Chapter 647 It feels like a blind marriage and a mute marriage
When the Su family returned home, Aunt Xu had been sitting in the living room waiting for a long time.
When she saw them coming back, she ran forward anxiously, "Have you seen anyone? Do you like them or not?"
At this point, before Su Nanbing could answer, she smiled again and said, "Am I right? Ah Xiang has big and bright eyes like your sister, and she loves to laugh very much. She is very lovable just by looking at her.
"
Su Nanbing said deliberately: "Her eyes are not big, but I think her face is quite big."
"Ah? Face? Ah Xiang has a round face, but it's not too big, right?" Aunt Xu said while thinking, "She has bangs. You may not have seen her forehead. Her forehead is particularly full, which is good for fortune telling."
People say that her appearance is very attractive..."
Bangs? It seems that Jin Bao and Mom guessed right. The person who gave them eggs was indeed A Xiang.
When Su Nanbing thought of this, he lowered his head and glanced at the egg in his hand. The girl with a sweet smile and arched eyebrows asked him to reach out to her. To be honest, he didn't hate her...
To be more precise, he felt that she made people want to get closer.
Seeing Su Nanbing's slightly lost look, Aunt Xu smiled and said, "Look at you looking like this, I like you!"
After saying that, she immediately struck again while the iron was hot and said: "I will go to Axiang's house tomorrow to propose marriage to you, and ask the bride's family to send relatives to your house to make arrangements. How about it? If you don't have any objections, I can leave first."
"Ah? Wait..." Su Nanbing suddenly came to his senses and hurriedly grabbed Aunt Xu, "Wait a moment! I haven't thought about it yet. Give me a few more days to think about it."
"Oh, I've seen each other before, why haven't I made up my mind yet?"
"I only met her once and spoke a few words, but I don't even know her..."
Aunt Xu smiled and said: "After you get married, you will have a lifetime to get to know each other, no less than these few days."
Jinbao was a little dazed when he heard this, and hurriedly pulled on Aunt Xu's sleeve, "Grandma Xu, what did you mean by what you just said? After the woman's relatives come to see you, if they agree, then what? It won't be
Just get married right away?"
"Not so soon. There will be a casual meeting after the appearance. Usually the parents and relatives of both parties come to my matchmaker's house to sit down, drink tea, chat and communicate with each other. Of course, the two young people can also take advantage of this.
Let's talk when we get a chance.
If the two families have no objections after this casual meeting, the next time they meet it will be a big one."
Su Jianmin and Bai Lu both asked curiously: "What is the big meeting?"
"It's an engagement! The two children are generally not allowed to see each other again before the engagement. However, during this period, the parents have to have a good discussion about the bride price and dowry. This must be written down on red paper, and they must also talk to high-ranking officials in the village.
The old man is giving his testimony.
Engagement is a big day with lots of rules. We are very particular about it. It is almost as lively as a wedding. Once engaged, Axiang will be considered a member of your Su family and will change to call you parents."
When Aunt Xu finished speaking these words in one breath, Su Jianmin and Bai Mianmen looked at each other, both a little dumbfounded.
Su Nanbing was even more startled and said in surprise: "What? This is no different from a blind marriage. It's like two strangers getting married. No! I can't accept it! I thought a blind date means two people know each other.
, and then get along for a while, which in our words is love, yes, fall in love for a while, and then get married if we get along..."
"Oh! Look at what you said, you are a grown man and it doesn't matter. If an innocent girl falls in love with you and you turn around and don't want her, what will she do? How will she see anyone in the future?"
Aunt Xu shook her head and said to Sunan Bing: "Thankfully, I told Axiang's parents that you are decent-looking and a soldier in the army. You must be very responsible. I didn't expect that I was mistaken. You
I just want to play with other girls."
"Why are you talking like that?" Bai Lu said angrily, "Of course my Nan Bing has a sense of responsibility. How could he want to make fun of others?"
"Grandma Xu, you have misunderstood my second brother. We lived in Jinghai City before, and blind dates are different from yours. We were friends first, and it took at least a few months for us to get to know each other before we started talking about marriage. You are here
It’s really too fast.”
After listening to Jin Bao's words, Aunt Xu's previous anger was mostly gone.
She took the initiative to apologize to Bai Lu first and said: "Sister, my tone was a little harsh just now, I apologize to you, but this is the rule here.
After all, the village is different from the big city you lived in before...
In big cities, where the place is big, if a girl falls in love with someone and then falls in love again, no one else knows about it, right? Our rural areas are small, if someone has a trivial matter like sesame seeds and mung beans, the whole village will immediately
knew.
Let’s talk about having sex with someone. A girl named Wang from Yankou Village next door had sex with her partner in private. She only told her parents when her belly became pregnant. Now that the child is three or four years old, she still can’t hold her head up in the village.
Come on, the whole town is making fun of her..."
Speaking of this, Aunt Xu patiently said: "Well, think about it carefully, there is no need to rush this matter.
Anyway, I think that girl Asiang is really very good, and she is a good match for your second son. I am not trying to earn your matchmaker red envelopes by talking nonsense, I really think so.
You also saw someone today, okay? You have a strong sense in your mind. I know all the girls waiting to be married from all over the country. I will just say this today. I can’t find the second one even if I hold a lantern in the whole town.
It smells good."
Seeing that Aunt Xu had said this, Bai Lu was quite sincere, so she didn't get angry with her anymore and sent her away first.
When she got home, she glanced at her husband and then at Nan Bing, "Nan Bing, I didn't expect blind dates in the village to be like this. I thought that after both parents agreed, two people could have a normal relationship. I didn't expect that they would get married directly.
.
This is also my fault, I didn’t ask clearly first..."
"No, no, no, how can I blame you? It's my fault. It's my turn to ask."
Just as Su Jianmin was about to take the responsibility on himself, Su Nanbing interrupted: "It has nothing to do with your parents. The new society has advocated free love for so many years. Who would have thought that blind marriages are still practiced in the village now? I didn't expect it either.
ah."
After listening to their conversation, Su Xiaosi couldn't help but stepped forward and asked curiously: "Second brother, you saw Axiang today. What does she look like? Is she as good as the matchmaker said?"
"She...is pretty good..."
"If Ah Xiang is really a nice person, it doesn't matter if we get engaged directly," Su Xiaosi expressed her thoughts, "Like the eldest brother and the eldest sister-in-law got married two days after confirming their relationship. Who stipulates that they must fall in love before getting married?