"There's no point in just being anxious about this kind of thing. It has to be done by fate. There's no need to be anxious."
Aunt Hui replied that she was not interested in telling this sister-in-law too much about her daughter. She asked about her nephew Fan Qingbai's marriage, "Let's not talk about Hua'er for now. Qingbai now has an official position and is not young at all."
, has your sister-in-law chosen a marriage for him?"
"not yet."
Aunt Hui said to her, "How old is Qingbai? You haven't chosen a marriage for him yet. Do you want him to be a bachelor or something?"
"I don't mean to think about it, but I'm always dissatisfied when I look at it," said Mrs. Fan.
How could Aunt Anise not know her thoughts? She wished she could find a fairy to match her son.
She's not saying that it's not a good idea to choose. Marrying the right wife is extremely important and you can't afford to be careless. But her sister-in-law definitely wants to marry someone high.
He said: "You can let go of your family background. The most important thing is that your character must not hinder Qingbai."
Mrs. Fan disagreed, "How can family background be unimportant? Family background is the most important thing. If you can marry a noble daughter, then the in-law family can also recruit a son-in-law, right?"
"With the Marquis of Yin's Mansion and His Royal Highness the Crown Prince here, Qingbai's official career does not need to rely on his maternal family. Sister-in-law, please don't be confused."
Although this was a good statement, Mrs. Fan still felt that her son was a disciple of Emperor Yu Yue Longmen, so how could he marry someone from such a shabby family?
She must be a noble girl, so she can bring her out when the time comes, and her face will be bright!
Marry a daughter from a poor family and it will be embarrassing for her to take her out!
Looking at her expression, Aunt Anni knew what she was thinking, and said: "Anyway, you have to choose Qingbai's marriage partner when marrying a virtuous wife. Don't choose a troublemaker in the end. No matter how high your family status is, it will be useless."
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"Don't worry about it. Even if you can't trust me, you still can't trust me and my mother. Although I'm picking people, in the end I have to agree with my mother. I'm not the only one in the family.
Forget it, especially the eldest daughter-in-law of the Fan family."
Hearing her words, Aunt Hui smiled and said, "It's all for the good of the Fan family anyway, you can discuss it later."
With her eldest brother and her mother looking after her, she was not afraid that the sister-in-law would be deceived and arrange a marriage for her nephew.
Mrs. Fan brought the previous topic back, "When will His Royal Highness and the Crown Princess come back? I sent the Crown Princess a secret recipe for giving birth last time. If the royal ones don't work, you can try the recipe I sent.
I'm not bragging, my neighbor's family has several sons at one go! If Hua'er can do that, oh, it would be really stable, even a shovel can't pry her out of position!"
Aunt Fennel, "..."
Fan Yuxiang, who couldn't get in the conversation at all, said, "..."
Aunt Fennel also left mother and daughter to have lunch.
At the dinner table, Mrs. Fan didn't stop talking about Fan Qingbai's errand.
The general meaning is that Yuzhou is now undergoing a major liquidation. How many positions will be freed? Can you arrange for your son to go there?
Aunt Hui was speechless, "Qingbai was only released last year. Things have just stabilized. We haven't accomplished a few things yet. You want him to go through the back door?"
"Don't I want to change the environment? He went to that place and heard that it was very poor." Mrs. Fan said.
"I only have a nephew named Qingbai. From now on, the Fan family will have to rely on him to support the family. Don't I know how to think about him?"
"I know you love him, but..."
Aunt Anni didn't want to hear her say any more, "Stop being so stubborn. Sister-in-law, I'm not telling you, you'd better not get involved in officialdom matters. The water inside is deep. Let Qingbai start from scratch, step by step, like this
Only then can we walk steadily and steadily, and we must not do anything to encourage the growth of the family. The Fan family cannot withstand the hardships, so we must move forward steadily."
Her natal family relies on her nephew to support her family. Aunt Fennel has no son herself, so she values her nephew as much as she does her son. Of course, she cannot let her nephew go astray.
She doesn't know much about officialdom, let alone her sister-in-law.
She could still have Lord Yin tell her something, but how could her sister-in-law have heard about it?
However, she was afraid that her sister-in-law would mess up, so she still revealed, "When the right opportunity comes, if Qingbai has the ability to take it, he will naturally be promoted."
Mrs. Fan did not take this to heart, and couldn't help complaining on the way back, "I keep saying that I love Bai'er as my son. Look, when I asked the helper to find a good job for Bai'er, I just gave him a lot of excuses and said I don't understand."
, she actually understands!"
"What my aunt said is actually correct. My eldest brother has just taken up the post. He has to have seniority and no qualifications. In the officialdom, he is at best a young man who has just entered the field. Even if he is promoted, the people below him will not be convinced, and they may have to use
A stumbling block, let the elder brother fall hard." Fan Yuxiang said.
"Is this really true?" Mrs. Fan was stunned.
"My aunt also wants the best for the Fan family."
Mrs. Fan then said: "Then how long will your eldest brother have to wait until he can make his mark?"
"That's what being an official is like, let alone being an official, even if you are doing business, isn't it? Who can do big business right away? The elders in the family have to teach and impart experience, and then slowly start from small businesses.
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This metaphor is very easy to understand. Mrs. Fan’s natal family was in business.
"Yes, yes, you are right, that's what it is." She nodded repeatedly.
Fan Yuxiang looked at her mother, "Mom, do you feel it? My aunt has never thought of letting me enter the prince's mansion."
Mrs. Fan said: "How could it be?"
"What do you mean by what my aunt said at the dinner table? I want you to find my in-laws as soon as possible!"
Mrs. Fan told her to just rest assured, "Your brother's marriage is related to the family inheritance. I don't care, but you are my daughter. I want to decide your marriage and no one can interfere! It's useless even if your aunt says it!"
After saying that, he snorted again, "I don't think she has any sense of crisis yet. Just wait. When everyone outside knows that His Royal Highness is well, then there will definitely be a huge crowd, three floors inside and three floors outside, all from high-end families."
My dear daughter, see if she wants you to help at that time!"
Fan Yuxiang whispered: "Mom, don't worry, we haven't seen His Highness the Crown Prince until now. We won't know until we see it with our own eyes."
She didn't want to hand her over to be tricked for the rest of her life without even meeting the person and not knowing whether he was round or flat.
"I know, but it's been so long since I went to Yuzhou. King Yu and the others are on their way back to Beijing. Why haven't they come back yet? Is the Peach Blossom Mountain in Yuzhou really that beautiful?"
"I heard it was like a fairyland." Fan Yuxiang was also a little envious.
"Your father said before that he would take me to live there for a while and wanted to write a peach blossom poem for me." Mrs. Fan's face showed shyness.
"But dad has never taken you there until now." Fan Yuxiang poured cold water on her face expressionlessly. She really didn't want to see her mother's pretentious gesture.
"What do you know? Your father is so busy, why don't you understand him at all? How dangerous is it to run around for a big family? He lost a lot of weight last time he came back. Is it easy for him?
