This girl Mu Yueying is still such a person, and she actually has many advantages.
But just because she is like a big kid who loves to laugh and make trouble, she doesn't know how to look at other people's eyebrows.
As a result, they often fail to detect the annoyance of others in time and curb their own behavior.
Passionately helping others, often in the most unpopular ways.
Therefore, her advantages were buried and ignored.
Even in many such small things, she offended many people.
Only when you have been dealing with her for a long time, put aside your prejudices, and look at her with a broader perspective, can you discover the loveliness in her.
That's what happened today, just when Aunt Bian came into the house to complain to her wife.
This "Mu Guiying" quietly returned to the kitchen by herself.
She cleaned the pot and fried the rice again.
Then he called Bian Jiangong over, handed him a rolling pin, and asked him to use his strength to help crush the fried rice grains.
In this way, when Aunt Bian comes out of the house again, this "Mu Guiying" will be like an optimistic child again, holding the newly made rice noodles and showing off with a smile.
"Auntie, we have already made this rice noodles, so don't waste your efforts! Look at ours, how yellow and fragrant it is! It's enough for you to steam two large pots of rice noodles and meat!"
Although her style is still abrupt.
But when Auntie Bian held up some fried rice noodles with her hands, brought it to her nose and smelled it, especially when she thought of what her wife had just said, she couldn't help but feel grateful for her kindness.
So I gave him a few rare compliments.
"It's really authentic rice noodles! How can it be fried so well and rolled so finely? I can't see that you still have such patience. This is a delicate job of stir-frying over low heat. I want to roll it so finely.
, it’s also a lot of effort, thank you so much for your hard work..."
Unexpectedly, "Mu Guiying", with a sincere face and full of enthusiasm, actually said something without taking any credit.
"That's right, that's right. Auntie, I always come to your house to eat and drink. What does it mean to do this?"
"You don't know, I'm actually quite good at frying rice and noodles. I learned from my family members when I was little. But when it comes to rolling, I'm not good at it. This is all due to meritorious service."
"Anyway, if there is any use for the two of us, don't be polite, just say so! We can't do much, so we can always help. The New Year's Eve dinner is the most tiring, I know that."
Aunt Bian likes to hear this.
At this moment, facing "Mu Guiying," whom she had never found good at all, she finally had a smile on her face.
…………
Nothing really can be compared.
In fact, Uncle Bian was right about the other thing.
That is the situation where every household in the capital is eager to have older young people eager to start a family due to the wave of wedding celebrations brought about by the educated youth who have returned to the city.
His son is doing great work and can find a girl he likes, which is pretty good.
The situation in the Luo family in No. 2 Courtyard is obviously the worst.
Almost everyone in the Luo family, including Luo Guangliang himself, is increasingly losing confidence in his ability to start a family as soon as possible.
Why?
Just because in today's social context, most people's ideal son-in-law is someone with a clean background, a decent job, eloquent, preferably some power, and overseas connections.
As for Luo Guangliang, although he has a kind character, is in good shape, and can make money, no one recognizes this.
On the contrary, I don't mind that he "went in" because of "that kind of thing" and he doesn't have a stable job.
Therefore, Luo Guangliang was like an antique in troubled times and gold in prosperous times. He was completely underestimated and became an inferior commodity that no one cares about in the marriage market.
In fact, apart from the people introduced to him by his sister-in-law, he was still passable.
All the other people introduced to him by enthusiastic people were the ugliest, worst, and most demoralizing.
Once he visited six houses in one day, and all of them looked like their uncles didn't care about them or their grandma didn't love them.
One of them was still holding a cigarette, and she looked exactly like the female spy who assassinated Lenin.
Luo Guangliang has always suspected that those old ladies have colluded to collect these ugly monsters and introduce them to him.
But later he discovered that these guys were both shrewd and measured.
Of course it’s not that they don’t know those beautiful girls, they know so many girls!
The problem, though, is that these guys balance things quite precisely.
A chicken marries a chicken, a dog marries a dog, a phoenix perches on a phoenix tree, just count on your fingers, both parties will be compatible.
In their minds, Luo Guangliang had no redeeming qualities except for his upright appearance and strength.
His marriage seems to be just like a tortoise matching mung beans, and a rotten fish looking for rotten shrimp.
Luo Guangliang once heard that Qiuzi's mother, who wanted to introduce her niece to him, scolded him behind his back for not being generous.
The old ladies who usually smiled at him were gossiping about him angrily.
"I don't even look at my own history, and I still want to pick and choose! To be honest, it would be great if someone dares to follow him! Isn't my niece a bit tongue-tied and not so fluent in her speech? Apart from this, it is also a waste of time.
What's wrong? He still doesn't like me? I don't know how much I weigh!"
This really made Luo Guangliang very angry.
He finally realized that it was useless no matter how anxious he was.
Although he has always been a responsible person and worked hard to make money.
But in the eyes of some people, it was as if he had been a bandit who committed murder and set fires.
Unfortunately, he couldn't stop others because of this. After all, he took the wrong path himself.
And to be honest, it's not like he doesn't sympathize with other people's misfortunes.
But the problem is that marriage is not a matter of promoting style, and he always feels that it is not suitable for him to find such a partner.
You know, Qiu Zi’s mother’s niece’s condition has reached an outrageous level.
The sentence "I saw a big sugar man yesterday, and he was a melon" made him guess for three days before he figured out the answer.
The co-author is "I saw a big worm yesterday, and it was a flower."
And the key is, Qiuzi’s mother’s niece doesn’t look that good either.
Although it can't be said to make people have nightmares after watching it, it will never give people any sweet feelings.
Of course, a person's beauty or ugliness cannot only be judged on the surface. Newspapers and books also teach this every day, saying that we should pay attention to the beauty of the soul.
But this way of looking at objects, where can we look at the soul?
Furthermore, since everyone calls them beautiful souls, why do people who call them these words choose the ones they like when they are looking for a partner?
So even though he felt a little guilty and indeed sympathized with Qiuzi's mother's niece, Luo Guangliang still couldn't have sex with that girl.
And the last bit of sympathy for her disappeared because of Qiuzi’s mother’s words.
Needless to say, outsiders are unreliable. Those who really care about Luo Guangliang's affairs the most are definitely his own family members.
But it was precisely the family members' sincere concern for him that hurt Luo Guangliang the most.
Because gradually, Luo Guangliang discovered that those who were matchmakers for him were talking about him behind his back. The most beautiful word was "the prodigal son turned back".
And the reason why they were so enthusiastic about introducing him to one person after another was actually because his family secretly begged them.
I even bought a lot of gifts for these hateful old ladies.
Luo Guangliang's father often sighed and advised him not to be too picky.
No matter how you look, you can live a lifetime together, and it will be pleasing to your eyes as they grow together.
Although Luo Guangliang's mother spoke very softly and euphemistically, Luo Guangliang could clearly feel the meaning behind her words. Why are you so picky?
For this reason, Luo Guangliang felt pain in his chest, which was several times more uncomfortable than those outsiders gossiping behind their backs or speaking out.
As for Luo Guangliang's brother and sister-in-law, they often quarreled in silence at night because of his affairs.
Luo Guangsheng blamed Miao Yujuan for not being interested in her brother and not worrying about her brother's affairs.
"My brother has been tortured for so many years, and he still doesn't have a partner at this age. Are you so stubborn? He's not your biological brother, is he?"
Of course Miao Yujuan felt extremely wronged, and she also blamed Luo Guangsheng for only going to the factory to work overtime, just like an old man abandoning her, and not caring about family matters.
"You're not feeling guilty when you say this. Everything at home must be pointed at me. Besides, don't you know what's going on with Guang Liang? It's not easy for me to get people to agree to meet for this kind of thing. I can't be forceful.
Are you going to pay homage to someone else? Isn’t it the same for your eldest sister? Did she find it for Guang Liang? "
When he heard these words, Luo Guangliang really wanted to open the door and kowtow to his brother and sister-in-law.
He really didn't want to cause the couple, who were living well and harmoniously, to have an unforgettable grudge in their hearts because of him.
So for this reason, he was extremely frustrated and at the same time in a dilemma.
I don't want to see anyone anymore, and I'm also afraid that my negativity and giving up will make my family worry.
His contradiction lies in the fact that he doesn't know whether he should aggrieve himself and just talk about getting married with his eyes closed.
Fortunately, at the critical moment, Ning Weimin asked him to help him speculate on stamps.
After a drink and knowing his troubles, he gave him firm confidence and good hope.
"It's better to be content than to be careless, brother! Is this something we can make do with? Don't think like this. One mistake will lead to eternal regrets. If you don't believe it, just look at these divorces now. What's going on? Almost all of them happened in the first few years.
A marriage that succumbs to social conditions. If appearance and education are not considered, can the goals of life be consistent? It is not surprising that it will disintegrate."
"Don't forget that "The Wrangler" is very beautiful, but it is a movie. In reality, how could the girl who escaped from famine have the temperament and appearance of Cong Shan? Of course, it would not be as beautiful as in the movie
Ending. On the contrary, no matter how tragic the result will be."
"On the other hand, you have to understand that society is not static. In the past, politics took the lead, but now it has become economic construction. Then the standards for choosing a spouse will definitely change. Don't you think money plays a role in our lives?
Is it becoming more and more important? Don’t look at it now, the society still looks down on the self-employed. But they all envy the self-employed’s money.”
"I can assure you that within a few years, your money will be able to erase all the disgrace in your past. It will make you more dazzling and make all the good girls fall for you. When the time comes,
They are like flies, you can't blow them away even if you want. It's up to you to pick them. This means that today you can't stand me, and tomorrow I will make it impossible for you to climb up."
"Don't believe it. If you want to find a beautiful one, it's actually not difficult now. I can help you introduce a few right away. But the problem is, they are all models, and they are not young. They are all over twenty-five.
I don’t know how many boyfriends I have now, and none of them are practical. I think it’s a trick to introduce you to someone like this. These girls have no intention of having a relationship, and they must only be after your money. Yes.
This kind of thing is exactly like doing business. We discuss the price with each other and look at the goods. Once we like it, we make a bid to buy it."
"Don't laugh, I'm serious. You are gold in the sand now. You are very different from others. Where can you find your appearance, your spirit, and your ability? In two years, you will become a success in no time.
Now that you are a diamond king, you can definitely find a young man in his early twenties. Because you are not only rich. I believe that there is no girl who does not love you for other advantages. Now, don’t they say that we lack Takakura Ken? You
This is the domestic Ken Takakura I know. It’s just that there is no society that can correctly evaluate you, so good girls are temporarily blinded."
"Don't worry, don't you still have me with you? To tell you the truth, I plan to get married when I'm forty years old. I have to choose carefully and think clearly about the life I want to live. Only then can I know who is really suitable for me.
If you don't have the one you want, you might as well live alone. Don't you think so?"
"Hey, how about we just do this. To put it more seriously, you can learn to drive first. Driving a car is a skill. It just so happens that our 'Tan Palace' has bought four cars, so we can squeeze out one for you.
It’s not difficult to get a place. If you want to learn to drive, you can also practice with my car. How great? If you really want to hold a driving certificate, everyone will have to take a high look at you, right? Even if you go on a blind date, the weight will be different.
Right? And at least, you can use this matter as a delaying measure to let your family calm down for a while, right? "
Yes, what Ning Weimin said is indeed quite practical.
For ordinary people to want to learn to drive a car, it was simply unimaginable in this era when cars were still an extremely luxury product.
Being able to hold the steering wheel is really something to be proud of.
In particular, in order to prevent individuals from relying on units to learn how to drive, the Vehicle Management Office also requires drivers from each unit to actually own the vehicle.
It is stipulated that a car can only be equipped with two drivers, and units without cars are not allowed to learn driving.
This further highlights the value and value of a car driving license, as car drivers are currently a monopolistic industry.
It can even be said that if Luo Guangliang gets a driving license and wants to find a place to be a driver and get a formal job, it is also possible.
This is completely comparable to the vast seas and the sky.
Then Luo Guangliang's heart became enlightened, he was elated, thanked Ning Weimin with great surprise, and followed his idea.
Sure enough, the family heard that Luo Guangliang could get a driving book, and their anxiety about his marriage dissipated a lot.
With a calm heart again, Luo Guangliang relaxed and admired Ning Weimin's words more and more.
He must admit that this brother, who is several years younger than him, sees things very keenly.
That's right, the younger a girl is, the more likely she is to find a partner.
Women over the age of twenty-five are as sophisticated as rocks. No matter how much you rip out your heart and soul, they will remain unmoved. They will always consider your age, type of work, salary, and physical condition extremely carefully.
Whether you have any serious illness, whether you have elderly people to support at home, whether you smoke or drink, whether you have attended junior high school or high school, whether you have a docile temper or a bad temper.
They even peek at you from behind to see if your walking posture is correct and whether your two legs are the same length.
In short, older women are more practical and less emotional.
But the younger girls are not like that. They are as simple as a bowl of water and don't think so much at all.
They don't even know your name before they dare to be nice to you.
Just like Mi Xiaohui from the Mi Family in No. 2 Courtyard, she already knows how to fall in love at such a young age.
On the afternoon of New Year's Eve, this girl knocked on Luo Guangliang's door and brought him a box of chocolates.
"Why are you giving me a gift?"
"Brother Liangzi, you can try it. My sister sent it back from the United States."
"I don't eat sweets, why don't you keep it for yourself?"
"No, why don't you give me any face? I have to stand up for you in school for me, thank you."
"Tch, that counts as a start. You are really a child. I just took a walk and came home with you."
"That will work, ah...Brother Liangzi, are you busy in the morning of your second year of junior high school? Can you go out with me again?"
"Ah, let me tell you, I dare you to ask me for something. Where are you going?"
“Shichahai Ice Rink!”
"What? What are you doing there? It's such a mess there!"
"I...I don't skate myself, I just want to watch people skate..."
"There's no need to go anywhere, Longtan Lake also has an ice rink..."
"Hey, let me tell you the truth. I fully trust you. You must never tell anyone else. I have a classmate whose cousin is from the Physical Education University. He looks like the movie actor Feng Zhe, but
He's so handsome, and his legs are so long. When I went to my classmate's house the day before yesterday, I heard him tell others that he was going to Shichahai for skating in the morning of the second grade of junior high school..."