Respecting teachers and teaching has always been our tradition.
Master of the Lord of Heaven and Earth.
Although it is the object of Chinese Confucian sacrifice.
But it is also the traditional value orientation of respecting heaven and ancestors, being filial to relatives and obeying elders, being loyal to the emperor and patriotism, and respecting teachers and teaching.
These ideas originated from "Guoyu" and were formed in "Xunzi". They were quite popular in the ideological and academic circles of the Western Han Dynasty. Since the late Ming Dynasty, the belief in the emperor, the emperor, the emperor, the master, and the master has become even more popular among the people.
In the early Yongzheng years of the Qing Dynasty, for the first time in the name of the emperor and the country, the order of "Heaven and Earth, Lord, Prince, Master" was determined, and its significance was explained, with special emphasis on the status and role of "Master".
Confucianism, represented by Confucius, dominates. Confucius' status as the most holy teacher makes the entire society highly respect teachers and literati.
Here, the comparison between teachers and kings and relatives shows the high status.
The teacher is somewhat deified compared to heaven and earth.
In ancient times, people have always had the traditional thoughts of "teacher's dignity", "respecting the master and respecting the teacher", and "one day being a teacher and always being a father".
Respecting teachers has become a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.
Therefore, it can be traced back to the 11th century BC in the Western Zhou Dynasty's "The Lost Book of Mingsha Shishi - Taigong Tutors":
"When a disciple becomes a teacher, he respects his father, practices his ways, and learns his words. A loyal minister has no friends from abroad, and a disciple has good cultivation skills in Cambodia. Once he is a teacher, he will always be a father."
And in modern times that pay attention to equality between people.
Teachers and parents have equal status.
Students and teachers are equal in personality.
What is needed is mutual respect for personality.
Many students who pay attention to tradition maintain the tradition of respecting and loving their teachers and receive friendly and courteous treatment from their parents.
This is unmatched by the teacher-student relationship in Western countries.
It should be carried forward.
As a teacher, you should have self-respect, earn the love of students and the praise of parents by being upright and academic, and become a person who can be respected by students and parents from the bottom of their hearts.
Especially in today's materialistic world.
Teachers must resist the temptation of red envelopes and be honest teachers;
Care for all students and be a warm teacher;
Standardize students with rigor and be a strict teacher;
Educate people with excellent professional standards and become a high school teacher.
certainly!
It must also be mentioned that there are always some parents in society who do not have a harmonious relationship with teachers.
As long as there is a trace of inappropriate behavior by parents in the process of educating students.
Just like excessive language, physical contact, small corporal punishment, punitive homework, etc. are not harmful.
The parents were not tolerant and did not see the teacher's good intentions for education, so they sued the teacher and demanded that the teacher spend money to settle the matter.
In fact, this is what happened:
In physical education class, student A violated discipline. In order to control the situation, the teacher kicked the student, but the student was not injured.
But the parents refused to give up and harassed her unreasonably. Finally, the teacher paid 8,000 yuan to settle the matter.
There are many similar things, causing some teachers to become Buddhists, and the majority of children and families are affected by their education.
Confucius also mentioned in The Analects of Confucius:
"If you are a person of three, you must have a teacher from me; choose the good ones and follow them, and change the bad ones."
This sentence expresses Confucius' attitude towards learners.
It is also the attitude that all our contemporary students should maintain.
The sage believes that everyone has something he can learn from.
Therefore, you should learn from others anytime and anywhere.
At the same time, he also emphasized his respect and admiration for teachers.
Think of teachers as guides of knowledge.
Most importantly, you should have a respectful attitude towards them.
I would like to ask if the bad parents mentioned earlier who asked the teacher for compensation were respected?
If in this modern era, equality between people is emphasized everywhere.
If a teacher punishes a naughty child for the sake of education, he should be compensated.
So after parents usually get angry and start educating their children, do they also make corresponding compensation to their children?
If not.
The concept of being a teacher for a day and a father for a lifetime.
Then the parent who demands that the teacher compensates is absolutely unreasonable!
certainly!
Those who boast about a humane culture.
He will definitely talk about humanity.
By the way, it will ruthlessly trample on our Confucian culture that has been passed down for thousands of years.
They are all backward and dregs of ideas.
He also strongly rejects the idea that "once a teacher, always a father".
This supports parents' actions to demand compensation from teachers.
Everyone knows the preface in "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms":
"Speaking of the general trend of the world, if we divide for a long time, we will unite, and if we unite for a long time, we will divide."
This sentence shows that most of our history has been unified.
The major division occurred only during the Northern and Southern Dynasties.
The time of unity is far greater than the time of division.
What is the reason?
Mainly because our Confucian culture, which has been passed down for thousands of years, has strong national cohesion.
And among the Western countries that believe in humane culture, are there any big countries like ours that have inherited it for thousands of years?
The answer is definitely "no".
From this point of view, do those who trash Confucian culture still think that the humane culture they tout is more advanced and superior than Confucian culture?
Confucian culture can be passed down for thousands of years.
Definitely a good book.
It’s just that most of the people in power in our ancient feudal dynasties were crooked monks.
In the end, I just recited the Good Sutra incorrectly.
Some people may question that "Once a teacher, always a father" is not Confucian culture.
Not urgent!
Zhuangzi also said in "Zhuangzi: The Way of Heaven":
"A husband is filial, benevolent and righteous, loyal and faithful."
This sentence emphasizes the importance of respect for teachers and filial piety.
It means that as long as you become a teacher to others, you should always be respected and admired, just like your father.
Therefore, the origin of the saying "Once a teacher, always a father" can be traced back to Confucius's "The Analects" and Zhuangzi's "Zhuangzi: The Way of Heaven".
"Once a teacher, always a father"
This sentence tells us that we should maintain respect and admiration for teachers, as well as students' attitude towards learning.
As parents of students, we should respect and admire teachers.
Because teachers are the guides for your children to learn knowledge and moral cultivation.
They put a lot of effort and effort into your children's education.
in this case.
This is a great favor to your whole family.
As students, we should also be grateful to our teachers and respect their profession and personality.
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At the same time, this sentence also emphasizes the attitude towards learning.
Learning is an ongoing process and we cannot stop learning.
We should continue to study and think, and constantly update our knowledge and experience to adapt to the development of the times and the needs of society.
Finally, it also reminds us as a student.
You should always maintain a humble and enterprising attitude.
Only by continuous learning and progress can we truly become useful talents.
At the same time, we should always maintain our love and pursuit of knowledge.
Continuously expand your horizons and thinking.
To realize your own life value.
Back to business!
It is said that those who are close to ink are black.
The head teacher thinks that Ah Shuang has many problems!
Xiaodouzi and Ashuang are so close.
No teacher would ever say anything wrong about Xiaodouzi.
He often regards Xiaodouzi as A Shuang’s role model.
Encourage Ah Shuang to learn from Xiaodouzi.
This makes the head teacher very strange!
That's why I thought of using this method to defraud Xiaodouzi.
It can also be regarded as a contribution to leaving a good and responsible teacher.
And Xiaodouzi is no ordinary child.
How could you be so easily offended by the teacher's words?
Zhang Ling was very unhappy with the words and deeds of her head teacher.
She dared to suspect to her face that the little Douzi she raised was a bad boy with bad character.
That is tantamount to doubting her character.
She couldn't tolerate it and grabbed the head teacher and asked:
"Hey, as a teacher, you should use evidence when speaking to children. Don't you think it's too disrespectful of your identity as a teacher to say those things without any basis?"
The clever little Douzi seemed to have met a savior.
In time, she called Zhang Ling "Mom" with an aggrieved look on her face.
The head teacher seems to have ignored the mother-child relationship.
There are some words that can only be said by a mother to her child.
But if it were an outsider, it would definitely touch the mother's back scale.
The teacher suddenly understood the reason, and said with a hint of embarrassment on his face:
"Mother Xiaodouzi, don't be angry! It's my fault. It's all my fault for saying the wrong thing. I apologize to you..."
"Apologise to me? No need." Zhang Ling waved her hand and explained, "You hurt the child, not me. If you must apologize, then apologize to the child."
"To her?" the head teacher hesitated.
Because an adult apologizes to a child.
This is undoubtedly a shameful thing for her.
Xiaodouzi saw the teacher's hesitation, and said to Zhang Ling thoughtfully and with some worry:
"Mom, let the teacher apologize to me. This is not good. Otherwise, forget it."
The head teacher looked at Zhang Ling with some expectation in her eyes.
Zhang Ling said with a slight smile:
"Of course I can forget it."
The head teacher was a little excited and just said the word "I".
I would like to express my gratitude to Zhang Ling for her understanding.
But Zhang Ling then seemed to say to Xiaodouzi:
"But what? Being a teacher by example should not be something your teacher just talks about, right?"
The head teacher heard this.
She suddenly felt that the development of the situation was not good for her.
At this time, Xiaodouzi's eyes followed Zhang Ling and looked at the teacher.
Zhang Ling said to the teacher with a serious face:
"Teacher, in order to set an example, you will definitely not let it go easily. As for apologizing..."
Zhang Ling paused deliberately when she said this.
This is because I don’t want to give the head teacher extra time to think.
The head teacher showed an embarrassed smile and said:
"Yes, Xiaodouzi's mother is right. She is a role model for others!"
She still underestimated the IQ of a vice president of a group who manages hundreds or thousands of people.
She was playing tricks in front of Zhang Ling.
That is simply showing off in front of Guan Gong.
She could only admit defeat and apologize to Xiaodouzi.
The words of apology rang in Xiaodouzi's ears.
And the words of forgiveness were already on his lips.
Xiaodouzi couldn't say anything.
A somewhat worried look appeared on her face.
Do not misunderstand!
Xiaodouzi is not afraid of retaliation from her head teacher at all.
On the one hand, the social status of the parents is enough to act as a deterrent;
On the other hand, Xiaodouzi’s intelligence and wit can be seen from the ideas he gave to Ashuang.
Maybe it's because this child is born with a kind heart.
So when I accepted the apology from my head teacher.
There were voices in her ears condemning her for being a bad child.
No, she is not!
Xiaodouzi suddenly raised his head and looked at Zhang Ling.
Zhang Ling's words that she was the pride of her parents sounded in my mind.
You must know that the darkness that is covered up will sooner or later be judged by the sun.
If that time comes, her pride in her parents' hearts will turn into their greatest shame.
Is this her way of repaying her parents for raising her?
No!
Since it is the pride of parents.
Then she must be a positive image.
That’s it!
The head teacher didn't wait for an answer for a long time.
He looked at Xiaodouzi with doubtful eyes.
She wanted to ask what the child meant?
Not like some scheming adults.
I'm thinking of using this method to get a handle on her as a teacher.
Sudden!
Xiaodouzi said with a somewhat self-blaming tone.
He admitted that he did advise A Shuang and asked passers-by to report the teacher.
Zhang Ling looked at Xiaodouzi.
The frightened heart could not calm down for a long time.
After the head teacher on the side heard the truth, only a fleeting joy flashed across his face.
Because this truth seems to have no effect at all.
First, it is impossible to find the stranger who Xiaodouzi said was playing the role of Ashuang's parent, and ask the stranger to withdraw the report;
First, if you simply use the truth to convince the leaders of schools or education bureaus, no one is willing to listen.
In other words, no one dares to believe that this is the truth.
They only choose the lesser of two evils.
Because the teacher was fired directly and according to the parents' request.
The negative impact is far less than maintaining a teacher.
After thinking about it carefully, the only way now is to ask A Shuang's biological parents to explain this matter.
But the head teacher found A Shuang’s biological parents.
It's a pity that they are on a business trip abroad and will not be back until a week at the earliest.
what to do?
The head teacher looked at Xiaodouzi again.
Xiaodouzi happened to express his little worries to Zhang Ling.
Zhang Ling didn't have time to answer.
The head teacher seemed to see hope, showed a kind smile, and spoke first to comfort him:
"Xiaodouzi, you are a good student if you have the courage to admit this. Don't worry, your mother will still be proud of you."
Xiaodouzi asked with a bit of joy mixed with a hint of worry:
"Mom, is this really the case?"
Although Zhang Ling was quite unhappy with the head teacher rushing to speak.
But he didn’t want Xiaodouzi to misunderstand, so he put on a happy smile and nodded and said:
"Well, Xiaodouzi's teacher is right! Mom will still be proud of you. Because your behavior of telling the truth just now is really great!"
The head teacher felt that the time was ripe and said:
"Xiaodouzi, it's like this! You see, Teacher XX is indeed a responsible teacher. I remember one time when you were sick and hospitalized, Teacher XX even took the initiative to go to the hospital to make up lessons for you."
"Yeah, there is such a thing!"
End of answer.
The feeling of self-blame in Xiaodouzi's heart became even stronger.
I feel that I have indeed done something bad in order to repay kindness with hatred.
The head teacher continued:
"Then I think Xiaodouzi doesn't want Teacher XX to be expelled from the school."
Xiaodouzi nodded and admitted:
"Xiaodouzi didn't expect that things would develop like this. Teacher, tell me. What do you want Xiaodouzi to do for Teacher XX?"