrary, appearance and clothing are relatively reliable sources of information for judging strangers.
And this matter is not as superficial as it seems.
You should know that "appearance" is just two words, but it includes many aspects.
For example, personality is written on the face, character is revealed in the eyes, lifestyle is reflected in the figure, emotional ups and downs are revealed in the voice, tutoring is based on posture, aesthetics is based on clothes, and level is based on shoes...
So when interacting with others, appearance is well deserved and has become the most straightforward way to impress the other person.
Many people even subconsciously add positive qualities to people who look good and satisfy themselves.
Take Ning Weimin himself as an example.
When he appears on the street with different appearances, the feedback he gets is completely different.
If he is standing on the street in a suit and tie, whether he is asking for directions or asking for information.
Everyone else responded politely and seemed particularly polite and well-educated.
And when he dresses like an ordinary person in an alley, others' attitude is quite casual.
Sometimes it is unavoidable that some people would pick on Canada and find fault with his language, lack of honorifics, and so on.
This is enough to fully prove one point.
A person’s appearance indeed plays a far greater role in conveying information than words.
This can directly determine whether a person can gain the respect and favor of the other person.
Although people always say not to jump to conclusions about a person based on their appearance, in fact almost everyone around the world does this.
In fact, this rule is fulfilled without exception even today for Qu Xiao’s parents.
When the door of Qu's house opened, Qu Xiao's parents, who came in with sulky faces, were shocked and could hardly believe their eyes.
They had no idea that their daughter, who had been driven out of the house in a panic, would return home in such a touching and noble appearance just one day later.
Facing their daughter’s new image, they are pleased with it, appreciate it, but are not used to it.
But no matter what, the temper will naturally be controlled.
Not only can they no longer express their anger, but they are also afraid to recognize each other.
If it weren't for Qu Xiao's change, this would be just a layer of skin, but the inside would not change at all.
Seeing the strange looks in her parents' eyes, she immediately felt guilty and apologized with tears in her eyes.
“Dad, Mom, I was wrong, please forgive me, please, and let me go home...”
Qu Xiao’s parents really don’t know how long they will have to stand at a loss.
And the image of Ning Weimin has the effect of a divine assist.
Even if you look at him, he is just wearing an ordinary suit. Looking at it thirty years later, it really means nothing.
But in this era, suits are special clothing that represent the advanced nature of the West.
Most people not only don’t have the right temperament when wearing suits, but they also have something wrong with them, making them look particularly awkward.
For example, the suit does not fit well, the color and pattern are not elegant, the tie cannot be tied, all buttons are buttoned, the cuff tags are retained, the shirt is too shabby, the suit pockets are bulging, etc...
To be honest, someone like Ning Weimin can really choose a suit that fits him well and creates a crisp appearance and smooth lines.
The master who can really wear a tie and look like a gentleman with a gentle temperament without showing off his appearance is really a rare animal like a giant panda.
Among other things, most people are still used to wearing black leather shoes with white socks.
Ning Weimin is one of the few people who knows how to wear black leather shoes with black socks.
Just this little difference in details makes him look so comfortable and elegant.
Standing there, I couldn’t help but laugh at my parents looking up and down.
So when he asked very politely, "Uncle and aunt, it's a bit inconvenient to talk outside, can we go in and talk?"
His demeanor and thoughtfulness immediately made it impossible for Qu Xiao’s parents to maintain their glaring, angry-looking attitude of guarding the gate.
Can't help but keep the door open.
Unexpectedly, there was no harsh word or question, and the two of them were just allowed to enter the house silently.
The first threshold was crossed very easily, and the result was a good impression score.