Su Jianmin smiled and said: "Do you think Wen Nian is still a child? He is already eighteen years old. Doesn't he know whether he likes it or not?"
"Some people just wake up late."
"I think he just doesn't have feelings for Xie Shuting."
Having said this, Su Jianmin sat beside the bed and patted his wife's shoulder lightly, "Okay, let the young people think about these issues for themselves. We as parents should stop messing around. The more we mess around,
The more chaotic it becomes.”
"I don't want to get involved, I'm just chatting casually."
After discussing the matter of the third child, Bai Lu mentioned the second child again, "What do you think about Nan Bing's blind date? Did you mention it as a joke or seriously? If it is serious, we have to start making arrangements...
…”
"Actually, the second child is not very old. He can wait for a few more years, but we don't know when he will come back next time," Su Jianmin said. "If he comes back during the busy farming season, the girls in the village won't have time to go on a blind date with him.
right?"
Bai Lu pushed her husband, "Oh, don't beat around the bush. Do you want to arrange a blind date for him or not?"
"That's what I thought. It's rare for him to come back this time, and it happens to be the Spring Festival, when people in the village are most leisurely. Let's let him meet a few girls to get to know each other. If it can happen, of course it will be a good thing. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't matter.
Well."
After Su Jianmin finished speaking, he thought for a while and then said: "I just don't know if Nan Bing likes rural girls. If he likes city people and doesn't like rural girls, I feel that the arrangement will be in vain."
"Looking at what you said, it seems that girls from the city are naturally better than girls from the countryside. I don't think these are important. As long as they have good personalities and get along well..."
Before his wife could finish speaking, Su Jianmin hurriedly interrupted: "You have wronged me!
In fact, I personally think that rural girls are simple, capable and hard-working, which is good, but Nan Bing has gone to high school no matter what, most rural girls are illiterate, and the cultural level is so different that I worry that the two of them will not be able to chat together.
Come on, I have nothing to say."
"Knowledge and experience can be accumulated slowly, and no one is born literate."
Bai Lu mentioned Huang Yuzhu, "Let's take Yuzhu, for example. She never went to school. She went to work in a factory at a young age, and ended up marrying a middle school teacher. How loving the two of them are? She is still very good at practicing.
Where are the words?
In short, I think character is the most important, and everything else doesn’t matter.”
Su Jianmin was persuaded by Bai Lu, nodded and agreed: "Yes, my wife, you are right, the key is to look at the feeling. If two people have compatible personalities and they see each other, it doesn't matter whether they have read or not.
"
After thinking about it seriously again, he slapped his thigh and made up his mind: "Well, in two days I will go to Captain Luo and ask if there is a more reliable matchmaker in the nearby village, and ask her to help introduce Nan Bing.
Object recognition recognizes.”
While the couple was chatting privately, Hua Wenli and Xie Shuting on the first floor were also chatting among girls.
"Wen Li, I'm so envious of you. You have a brother who you grew up with and who treats you so well. Even if the two of you are tacit, you still know each other's feelings for you, unlike me..."
Xie Shuting curled her lips, "I originally wanted Wennian to apologize to me, but now it seems that it's better not to offend him. He probably really thinks that Liu Changping and I are more suitable, but I really don't want to give in. Why doesn't he like it?"
And me?"
"Shu Ting, maybe you should give Su Wennian some time. The time you two have known each other is too short. He doesn't know you well enough. In fact, you don't know him very well. You suddenly confessed to him. I think he may have been attracted by you.
I was scared, so..."
Before Hua Wenli could finish speaking, Xie Shuting shook her head and said: "He was not scared by me!
I think he must have noticed that I am interested in him. After all, I always stand at the entrance of the village waiting for him. Unless he is a big fool, how could he not understand my thoughts?
This time I confessed to him. Although it was Liu Changping who suggested it, it was actually me who wanted to pierce the window. I wanted to know if he liked me at all, but he looked at me so coldly.
"
Recalling Wen Nian's eyes at that time, Xie Shuting still felt her heart tremble, "How could someone's eyes be so cold? There was no surprise, no nervousness, no panic...
There is nothing, it’s like talking about something that has nothing to do with you.”
"Speaking of which, compared with his two brothers Xiaosi and Xiaowu, Su Wennian's personality is indeed relatively cold. When the Su family laughs and chats on weekdays, he always sits quietly aside and rarely joins the conversation.
Listen silently."
Hua Wenli recalled, "According to my observation, he seemed to be more talkative when he was with Jin Bao..."
"You mean, his coldness is not just for me?" Xie Shuting asked.
Two people slept on the same end of the bed, talking face to face.
Hua Wenli nodded, "Yes, he is even more distant from me. He basically didn't say more than two words when we met."
Seeing that Xie Shuting was in a better mood, she comforted her: "Some people have a cold personality and need to be covered slowly to cover up the heat. To be honest, I think you and Su Wennian are a good match. You both have the same appearance and height."
They match, standing together is particularly eye-catching.
In addition, your personalities complement each other very well. He is more cold and you are more hot. I don’t think you should be so discouraged. As long as you are not so eager for success, get along with him slowly and let him get used to you being by his side. Maybe one day he will
I can’t help but start to miss you.”
"Really?" Xie Shuting raised her smile again, "He really..."
Before she could ask the question, the smile on her lips suddenly froze, "Hey! Ke Wennian is working in the town's Propaganda Department now, how can I get along with him slowly? If he is in the village, I can still find various ways to get along with him.
All kinds of excuses to pester him."
"It's true. It takes him several weeks to go home for vacation, and you can't go to town often to find him..."
For a moment, the two girls fell into silence. Xie Shuting grabbed Hua Wenli's arm and said tangledly: "Wenli, what do you think I should do now? Obviously before, I was still thinking that Wennian didn't like me, and I didn't
Don't like him, but I really can't let him go.
Who else can I marry besides Wen Nian? I have never liked a man in my whole life. I fell in love with him at first sight and fell in love with him again. If I want to find another person who makes me worry so much, it is impossible.
Is it possible?"
Hua Wenli didn't know how to answer her question, so she hesitated for a while and said: "Why don't you have a good chat with him and ask him what he thinks about you? Is it impossible for you to have a relationship at all?
If he says that it is absolutely impossible for him to be with you, then you have completely given up on this idea. If he is hesitant and can't answer, it means that you two have a chance, and you don't have to give up on him right away, what do you think?"