The point of concern is that it is different from adults.
To be honest, she still envied Xiaodouzi who had simple ideas.
At least there aren't as many worries as adults.
Zhang Ling cried sometimes and laughed again.
Xiaodouzi’s little mind really can’t figure it out.
Does this mean Zhang Ling is happy or unhappy?
to this end.
Xiaodouzi raised his doubts in front of Zhang Ling.
Zhang Ling just smiled and explained:
"If you don't understand it, don't understand it now. You will understand it naturally when you grow up."
Xiaodouzi thought to himself what adults say, "You will understand naturally when you grow up."
Growing up is really amazing!
As if he could handle any doubts she raised.
So deep in Xiaodouzi's heart.
Like most children.
They all want to grow up as soon as possible.
So that you can understand the true meaning of what your parents said, "You will understand it when you grow up."
I just hope that when the little guy grows up, he won't regret it anymore because of all kinds of troubles.
after!
Xiaodouzi finally came to her happy moment.
After listening to Zhang Ling's words of praise and encouragement to her.
After washing up with Zhang Ling as usual.
Then, go to bed and get ready for sleep.
At this time, Xiaodouzi will be possessed by a drama spirit.
Pretending to be afraid to sleep alone.
I have to pester Zhang Ling to tell her fairy tales.
It’s also strange!
Xiaodouzi didn't like the prince and princess in the story.
I don’t even like the inclusion of angels and elves in the story.
Telling such stories will only make people have some unrealistic dreams and have no meaning.
On the contrary, I have a special liking for local traditional virtue stories.
For example: Chengmen Lixue, the seven-year-old teacher, Zilu borrowing rice, etc.
Telling stories like this can help her learn how to behave.
Although I don’t know what Xiaodouzi learned from the stories he has heard.
But Xiaodouzi listened very carefully every time.
From time to time, he would ask questions that even Zhang Ling could not answer for a while.
For example, in the story of Zilu borrowing rice.
Why did Zilu borrow rice instead of noodles or other delicious food?
to this end!
Father Zhang Pengtian smiled and said to Zhang Ling:
"Judging from the fact that children like traditional virtue stories, Xiaodouzi and you are definitely destined."
Because Zhang Ling also liked listening to these traditional virtue stories told by her father when she was a child.
Listen to your father's words.
Zhang Ling's face was filled with a proud smile.
A while!
But she also thought that today’s education has completely copied the Western education system.
A trace of sadness flashed across her face.
Because most of the talents trained by copying the Western education system are thoughtless workers on the assembly lines in large factories.
The fundamental purpose is to serve capital.
But we have abandoned the private education that used to mainly serve the country.
The main task of private school education is to teach Confucian classics, cultural accomplishments and etiquette norms, and to train students to become qualified scholars.
The Western education system copied today completely ignores the traditional virtue and cultural education of students.
Only a small number of parents and family members who have the awareness of inheriting traditional culture can be allowed.
Appropriately, they will educate their children about traditional virtues and culture.
Because this kind of traditional cultural education is not systematic and comprehensive.
That's why some people who have not accepted the traditional virtue culture are allowed to do so.
They have a serious lack of moral integrity, have lost their basic feelings for home and country, and openly do the ridiculous thing of erecting memorial tablets for war criminals in temples.
There are even teachers who do not respect history and stand on the podium to whitewash the invaders.
Whenever these things happen.
Very few people investigate the root causes of these things.
Because the vast majority of people who have been educated by completely copying the Western education system don’t care about the root cause at all.
They only regard these news as after-dinner entertainment.
So what is the root cause of these outrageous things?
The reason is that many of us regard culture that has been passed down for thousands of years as a dregs of culture that must be abandoned.
They flatter themselves that the century-old Western culture is the essence of culture worth copying and learning.
As a result, the education system does not pay attention to the excellent traditional cultural education of the next generation.
Let more and more next generations lack patriotism.
In other words, what is the most important thing for a country to thrive for a long time?
The most important thing is not whether technology advances;
Nor is it whether the country has a strong economic system;
Not to mention whether the national defense force is strong.
It’s about whether the country’s mainstream culture has been sustainably developed and inherited.
Because a country can even ignore and forget its own inherited culture.
No matter how advanced technology is, it will become someone else’s wedding dress;
No matter how strong the economic system is, it will eventually become a thing of the past;
No matter how strong the national defense force is, it will ultimately be unable to withstand the internal infiltration of spies and betrayal by traitors.
Therefore, it is necessary for the modern education system to incorporate some private school education systems suitable for modern people.
That is, to teach traditional Confucian moral culture suitable for modern people and cultivate strong patriotism among Chinese people;
Teach basic etiquette norms suitable for modern people and regain the reputation of a land of etiquette;
The most important thing is to enhance the traditional cultural cultivation of Chinese people and effectively resist the invasion of bad culture (such as summer festivals).
As everyone knows, some countries that do not have their own cultural heritage have long been aware of the importance of cultural heritage.
That’s why there are countries that inherit the culture that originally belonged to us.
Such as; Dragon Boat Festival, kimchi, Chinese medicine, etc.
Shameless applications have become their cultural heritage and trademarks.
And what is our own attitude towards this?
The Spring Festival that I have inherited for thousands of years has lost the original flavor of the Spring Festival.
On the contrary, Valentine’s Day and Christmas in the West are celebrated as a lively event.
Do not misunderstand!
The meaning expressed here is not to prevent Chinese people from celebrating foreign festivals.
The main thing I want to express is that we should pay attention to our own cultural heritage.
You can enjoy the foreign festival with appropriate adjustments.
Don’t put the cart before the horse!
In the end, even we ourselves don’t know what the significance of traditional festivals such as the Spring Festival and Dragon Boat Festival is?
certainly!
Fortunately, Zhang Ling still has her father's strong support for Xiaodouzi's education.
Her father, Zhang Pengtian, helped educate Xiaodouzi about traditional virtues and culture.
This chapter is not over yet, please click on the next page to continue reading! As for those of the same age as Xiaodouzi, they may not be so lucky.
Finish the story!
Xiaodouzi then held Zhang Ling's hand and fell asleep quietly.
It’s been a long time!
I'm afraid that for Zhang Ling, watching her children sleep is also a kind of happiness.
It is the happiness of companionship!
Especially when I heard Xiaodouzi say sweetly:
"Mom, when you grow old, I will watch you sleep just like you do with Xiaodouzi now."
Although I don’t know whether Xiaodouzi’s words will be realized in the future?
But the moment she heard it, she imagined the accompanying scenes in her mind, and she was also happy.
Just like the companionship described by Xiaodouzi has already happened.
As the saying goes, he who is content is always happy.
This is probably a powerful sense of self-satisfaction as a mother.
So after thinking of these beautiful pictures, she had basically forgotten the troubles that happened today.
This is strange!
The mystery tonight is still so mysterious.
She originally wanted to talk to Mystery about what happened today.
I'd like to get some substantial advice from a mysterious source.
But the other party mysteriously said "good night" without saying three sentences to her.
This good night sentence is still surprisingly similar to Li Xiang's good night sentence pattern.
Zhang Ling could only give up temporarily.
There was a hint of disappointment on her face.
Still without thinking too much, he threw his phone aside and went to sleep.
Because I couldn't let go of the unpleasantness I had with Li Xiang at the dinner table for a while.
In addition, Muzi's related words kept popping up in my mind.
Not surprisingly, she suffered from insomnia.
…
The next day.
Today is a special day.
After a long time, the family of three held hands and went out together again.
The father finally breathed a sigh of relief as he watched the three people walking away.
Because the family atmosphere at the breakfast table was not good.
When Zhang Ling saw Li Xiang, she was extremely jealous as if she were an enemy.
Even a normal greeting in the past can smell a strong smell of gunpowder.
When Li wanted to get close to Xiaodouzi, who was a little confused, he asked in his ear:
"Son, look at mom's angry look. Who made mom angry this morning?"
The clever little Douzi glanced at Zhang Ling and explained:
"Dad, don't say you really can't tell. Mom, she seems to be angry when she only talks to you. I also want to ask dad how to make mom angry?"
Li Xiang pretended to be confused and continued to whisper:
"This... this dad really doesn't know! Xiaodouzi, if you know, please tell dad quickly, okay?"
After a night.
He failed to get any valuable clues from Yan Yuan.
I thought maybe the smart little Douzi should be able to learn something about Zhang Ling.
That’s why I thought of asking a little bit about it through Xiaodou.
Zhang Ling seemed to have guessed Li Xiang's intention.
Before Xiaodouzi could speak again.
She stepped forward and grabbed Xiaodouzi's little hand and pulled it.
Then he dragged him towards the dining table and said:
"Why don't you kid have any sense of time? Hurry and get breakfast on the table. If you keep lingering, you may be late for school."
certainly!
That's just an excuse.
Every time they deliver Xiaodouzi, they arrive at school more than half an hour early.
How can you be late so easily?
The main purpose is not to let Li Xiang find out a few words about Xiaodouzi from Xiaodouzi.
Just because Li Xiang didn't answer her question about her father last night.
No matter how rational a woman is, she will have emotional moments.
Zhang Ling occasionally showed her unhappiness emotionally.
That's understandable.
This is just like a clockwork that is wound up will eventually loosen up sooner or later.
Xiaodouzi naturally listens to Zhang Ling’s words the most.
He returned to the dining table obediently and ate the breakfast in front of him.
Li Xiang was left standing still for a moment, slightly embarrassed.
I was thinking about whether I could have breakfast with the two of them at the same table today?
Father Zhang Pengtian couldn't stand it anymore.
Living in a world where it is normal for women to have a little temper.
How can a man act like an idiot at this time?
So his father sighed and stepped forward to drag Li Xiang to the table himself.
He even looks like a seasoned emotional counselor.
He kept teaching Li Xiang the experience of coaxing women.
Especially on those special days of the month for women.
nature!
This also revealed Zhang Ling's secret to Li Xiang from the side.
Although these secrets are no longer secrets to Li Xiang.
Li Xiang still maintained a grateful mood and smiled at his father.
He then followed his father's wishes exactly.
No matter how much Zhang Ling resists next.
He would take the trouble to deliberately put food into Zhang Ling's bowl;
Enthusiastically help Zhang Ling scoop up a bowl of soup;
Cause some little trouble, some casual physical contact, etc.
It is not yet known whether Zhang Ling has a completely new view of him in her heart.
But his behavior has caused Xiaodouzi on the side to complain about Li Xiang's neglect of her.
However, Xiaodouzi always knows how to be satisfied.
Li wanted to give Xiaodouzi an omelette he was going to eat.
Xiaodouzi immediately smiled and shouted, "Dad, I love you so much."
school entrance.
Watching Xiaodouzi walk into the school gate.
The two then drove away.
Without Xiaodouzi in the car, the atmosphere felt inexplicably awkward.
It was like two strangers who had never met were forced to sit together.
Li Xiang was the first to speak:
"That Zhang Ling, the old patriarch said that the engagement banquet is still being held at his mansion. Let me ask if you have any objections?"
"got engaged!"
Oh my god!
A lot has happened in the past two days.
My brain seems to be a bit exhausted.
She actually forgot about this!
I haven't mentioned this matter to my father yet.
what to do?
Li Xiang looked at Zhang Ling's reaction and asked with some confusion:
"Look at your reaction. Are you ready to go back on your word?"
To be honest, when she learned that Muzi told her that she wanted fair competition, Li Xiang.
She was not confident enough to win over Muzi.
Last night I learned that Li Xiang seems to have a far better impression of Muzi than her.
So I did have thoughts of regretting it.
The main reason is that we don't want each other to live so tiredly.
But he was forced to sign that nasty contract with the old patriarch for Xiaodouzi.
She had no choice but to bite the bullet and fulfill her promise.
Human beings have always been a community of contradictions.
She fell into deep conflict over this.
So Zhang Ling said with a hint of helplessness and bitterness in her smile:
"How is that possible? Now that the old patriarch has spoken, what about me? I don't have any better suggestions. Then I'll just listen to your arrangements."
First of all, she suddenly realized that she had no right to regret for the time being;
Secondly, given her current family background, there is really no better place to choose;
In the end, she did approve of the engagement at the time.
Zhang Ling’s tutor would not allow her to regret at will!
So she could only choose to follow the old patriarch's arrangements.
Li Xiang then breathed a sigh of relief and said:
"That's good! I will ask the old patriarch to prepare it according to your wishes later."
Zhang Ling smiled and nodded and said:
"Get ready."
Just say it.
The car has arrived at the door of the office building of Zhang Ling's group.
As soon as I saw the car stopped, I couldn't wait to open the door and jump out of the car to escape.
I'm afraid that the longer she stays, the more Li Xiang will see her regretful thoughts.
However, in a hurry, I forgot to unbuckle my seat belt.
So I awkwardly sat back down in my seat.
Li Xiang took advantage of this time to take off her seat belt and spoke.
He only called out one name and stopped talking as if his gun had jammed.
Zhang Ling forced herself to look up at Li Xiangqian with a slight embarrassment:
"What's up?"
Li Xiang focused on Muzi's confession.
I thought about it for a long time last night.
We had already decided to confess in front of Zhang Ling today.
Maybe it’s because I feel that the current environment is really not suitable for talking about this matter.
So he immediately changed his mind and said:
"It seems like we haven't had lunch together for a long time. I want to make an appointment in advance to have lunch with you today."
Zhang Ling finished listening.
My mind began to quickly think of reasons for declining.
Li Xiang seemed to see her intention to refuse.
He then spoke again:
"I mean there are only two of us. By the way, let me tell you about the engagement process. And... and there is something special I want to say to you. I hope you won't refuse."
"One special thing?"
Zhang Ling already thought of something while retelling it.
Li Xiang probably wanted to express his final decision to choose Muzi.
never mind!
There is no way to avoid what is coming.
So Zhang Ling gritted her teeth and nodded and agreed to Li Xiang's invitation.