Xiaodouzi fell into a brief thought after listening to her mother's answer.
I thought that although there are friends and classmates who are reluctant to leave in the current school.
But since I moved into a new home with my parents.
Seeing that her parents have to get up at least an hour early every day to send her to school.
The hard work of the parents makes the little guy feel bad inside.
How to choose?
Xiaodouzi felt that this question was so difficult for a while!
I really want to throw this problem directly to my parents to worry about.
However, Xiaodouzi is more worried that her parents will never ask for her opinion again.
Just like A Shuang's parents, any decision is never discussed, but simply and rudely informed.
Ah Shuang has no choice but to passively accept the fulfillment.
So Xiaodouzi has such parents, which is something Ashuang envies her.
Think again and again.
Xiaodouzi slowly raised his head and looked at Li Xiangwen again:
"Dad, if this issue is not urgent, can I think about it for another two days?"
Li Xiang slightly looked a little anxious and said:
"Such a big thing does require more consideration. But..."
He wanted to actually handle the transfer matter within the time Xiaodouzi was considering.
In this way, Xiaodouzi can decide to go to school directly after transferring.
It won’t delay too many classes.
Zhang Ling immediately stood up, patted Li Xiang on the shoulder, smiled and agreed:
"Okay, then give Xiaodouzi two days to think about it. It's getting late, and we, Xiaodouzi, should get ready for school."
Li Xiang quickly said to Zhang Ling:
"Ling'er, wait a minute, how about asking Xiaodouzi to take a day off today?"
Xiaodouzi and Zhang Ling were both skeptical and asked at the same time:
"Why?"
"Ling'er, why don't you not know? You still ask!" Li Xiang said with a wink.
Xiaodouzi asked in confusion after seeing it:
"Dad, are you uncomfortable with your eyes or your face? This twisted expression makes me uncomfortable."
"I am..." Li Xiang subconsciously wanted to choose one of the two, but when the words came to his mouth, he felt something was wrong, so he looked at Zhang Ling and changed his words, "I feel uncomfortable."
How could Xiaodouzi know what Li wanted to express?
As soon as she said "but", Zhang Ling took over and said:
"Xiaodouzi, don't listen to your father's nonsense. He was just a little stuffed after eating. So he deliberately acted pretentious in front of us. Go and prepare your schoolbag and I will take you to school."
The reason why Zhang Ling decided to let Xiaodouzi go to school.
That was because Zhang Ling was helping her father prepare breakfast together.
I deliberately told my father all my concerns.
The father's suggestion is that children should not always be raised as flowers in a greenhouse.
Otherwise, it will be difficult for you to go through ups and downs when you grow up.
Even the school was affected by this vulgar news.
So for Xiaodouzi, at this time, the more true friends he can make.
This also helps Xiaodouzi grow.
Because the father saw that Xiaodouzi was not as fragile as they thought.
Of course, as parents at this time, they must provide psychological guidance to their children in a timely manner every day.
Li Xiang looked at Zhang Ling in disbelief and asked:
"Are you sure you want to do this?"
Zhang Ling did not answer directly, but looked at Xiaodouzi who was carrying a schoolbag with trusting eyes and said:
"We should all believe that she is strong in this kind of thing."
Because she saw that Xiaodouzi was able to live strong even after being abandoned by his biological parents.
This time, with them accompanying me, I believe my children can do it too!
"Mom, which one of you will send me to school today, together?"
Xiaodouzi would ask similar questions every morning.
The little one most hopes that they will send her to school together.
I feel that this is the only way to be happiest.
Most like a family of three.
But in fact, Zhang Ling and the others are always unable to be together due to various things.
After Xiaodouzi asked, without waiting for the answer, he walked lonely to the door.
No matter who sends her, someone will send her to school.
To Xiaodouzi's surprise, her parents said in unison:
"Together!"
Xiaodouzi looked back at them in disbelief and asked:
"Really?"
"Let's go!" The two said in unison.
Xiaodouzi returned happily, holding a pair of small hands with two big hands, jumping and pulling them forward while shouting:
"Great! Mom and dad sent Xiaodouzi to school together today!"
It feels like she wants the whole world to know her happiness.
Zhang Ling feels that their decision is indeed the right one!
The day's plan begins in the morning.
Your mood in the morning can affect a person's day.
She felt that Xiaodouzi was full of joy at first.
Then Xiaodouzi can maintain a calm attitude as much as possible when facing negative news.
This is the experience she once summed up.
Zhang Ling is more willing to believe that Xiaodouzi will be like her.
Along the way.
Zhang Ling and Xiaodouzi sit together.
I asked Xiaodouzi how many good friends she has in school?
Explain that a friend is the person who reaches out to help you out of trouble when you are lost.
It is a kind of fate to be able to meet each other, know each other, understand each other and become friends in the vast sea of people.
In the journey of life where people come and go, gather and disperse, and on their different life trajectories, it is a kind of luck to be able to meet each other.
He also took the initiative to teach Xiaodouzi to identify friends.
She temporarily divided her friends into four types for Xiaodouzi:
The first is to fear friends or criticize friends.
Such friends can strengthen each other morally and advise each other when they make mistakes.
The second type is close friends.
Advancing and retreating together, trusting each other in life and death.
The third type is close friends.
Such friends always compliment each other, and those who eat, drink and have fun together are fair-weather friends.
The fourth type is thief friends, and the basis of thief friends is interests.
When there is benefit, everyone helps each other; when there is no benefit or personal interests are harmed, they will not hesitate to kill each other.
Remind Xiaodouzi to make more friends of the first and second types when making friends in the future.
It is best not to make the third kind of friends and to make less of the fourth kind of friends.
She said this to remind Xiaodouzi of one thing.
Except for the first and second types of friends, let her just listen to what the other two types of friends say.
The main purpose is to prevent Xiaodouzi from being affected by negative comments from the outside world.
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Li Xiang listened to Zhang Ling’s explanation to the child.
He doesn't think she sent her children to school impulsively.
Now I am beginning to agree with Zhang Ling’s decision.
In order to blend in with their mother and daughter, he asked:
"Ling'er, I see you have such a thorough understanding of your friends. Then can you tell me what type of friend our relationship should be?"
Li Xiang currently hopes to be a constant friend, that is, a friend who will never leave him until forever.
Xiaodouzi also asked with interest:
"Yes, Mom, I want to know too."
Zhang Ling thought for a while and said with a strange smile:
"Friends of thieves."
Xiaodouzi and Li Xiang said in unison:
"What! How can you be a friend of thieves?"
Zhang Ling explained with a smile:
"Two people live together. Naturally, there are many conflicts of interest. The basis of thieves and friends is interest. When there is interest, we help each other, just like I came together for each other's interests from the beginning."
After hearing the explanation, Li Xiang felt a little helpless and said:
"Okay! It seems that I thought too much. I always thought..."
"What do you think it is?" Zhang Ling asked with a bit of curiosity.
Li Xiang said dejectedly:
"I thought...Oh, forget it, let's not talk about it."
He felt that saying it would only add to the jokes.
It’s better not to say anything.
Although Xiaodouzi did not understand what Zhang Ling said.
But the little guy really wants to understand.
So I deliberately asked Li Xiang for a while.
Li Xiang refused to answer Xiaodouzi because he was driving.
And passed this responsibility to Zhang Ling who was aside.
So the clever little Douzi began to introduce his friend's words and deeds.
Let Zhang Ling help give examples to classify all friends.
Ah Shuang is honored to be classified as the first type of friend by Zhang Ling.
However, Xiaodouzi was a little disappointed to find that she didn't have the second kind of friend.
Zhang Ling smiled and comforted:
"You don't need many close friends in your life, just one or two. Just like mom and your Aunt Yan Yuan."
Speaking of this, Zhang Ling remembered the text message she sent to Yan Yuan while eating.
She subconsciously took out her phone and looked at it.
He muttered with some disappointment:
"Is this lazy guy still sleeping? No, I have to make a phone call and ask."
Xiaodouzi on the side is still struggling with her mother's words.
Mom said we should avoid making friends with thieves.
But why does her mother say that she and her father are friends?
This may seem contradictory.
After thinking for a while, the little guy suddenly realized and said:
"Mom, Mom, I finally know. Is the relationship between thieves and friends the same as husband and wife? Just like mom and dad."
Xiaodouzi thinks that her mother wants her to have less gangster friends.
That means she's not old enough to make friends with thieves.
Because my mother has always believed that people of any age should do things of their age.
So Xiaodouzi admires his own cleverness.
Li Xiang heard this conclusion from Xiaodouzi.
On the side, he showed a wicked smile as if he was waiting to watch a show.
I feel that Xiaodouzi must be his strongest assist in pursuing Zhang Ling.
I believe this question will definitely change his reputation as a friend of thieves.
But what made Li Xiang a little disappointed was that Zhang Ling was not embarrassed by this.
I saw her reaching out and stroking Xiaodouzi's cheek, shaking her head with a smile and saying:
"No, my child, you are mistaken! The relationship between thieves cannot be equated with the relationship between husband and wife. The relationship between thieves I am talking about is limited to the relationship between you and your father. Do you understand?"
How could Xiaodouzi understand Zhang Ling's explanation with her experience?
So the child's head shook like a rattle.
Li Xiang then said with a bit of embarrassment:
"Ling'er, if you talk like this, Xiaodouzi will be completely stunned."
Xiaodouzi nodded in agreement when Li wanted to express her feelings.
Zhang Ling looked at the child's eyes that were seeking knowledge.
Although I can’t bear it, I don’t want to compromise because of this:
"Don't look at me like this. Xiaodouzi, you are still young, so it is normal not to understand. When you grow up, you will naturally understand."
Xiaodouzi curled her lips in dissatisfaction and muttered:
"It's this sentence again. When do we grow up in the eyes of our parents? It seems that we will never grow up."
The reason why Xiaodouzi can say these words.
That's because she was lucky enough to hear her teacher make similar complaints when talking to her parents on the phone.
Zhang Ling did not hear clearly what Xiaodouzi muttered.
I was just about to ask.
Unexpectedly, her call to Yan Yuan was finally answered.
So I could only ignore Xiaodouzi for the time being, and started chatting with Yan Yuan instead.
The call lasted less than five minutes, and she felt that Yan Yuan was not affected simply by analyzing the tone of his voice.
But she is still a little worried!
We specially made an appointment to have lunch together.
Yan Yuan agreed with some hesitation!
The hesitation made Zhang Ling feel more and more uneasy.
Under normal circumstances, Yan Yuan never refuses invitations to eat like hers.
Even Xiaodouzi on the side could tell that something was wrong with Yan Yuan.
He raised his head and said to her:
"Mom, is Aunt Yan sad?"
Zhang Ling indeed did not hear Yan Yuan’s sadness.
She asked with interest:
"Xiaodouzi, why do you say your Aunt Yan is sad?"
Xiaodouzi patted his chest and explained:
"Be careful! Because when I was listening to Aunt Yan speak, although I could hear her laughter all the time, I felt a faint inexplicable pain in my heart. I guess Auntie must still be sad about what happened yesterday morning."<
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Zhang Ling felt a little flustered in her heart.
It’s not that I’m worried that Yan Yuan is sad.
But I am worried that Xiaodouzi’s keen little heart will also feel the difference today.
But she hoped that this was just over-worry.
When the car stopped in front of the school.
Xiaodouzi thought that he had already predicted what Zhang Ling wanted to say?
Take the initiative to ask your parents not to get off the bus and give them a ride.
Insisting on getting off the car to go to school alone.
Watching Xiaodouzi running towards A Shuang waiting at the school gate.
Li Xiang opened his mouth and said to Zhang Ling:
"Ling'er, have you noticed that Xiaodouzi is different today from before? It looks like he has grown up a lot all of a sudden."
Why doesn’t Zhang Ling feel this way?
She suddenly felt heartbroken and unbearable!
Children of Xiaodouzi's age should be innocent and carefree, and should not be extraordinarily calm and sensible.
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Zhang Ling finally couldn't hold back and got out of the car.
Silently watching the two little girls disappear at the school gate.
At the same time.
Although Xiaodouzi did not look back at Zhang Ling.
But it's like she has eyes on the back of her head.
I have already seen Zhang Ling’s move.
The little guy couldn't help but said "thank you" to himself.
A Shuang on the side gave Xiaodouzi a candy, thinking that this sentence was meant for her.
So he said to Xiaodouzi very naturally:
"You're welcome! With our relationship, there's no need to say this."
Xiaodouzi smiled and explained:
"This is not polite! My mother said this is attitude. It is the most basic attitude toward a good friend."
Ah Shuang heard Xiaodouzi say this.
The little girl's heart couldn't help but feel a warm current.
It made her feel very lucky to have a friend like Xiaodouzi.
And secretly made up his mind to become lifelong good friends with Xiaodouzi.
Look back to the car.
The two of them were silent for a while because of Xiaodouzi's sudden growth.
Li Xiang couldn't bear to see the sentimental Zhang Ling.
Thinking of changing the topic.
So I thought for a while and said:
"Ling'er, I heard that Shangguan Aoxue deliberately spread marriage news. Are you in trouble again at work? If there is something that can't be solved, I can help you."
Zhang Ling immediately recovered after hearing this.
Yes, the company still has a lot of trivial matters to deal with.
She said with a bit of anger in her eyes:
"Help me? Haha, as long as you, Zhihua Technology, don't cause any more trouble for me, you are already doing me a big favor."
People in the company are used to adapting to the changing circumstances.
Shangguan Aoxue announced their marriage, and Zhihua Technology sued them for a collective patent dispute, which indicated that their relationship had irreversible problems.
Therefore, those people in the group who were dissatisfied with her would follow the trend and act like a moth.
However, what puzzled her was that this time the group general manager did not add insult to injury.
She feels that this definitely does not mean that the group general manager has become a good person.