A story can earn Xiaodouzi's understanding for her.
This is also an unexpected surprise for Wu Man.
What else can be said?
Wu Man happily repeated what Xiaodouzi had just said, "Be happy".
When the air is filled with a warm and happy atmosphere.
My father said a little embarrassingly:
"What's weird! Zhang Ling, where is that girl Yan Yuan? I thought that girl would go home with us. But we still can't see anyone."
Speaking of Yan Yuan.
Zhang Ling definitely has a huge headache.
She also had thoughts about her father after meeting Yan Yuan tonight.
During the time of seeing off guests.
Yan Yuan, who accompanied her to see off the guests, also expressed that she wanted to go back with her.
But when I heard someone confessing to Chen Jian near the rockery garden of the residence.
Yan Yuan immediately disappeared impulsively.
Until the end of seeing off guests.
Zhang Ling's family said goodbye to the old patriarch and others and left without seeing Yan Yuan.
Just when Zhang Ling was anxious.
Yan Yuan called suddenly.
Said she had left temporarily.
Let Zhang Ling's family go back first and leave her alone.
Something happened!
What can happen?
Although Yan Yuan didn't make it clear.
But Zhang Ling basically guessed it.
Yan Yuan is just pestering Chen Jian again.
What can she do?
I wanted to open my mouth to persuade Yan Yuan a few words.
But Yan Yuan hung up the phone first, as if he had predicted her thoughts.
The engagement party has ended.
Presumably those who target her will temporarily calm down.
She doesn't need to worry too much about Yan Yuan.
Let's go with Yan Yuan for now.
So Zhang Ling now looked a little jealous and said:
"Dad, you are going too far. I am your daughter. I almost suffered a big loss tonight. I have never seen you caring about me, but you are very interested in Yan Yuan. I am not happy!"
The father's face was calm and he just glanced at Zhang Ling.
Not a word was said.
Zhang Ling pretended to be very annoyed and emphasized loudly:
"Dad, I'm saying I'm very unhappy! Did you hear that?"
The father then rubbed his ears and slowly said:
"I heard it, I heard it. I said you can't keep your voice down. Your dad and I are not so old that I can't hear you. Such a loud sound makes my ears buzz."
At this time, Wu Man took Xiaodou in his arms and said:
"Zhang Ling..."
Wu Man originally wanted to accuse Zhang Ling of not being a qualified mother.
He could actually yell at his father in front of his children.
This kind of teaching by words and deeds will probably spoil Xiaodouzi.
And Zhang Ling didn't give Wu Man a chance to accuse her.
He quickly changed his previous unreasonable attitude.
He said "Sorry" to his father with an apologetic expression.
Then he opened his mouth to explain:
"Dad, I just spoke in a bad manner. However, I just want to tell you one thing."
The father asked with disdain:
"Just tell me if you have anything to do."
Then, when he looked at Wu Man, he showed a somewhat ashamed smile and explained:
"There are still friends of yours here. What you said just now makes it seem like I am too domineering and always suppressing you and not letting you speak."
My father is still habitually very concerned about his image in the eyes of others.
Zhang Ling was even more annoyed by this.
He shouted "Dad" as a reminder.
Her father seemed to be even more angry than her.
I feel bad about Zhang Ling doing it in front of Wu Man.
Talking to him so rudely again.
So she looked at Zhang Ling and said the word "say" with an unhappy look on her face.
Zhang Ling said in a pleading tone:
"Please understand that we are a family. I see that you care about others far more than you care about your daughter. As your daughter, I will feel very uncomfortable inside, okay?"
The father seemed not to understand what Zhang Ling wanted to express.
He also forcefully said "I understand".
But then he explained his behavior:
"But can Yan Yuan be considered an outsider?"
Father did not wait for Zhang Ling to answer.
He was the first to answer:
"No way."
Zhang Ling just wanted to try to say the word "calculate".
But he hasn't said it yet.
The father continued to act somewhat sensational and said:
"That child has grown up with you. Since he lost his parents, he has naturally become a part of our family."
Zhang Ling asked loudly:
"what about me?"
Father still didn't understand what Zhang Ling asked?
She then explained:
"Dad, do you know that with your behavior just now, even Wu Man started to question whether I am your biological daughter?"
Dad finished listening.
He glanced at Wu Man with a look full of hostility.
That was because he disliked Wu Man for being too talkative.
But he didn't say a word to Wu Man.
Then his eyes turned to Zhang Ling, she shook her head with some disappointment and said:
"I really can't figure it out! You don't remember treating Yan Yuan as a family member. But it was you who proposed it in the first place. Now I have done what you wanted. Why are you unhappy again?"
Zhang Ling said with a wry smile:
"I want you to treat Yan Yuan as a family member. That's right!"
"and you……"
The father wanted to question Zhang Ling.
Now that she has admitted it.
So what else does she want to express?
And Zhang Ling seemed to have understood her father's question in advance.
So she continued what she said before:
"But the level of concern you showed for Yan Yuan today is not 'dang', it is clearly a family. I, Zhang Ling, have become that 'dang'."
Zhang Pengtian paused for a while after listening.
His heart was indeed touched a little bit.
But Zhang Pengtian is proud of being a father.
He will never be allowed to easily admit that he was wrong to his daughter.
So he pretended to be confused and asked:
"Have it?"
Zhang Ling said "Dad".
Zhang Pengtian once again asked Zhang Pengtian to pat his forehead and explain to Zhang Ling:
"Oh my, it seems that my father is really old. I have forgotten everything I just said. Forget it, forget it, I won't say it anymore. I'm afraid it will be embarrassing if I say it any more."
Just say it.
Zhang Ling heard that her father still cared most about his face.
Even if I understand the meaning of Zhang Ling's expression.
It was nothing more than wanting my father to lower his head and say "I'm sorry."
But the father feels that apologizing to his children is even more embarrassing.
So her father simply ignored her feelings.
He just left in front of her.
What's more, when we went home, we didn't get into the same car as Zhang Ling.
He clearly wanted to avoid Zhang Ling's further questioning.
She just wanted to continue to ask something persistently?
Wu Man grabbed Zhang Ling at this time and reminded:
"Forget it. I see that my uncle already knows his mistake. Just stop pressing him every step of the way."
Zhang Ling asked:
"Have it?"
Wuman went on to explain:
"Do you still want to ask your uncle to publicly apologize to you in front of outsiders? It would be too rude to do so."
Yes!
Only then did Zhang Ling realize what Wu Man said was rude.
He has absolute respect for his parents.
This is a virtue that has been passed down to us for thousands of years.
Since the introduction of free culture.
More and more parents and elders do not know how to respect themselves.
It also makes more and more young people not understand how to respect their parents and elders.
There are more and more selfish young people.
They are unwilling to take on the responsibility of supporting their parents.
For example, the news recently broke out that some rebellious children have done such a stupid thing as traveling thousands of miles and abandoning their elderly parents across provinces.
I don't want to take on the responsibility of raising my children.
For example, the tragic experiences of Xiaodouzi and Wuman.
Day by day I know how to be dissolute and just care about myself.
Pursuing absolute personal freedom,
The shallow true love that pursues the short-term pleasure brought by the body.
Just like the wife in the case of "16 years of marriage and 3 children who are not biological children".
Wife sees husband wants to stop raising daughter.
Instead, she accused her husband of being a beast, and it was in vain that the three daughters had called him daddy for more than ten years.
This is the terrible three views formed after pursuing absolute freedom.
In the past, there was also the crime of hooliganism in the law.
In order to conform to the so-called freedom and humanity advocated by foreign cultures.
After the crime of hooliganism was abolished.
Originally, there was still a final moral bottom line in society that could be restrained.
It is also because of the blind pursuit of so-called freedom and humanity.
Put down the moral constraints that have been passed down for thousands of years.
It was abandoned across the board as the dross culture that needed to be abandoned the most.
This has led to similar unhealthy tendencies becoming more and more rampant in society.
before.
What percentage of couples divorce because one party cheated?
Such cases are almost unheard of in a year!
Because the public order and good customs of the society at that time hated this kind of thing to happen the most.
Whenever something like this happens.
The party at fault for divorce because of cheating.
Not only must they be punished by law.
You will also be drowned in public spit.
It may even affect the job prospects of the at-fault party.
In this way, the victims of cheating marriages can be severely angered.
Now.
What percentage of couples divorce because one party cheated?
It's so much that it's probably more than the grains of rice you eat every day.
The party at fault for divorce because of cheating.
Not only can it be done in a high-sounding guise of pursuing true love.
Divorced amid praise from countless people.
You can also add considerable income to yourself due to divorce.
That is simply fame and fortune!
The victims of cheating marriages are even more deeply hurt.
In the end, I can only blame myself for being blind!
If, there are children involved in the affair.
That cheating marriage will be a life-long pain for the child!
It is said that the law's protection of minors is the most humane.
Could it be that deliberately hurting an originally happy child and then just saying a few words of comfort is the so-called protection of human nature?
Then it’s okay to not need this kind of human protection.
Those so-called experts say young people don't want to get married.
I simply thought it was just an economic issue.
Therefore, some property subsidy policies are always being introduced to stimulate young people to get married.
wrong!
This is a mainstream cultural issue advocated by society!
It’s not that today’s young people really don’t want to get married.
On the one hand, the cost of marriage is indeed very high.
The extremely free outlook on culture of most young people.
Let the stability of marriage be comparable to the stock market.
You must know that not everyone is born a genius in stock trading.
You can always be lucky enough to choose the right potential stock or hot-selling stock of your own.
Wrong choice!
Then a few drops of the limit will make you bankrupt.
I wonder how many people are willing to invest their entire lives in the stock of marriage over and over again?
What's more, marriage is not the stock market in the true sense.
The stock market is an opportunity to learn through trial and error.
even so.
The risks are still huge.
And many people can only choose marriage once in their lifetime.
Wrong choice!
There will be no possibility of turning around in this life.
Because financial subsidies are like a glass of water.
When young people get married, they are likely to get a load of firewood.
In the end, it was still dry wood that was burned away by the fire.
That is, what is left is a handful of ashes that cannot be seen if blown gently by the wind.
Wu Man is right.
This is the kind of thing that makes parents apologize to their children.
Perhaps in Zhang Ling's opinion, it was a common thing.
But for Zhang Pengtian, it was already a family scandal.
The so-called family scandal should not be publicized.
With his stubborn character, it is naturally impossible for his father to apologize to his children in front of outsiders.
Not even if there are no outsiders.
Because in the father's opinion, apologizing to his children is something that damages the father's family status.
She admitted that what Wu Man said was rude.
At the same time, if she continues to insist on forcing her father to apologize.
It is even more unfilial.
The so-called filial piety to parents.
That was when my parents were older.
It is filial piety to obey your parents' wishes as much as possible.
certainly!
Obedience here is not blind obedience.
My parents are older.
Obedience should be done with the main goal of helping parents provide for themselves in old age.
What happened between her and her father tonight.
Just judging from my father’s face and attitude.
My father really knew that he was wrong as Wu Man said.
There is absolutely no need for Zhang Ling to force her father to do anything.
Pushing him any further will only make his father feel bad.
It is often said that most people will become like children when they grow old.
That's because people are getting older.
Your sense of presence in front of your children will become weaker and weaker.
The old man has the stubborn dignity of an adult.
He will not directly express his innermost needs to his children.
That's why they use child-like behavior to attract their children's attention to them, the elderly.
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My father, Zhang Pengtian, must have had a similar mentality.
That is, his image as a stubborn old man who never admits his mistakes caused Zhang Ling to pay enough attention to him.
You must know that after Zhang Ling works.
In a real sense, I spend less and less time with Zhang Pengtian, my father.
When Zhang Ling was not officially in love.
Fathers can also go on a blind date to help their daughters.
My life was quite fulfilling and happy.
But when Zhang Ling and Li Xiangzheng established a relationship.
Zhang Ling excludes work time.
Most of the time was given to Li Xiang and Xiaodouzi.
And I spend even less time with my father.
So my father seemed to have nothing to do.
It's been a long time.
A father who lacks family care.
But he must not try his best to attract Zhang Ling's attention to him.
This makes their father-daughter relationship even closer.
This can relieve the feeling of loneliness in your heart.
During her communication with Wu Man, Zhang Ling realized that she had indeed ignored her father's feelings for a long time.
Then it would be a bit unreasonable for her to ask her father to pay enough attention to her.
Because as a child, she did not ask herself to pay attention to her father as she asked her father to.
Do unto others, do not impose on others.
Such a simple truth.
How could she forget so easily?
Zhang Ling also felt strongly guilty towards her father.
I thought that I must say "sorry" to my father when I get home.
However, this night was destined not to end easily.
Just when Zhang Ling and Xiaodouzi were getting into the car and leaving.
A stranger called her with Yan Yuan's cell phone.
It was said that Yan Yuan got drunk at XX bar.
Already drunk and unconscious.
I hope Zhang Ling will rush over to pick her up immediately.
XX bar.
She heard a little bit.
It's about half an hour's drive from here.
It had been less than an hour since Yan Yuan had left her sight.
In such a short period of time, Yan Yuan was already drunk and unconscious.
No matter how you think about it, it sounds weird?
Because Zhang Ling knew Yan Yuan’s drinking capacity.
That's a person who may not be able to drink even two kilograms of liquor with over 50 degrees of alcohol content.
There must be something fishy in it.
certainly!
These are just her personal guesses.
She still needs to go to the site to check it in person.