After hearing this, Zhang Ling followed Wu Man's wishes.
In a storytelling way.
Wu Man briefly told the story about their family of three.
Her story attempts to illustrate a theme for Wuman.
In other words, the two of them formed a happy little family mainly for Xiaodouzi.
Such a theme.
Definitely different from those most selfish adults.
People who abandon children as a burden in pursuit of so-called true love (or personal gain).
The better ones are abandoned in the hands of the children's relatives.
He was almost abandoned directly to an orphanage.
Those who are even more crazy will use various cruel abandonment methods to kill the child.
The cruel methods here include abortion!
If the child has the right to pursue and question.
They will definitely question their parents who abandoned them.
Mistakes you adults make.
Please tell me why we, the children, should have to pay for your mistakes in the end?
Some people smugly say that the current laws are humane enough for children.
I wonder if this kind of law that does not severely punish parents who harm innocent children can be considered humane enough for children?
No, that's just humane enough from an adult's perspective.
What if we think about it from the perspective of a child?
That is cruelty that affects a lifetime!
For example, a divorce case with children.
There is a conflict between parents.
I never thought about the children.
Sit down and resolve conflicts.
But selfishly in order to live the happy life they each yearn for.
divorce!
Speaking of which, today’s parents are really funny.
before.
When the mainstream blind marriage occurs.
Most parents can stay together until old age.
Even if there are conflicts in married life.
There will be many great parents too.
Even if there is no true love that modern people value.
Stay in your current marriage for the sake of your children.
Now.
Pay attention to the so-called free love.
Pursue what is called true love.
After choosing from thousands of people, they finally chose the one they liked.
Not long after getting married, he declared that the other party was not his true love!
So he had to divorce the other party at all costs.
I'm afraid they had already forgotten it at that time.
Forget when they got married.
They came together desperately for true love.
From marriage to divorce.
A person is still the same person.
Isn’t true love what you call true love?
No!
True love is definitely that true love.
It’s just the state of mind of most people.
It is no longer the same state of mind as before marriage.
That is, they forgot the vows they made to each other when they got married.
(Notice:
What this is talking about is a situation where two people in a marriage want to stay together until they grow old.
Except if at least one of the two people in the marriage wants to be a scumbag from the bottom of his heart.)
before marriage.
Two people for true love.
We can still do it for each other without hesitation.
Dedicate your love to each other.
And after marriage.
Most newlyweds and their families will live a trivial life.
We can no longer support our unrepentant devotion to each other before we got married.
That is, if one party's personal dedication cannot reach a consensus, it cannot be transformed into a dedication to their small family in a timely manner.
Then someone who is selfish and only wants to enjoy the selfless dedication of others.
Once you lose the enjoyment you had before getting married.
The resulting strong psychological gap.
There will definitely be an irreconcilable conflict with someone who directly contributes to their family after marriage.
People who just want to be selfish and enjoy the selfless dedication of others.
As a result, you will foolishly think that the other person doesn't love you anymore.
And then don’t think about how the couple will maintain their married life in the future?
People of all kinds want each other to continue to make selfless contributions to themselves.
If the other party cannot satisfy the selfish person's desires.
Then selfish people will forget the promises they made to each other when they got married.
In order to satisfy one's own selfish desires to the greatest extent.
Infidelity in marriage, which is euphemistically called for true love, has become a common occurrence.
In the end, their marriage can only go to ruin.
certainly!
If two people only want to be selfish and enjoy the other's selfless dedication to them.
So unless the two selfish people in the marriage have sufficient personal financial resources.
Can support and enjoy each other's selfless dedication to each other.
However, a marriage supported by pure interests cannot be considered happy.
Interests collapsed.
Most marriages will come to an end.
And two selfish people who just want to enjoy themselves appear in ordinary families.
Marriage will be short-lived!
Two people who originally got married for true love.
Is it really because we don’t love each other after the divorce?
No!
Rather, they are people who just want to be selfish and enjoy the selfless dedication of others.
They just don’t understand the true meaning of a happy marriage.
A happy marriage is two people who truly love each other and make selfless contributions to the family they have built for each other in order to live a happy life.
Notice:
If two people who truly love each other, when they are in love, their devotion to love generally affects two independent individuals;
So when two people who truly love each other get married, their dedication to love will escalate to the family they build.
There are many people who believe that marriage is the grave of love.
Now it seems that it is not accurate at all to say that marriage is the grave of love.
It can even be said that the ultimate egoist cannot enjoy a happy family.
Because this sentence mainly embodies the ultimate self-interested individual liberal thought.
A happy marriage often reflects collectivism.
That is, the family formed after marriage is a collective.
I want a happy family.
Then all family members must make their own selfless efforts for the happiness of the family like the eight immortals crossing the sea.
That is to enhance family cohesion as much as possible as mentioned in the previous chapter.
So I hope that the family I create after getting married will be infinitely happy.
Then the two people after marriage will have to change their ideas.
That is, abandon the idea of extremely self-interested individualism.
Resolutely transform into a collectivist mentality that can enhance family cohesion.
So whenever there is a person in a marriage who only understands personal enjoyment but does not understand dedication.
Such a marriage is destined to be unhappy.
When conflicts in an unhappy marriage cannot be resolved promptly and effectively.
Then more unresolved conflicts will continue to emerge in the marriage.
It's been a long time.
It was originally a family formed out of true love.
In the end it can only end up falling apart.
But true love is still that true love.
Just two people who really love each other.
At least one person doesn't understand the true meaning of a happy marriage.
So two people in an unhappy marriage are considered divorced.
The person who doesn't understand the true meaning of a happy marriage.
If you have never been able to understand the true meaning of a happy marriage in this life.
Then he always just wants to be the person who selfishly enjoys the selfless dedication of others.
It is only worthy of simply enjoying the feeling of being in love.
Not worthy of a happy marriage.
Even less worthy of entering the palace of marriage.
Because that will only mislead others and yourself.
So I ask such selfish people not to think about having children.
Because people who only know selfish enjoyment are not worthy of being parents!
Back to business.
Wu Man was deeply touched after listening to the story told by Zhang Ling.
This is far better than the cold words from the investigation.
The warmth is even more impressive!
If it hadn't been for the blink of an eye, I would have arrived at the group office building.
Wu Man also wanted to pester Zhang Ling to tell the story in detail.
For example, how Xiaodouzi refused to accept Li Xiang from the beginning.
In the end, he regarded Li Xiang as his only father.
And she, Zhang Ling, recognized Li because of what she wanted to do?
And many other similar detailed issues.
This actually made Wu Man, who was originally not curious, feel itchy.
Zhang Ling hasn't parked her car yet.
Sudden!
There was a rapid ringtone from the phone.
When you see the ringtone for an incoming call, it is Bieshanliu.
Zhang Ling had a bad feeling in her heart.
She mustered up the courage to answer the phone.
Bie Shanliu informed Zhang Ling in a panic.
If it's not possible, let them hide first.
right!
It's them.
Because the parties involved in the incident where the false remarks were made include Zhang Ling and Wu Man.
The entrance to the group's office building was almost blocked by gossip reporters.
Zhang Ling listened to Bie Shanliu’s good intentions.
Uncontrollable anger welled up in her heart for no apparent reason.
I really want to show up at the door of the office building immediately.
Find out the unscrupulous reporter who made false statements and bring him to justice.
Wu Man on the side saw that Zhang Ling looked ugly after answering the phone.
I have always been kindly admonishing you not to be impulsive.
Zhang Ling listened impatiently and said with a professional smile:
"It's okay, I'm fine. I'm just angry for a while. After that, it'll be fine. Let's go to work."
Wu Man said "Ah" in surprise and continued:
"Oh my god, I've been talking about my feelings for a long time and it's all in vain. Why do you still want to go to work? You're not afraid..."
Zhang Ling stubbornly interrupted Wu Man and said:
"It's not me who did the wrong thing. What am I afraid of? I don't believe it. Can those bastards really turn white into black?"
Wu Man persuaded with a wry smile:
"That's right! I admit that the truth will not change. But what many ignorant people believe will never be the truth. Instead, they are willing to believe the truth they want to believe."
Zhang Ling continued to say stubbornly:
"I just don't believe that lies have been told too many times. Can they really become the truth in the end?"
Wuman said:
"That's natural! As we all know, Qin Shihuang is an inhumane tyrant. But is Qin Shihuang really a tyrant?"
Zhang Ling asked doubtfully:
"Is not it?"
It’s not just Zhang Ling.
I am afraid that most people habitually think that Qin Shihuang is a tyrant.
Wu Man said with certainty:
"No, the reason why Qin Shihuang became a tyrant is because he offended most of the literati who compiled history books. Just like you have offended people who can manipulate public opinion now."
After listening to Wu Man's words, Zhang Ling stopped walking towards the office building.
Wu Man thought his persuasion was effective.
I just wanted to work harder.
Unexpectedly, Zhang Ling's stopped steps started to move again.
Wu Man was a little confused and quickly stepped forward to stop him and asked:
"Hey, Zhang Ling, wait a minute. Do you still not understand what I said?"
Zhang Ling said with a slight smile:
"I understand! But I still have to go to work. This is the basic attitude I can express when I lie to them."
Wu Man asked puzzledly:
"Why?"
Zhang Ling explained:
"If I didn't go, they would think I was afraid of their lies."
Wu Man asked:
"Are you worth it?"
Zhang Ling hesitated and said "it's worth it" calmly like a warrior rushing to the battlefield.
Wu Man was a little helpless.
But more than anything, I admire Zhang Ling’s character of rising to the occasion.
Therefore, Wu Man secretly made up his mind to do his best to protect Zhang Ling Zhou.
So she took the initiative to propose to Zhang Ling:
"Okay. Then I'll listen to you. I will risk my life to accompany you to work. However, you must follow me. I will protect you."
Zhang Ling clearly felt that Wu Man exuded a sense of security that only men can feel.
But she still questioned Wu Man and asked "why".
It was impossible for Wu Man to directly say that she was entrusted by the old lady of the lakeside cabin.
Instead, he thought for a moment and explained:
"We are friends. It is because of my actions that I have brought unnecessary confusion to your life. So I must take responsibility for my actions."
Wu Man did not wait for Zhang Ling to react to her words.
She had already taken the initiative to hold Zhang Ling's hand.
Move forward with vigilance.
From the parking lot, you can walk towards the door of the building.
Wu Man felt even more strange.
Didn't Bie Shanliu say that the entrance to the office building was blocked by gossip reporters?
This time period should be the peak period for work flow.
On the contrary, the closer you get to the entrance of the building, the less crowded you feel.
When passing a building that blocks the view.
Finally, we could have a clear view of the blocked door.
Wu Man suddenly felt an unprecedented surprise.
It's not that the entrance to the office building is blocked too much.
But the entrance is a little too deserted.
If Bie Shanliu hadn't called them before to remind them.
They may both suspect that they will not go to work today.
Because there are reporters blocking the door in front of the office building.
It is rare to see signs of people rushing to work.
Wu Man, who was the first to come back to his senses, pointed to the door in confusion and asked:
"Zhang Ling, are you sure that Bie Shanliu is yours? This is what she said about being blocked by reporters!"
Zhang Ling couldn't believe that Bie Shanliu was instigated to rebel so quickly?
That's why I came up with this despicable trick to deceive her into not letting her go to work.
Then……
Zhang Ling, who became more and more angry as she thought about it, pushed Wu Man aside and hurried towards the door.
Wu Man watched Zhang Ling pass by her.
It felt like the friction just now ignited the fuse of Zhang Ling's explosive gunpowder.
The countdown to the explosion begins.
Wu Man realized the seriousness of the problem.
Look at Zhang Ling's impulsive look.
If not, this will be a situation where you will injure the enemy by one thousand and lose eight hundred to yourself.
As a friend.
Wu Man couldn't just watch this happen.
So she quickly chased after him.
fine!
Li Xiang appeared in front of Zhang Ling like a descendant from heaven.
He smiled and said "good morning" first.
Zhang Ling was filled with anger towards Farewell Shanliu.
She didn't realize clearly why Li Xiang, who had never appeared in front of her originally, appeared again?
So he just glanced at Li Xiang in a hurry and continued angrily towards the door of the office building.
Li Xiang was a little confused and grabbed Wu Man who was following him and asked:
"Hey, what's wrong with you, Vice President Zhang?"
Wu Man explained anxiously:
"It's not that Zhang Ling thinks that Bie Shanliu made up the story about gossip reporters blocking the door to deceive her. Oh, I won't say it anymore, I have to..."
Li Xiang said with a smile that looked forward to being praised before Wu Man finished speaking:
"That Bie Shanliu was indeed right. There were indeed gossip reporters blocking the door just now."
Wu Man deliberately looked at Zhang Ling and said loudly:
"What! Bie Shanliu didn't say anything wrong?"
Only then did Zhang Ling stop and look back at Wu Man.
Li Xiang then looked at Zhang Ling and replied:
"Yes, I asked people to send away all the gossip reporters who blocked the door."
Wu Man pretended to be heartbroken and said:
"Oh, no! It seems we misunderstood her."
Li Xiang asked in confusion, "Who did you misunderstand?"
Wu Man briefly explained the misunderstanding about Bie Shanliu.
at this time.
Zhang Ling turned back to Li Xiang with a look of disbelief and asked:
"Is this the reason why you couldn't pick up Xiaodouzi from school early in the morning?"
Li Xiang smiled calmly and said:
"That's right! Those bastard reporters at the entrance of Xiaodouzi's school were also sent away early by my arrangements..."