In other words, Zhang Ling likes the feeling that Li Xiang takes her as the main one.
But I also somewhat dislike that Li Xiang has no principles to please her.
Because no woman has ever been born with the habit of relying on herself for everything.
No!
This statement is not accurate.
It should be that both men and women have behavioral thoughts of relying on others.
Because human beings are born with laziness.
That’s why there is such a thing as enjoying happiness.
The difference is that each person's degree of restraint from laziness is different.
certainly!
Zhang Ling is not the kind of saint who escapes the secular world.
So there will be a bit of laziness in choosing to rely on other people's behavior and ideas.
Perhaps this idea is too common.
A similar short video will be circulated on the Internet.
The mother in the video asked her teenage daughter about her life plans.
My daughter can open her mouth naturally and say:
"My life plan is very simple. If I can live to be 80 years old, first, let my father raise her until she is twenty."
The father on the side may be too doting on his daughter.
That’s why I asked with a happy smile and interest:
"Then what?"
The daughter smiled and continued:
"Then she will find a husband who loves her and get married before she is 20 years old. Then her husband will raise her until she is 60 years old."
The father looked at his daughter with wide eyes.
I thought he had raised his daughter for 20 years without any problems.
To a certain extent, children are debts owed by their parents in their previous lives.
So you need to pay it back in this life.
But the relationship between husband and wife is equal.
One party just wants to selfishly choose to enjoy without giving.
Then this kind of relationship between husband and wife is destined not to last long.
And the mother is hearing what her daughter is saying.
Not only did I not feel anything was wrong.
Instead, her face was filled with a smile of approval and she said:
"My daughter is still the smartest. Awesome!"
My daughter is not satisfied with such praise.
Smiling, he turned to look at his father and called "Dad".
Obviously, I also want to get my father's approval.
pity!
When I saw my father's face turned gloomy.
The daughter immediately showed some fear of being wronged and called out "Mom" for help.
But it seems that the mother did not notice anything unusual about the father and daughter.
Still following his own thoughts, he continued to say to his daughter:
"I remember you said you wanted to live to be 80 years old? That seems to be 20 years away."
The daughter’s eyes were full of confidence and she said:
"To show my love for my future husband, my children will support me for the next 20 years."
This logic is so simple!
Will this reflect the daughter's love for her future husband?
Obviously, these parents are very worried about their children’s education!
The daughter's mother didn't notice her husband's gloomy expression.
He still continued cheerfully:
"What if you live to be a hundred years old? What will happen to you in the next 20 years?"
When my daughter just wanted to express her point of view eloquently.
His father finally burst out and shouted "Shut up".
The mother and daughter were so shocked that they both looked at the man in confusion.
The daughter’s mother was the first to react.
Angry, he slapped his daughter's father on the shoulder blade and asked:
"Hey, you are so brave! How dare you yell at me in front of the child? Believe it or not, I will..."
The daughter's mother did not realize that there was something wrong with the three views she usually instilled in her daughter.
Now she still wants to rely on the pampering of her parents and elders.
Trying to threaten her daughter and ask her father to surrender to her.
Unexpectedly, my daughter’s father is unwilling to give in when it comes to educating his daughter.
Not only did he not apologize to his daughter’s mother.
Instead, he angrily accused his daughter’s mother of failing to educate her daughter.
But the daughter’s mother retorted without showing any signs of weakness:
"Hey, don't forget that you are your daughter's father. It sounds like you have no responsibility to educate your daughter."
There is absolutely nothing wrong with this statement at first glance.
But there is a big problem for the daughter's father.
The man looked helpless and said:
"I have the responsibility. But aren't you in control of everything in the family? Have you given me the authority to educate my daughter?"
The daughter’s mother glanced disdainfully and continued:
"You, a live-in son-in-law, still want the right to educate my daughter?"
This sentence is so natural.
For a moment, the daughter's father was angry and helpless.
First he said the word "you".
After a slight pause, he continued:
"You are confused! Do you know that you will harm the child?"
The daughter’s mother resolutely shouted “impossible”.
Then he said with a charming and confident smile:
"Because I raised my children the way my favorite XX idol did. How could I be wrong?"
The daughter’s father reminded him seriously:
"Don't forget the child's mother! That's XX. Can our daughter compare?"
The daughter’s mother asked with a bit of stubbornness:
"What's wrong with my daughter? Compared with children from celebrity families, does my daughter have missing arms and legs, or something else? Tell me!"
The daughter's father did not answer immediately.
I was a little helpless thinking that there have been some very popular programs on TV in recent years.
That is, a reality show similar to how celebrity families show how to raise children.
For a time, many brainless young people in real life followed suit.
But these young people have ignored a necessary prerequisite to imitate celebrities in raising children.
That means celebrities no matter how they raise their children?
These stars all have strong resources of their own.
This can be passed on to their children.
Such as, fame and money, etc.
And if ordinary people follow suit.
Without the support of strong family resources.
Not only will it make ordinary families who are not already wealthy even worse.
And it is more likely that the child will be easily raised to be a giant baby who is lazy and will never grow up.
Then there are the brainless ordinary people like my daughter’s mother.
Have you even forgotten what the purpose of variety shows is?
That is to entertain the public through performance.
So you see the concept of celebrities raising children.
It's very likely that it was performed just to attract people's attention.
For example, those blind dates, singing variety shows, etc.
The audience only needs to enjoy it while watching it.
If you really believe it.
That is really too naive.
Back to business.
So Zhang Ling said with a serious expression:
"You can change it. But I want to ask you, after you change it, will the meaning expressed be still your true thoughts?"
Li Xianggang said the word "I" and prepared to defend himself.
Zhang Ling waved her hand to signal her to stop talking.
She then reminded:
"Before I do this, I must remind you. I, Zhang Ling, hate lies the most! If you dare to lie to me..."
Li Xiang immediately said with a hint of panic:
"Needless to say, I am the one who understands you best. Don't worry, I won't do it."
What Zhang Ling wants is Li Xiang's "no".
So a bad smile flashed across her face and she said seriously:
"Tell me. I want to hear today how you will change it next?"
Li Xiang asked deliberately:
"Change! Change what? Zhang Ling, people really don't understand what you are talking about?"
Zhang Ling suddenly stood up and pointed at Li Xiang's nose and said angrily:
"You... Li Xiang, do you dare to pretend to be confused for me?"
Li Xiang also quickly stood up and said with an aggrieved face:
"No! I really don't know!"
Zhang Ling said with gritted teeth:
"Okay! You don't know, right? Then I'll remind you."
Li Xiang nodded and said:
"you say."
Zhang Ling reminded:
"Li Xiang, you just said that if I don't like your cooperation, you will change it according to my preferences. These are what you said."
She thought to herself if Li Xiang dared to deny it.
Then she must let Li Xiang taste everything Qi Diaozhe has tasted.
You can even try to use some fresh methods to punish Li Xiang.
For example, take away what Li Xiang cherishes most.
Because she had already expressed what she disliked before officially dating Li Xiang.
So Li Xiang's denial means knowingly committing the crime.
For those who knowingly commit crimes.
She has always been unyielding.
fine!
Li Xiang seemed to sense her seriousness.
So he immediately responded:
"That's right! I said those words. But Zhang Ling, don't forget."
"What did I forget?"
"The premise of what I said is that I change it according to your preferences. You didn't tell me your preferences!"
Zhang Ling stared blankly at Li Xiang and stopped talking.
She thought to herself that Li Xiang was definitely smart!
Even if he knows in his heart what her preferences are?
But now I have to pretend not to know anyway.
As long as she tells her what she likes.
Then he will say something against his will as required.
Then he can shirk it with a reason.
He said those words at her request.
If she is still dissatisfied in any way.
It's also her Zhang Ling's problem.
It has nothing to do with him.
After all, he is also a victim.
Think of this.
A relieved smile appeared on Zhang Ling's face and she said:
"Okay! Li Xiang, you are fine!"
Li Xiang thought that Zhang Ling was sincerely praising her.
So he naturally smiled and said:
"Thank you! I'm very good. I think this is the main reason why I can become Xiaodouzi's father."
Zhang Ling did not refute this.
Because for Xiaodouzi.
Li Xiang is indeed a good father.
So she subconsciously glanced at the time on her watch, waved her hand and said:
"No more talking. It's almost time. Shouldn't we take a look at Xiaodouzi before we go back to Wuchuan?"
Say it.
Zhang Ling then moved towards the suitcase.
Upon seeing this, Li Xiang immediately stepped forward and said:
"Wait a minute. Zhang Ling, no need."
Zhang Ling looked at Li Xiang standing in front of her with some displeasure and asked:
"Why don't you want to go? It's okay if you don't go. But please don't block the way. I must go."
Li Xiang shook his head with a hint of incomprehensible bitterness in his smile and explained:
"No. You misunderstood. Because I just received a message from Xiaodouzi. It was the child who asked not to let us go."
Zhang Ling first said "impossible".
Then he checked his cell phone suspiciously.
She didn't find any messages from Xiaodouzi on her phone.
This suspicion became even stronger.
She gestured to the mobile phone in her hand and said:
"I remember we agreed to meet again before we left yesterday. Xiaodouzi didn't let us go. How could I not know?"
Li Xiang frankly displayed Xiaodouzi’s information in front of Zhang Ling and said:
"If you don't believe it, you can take a look. Is this a message from Xiaodouzi?"
Zhang Ling reached out and took Li Xiang's cell phone.
Personally confirm that what Li wanted to show her was not a photo.
It was also confirmed that it was the message Xiaodouzi had just sent to Li Xiang.
She suddenly felt uncomfortable inside.
He didn't say a word to Li Xiang for the time being.
But I thought why?
She is Xiaodouzi's mother.
She is a mother whom I have known longer than Li Xiang’s father.
It depends on the degree of intimacy.
She should be closer to Xiaodouzi.
But why did Xiaodouzi inform Li Xiang about this but didn't tell her?
So Zhang Ling felt unbalanced no matter how she thought about it.
So she raised her eyes and looked at Li Xianggang resentfully, ready to vent her dissatisfaction.
Accusing Li Xiang of stealing the daughter who loved her most.
unexpectedly!
Li Xiang seemed to have already guessed what she was thinking.
So she quickly explained before she could speak:
"Zhang Ling, please don't misunderstand. It's not that Xiaodouzi didn't tell you about this. She has a reason."
Zhang Ling asked casually without thinking too much:
"what reason?"
Li Xiang thought to himself that he was not Xiaodouzi.
How could he possibly know the reason?
But when he looked at Zhang Ling's resentful eyes.
He didn't know anything originally.
at this time.
He seemed to know everything.
He showed a rather confident smile and explained:
"Oh, you forgot! Of course we are a family."
Zhang Ling inadvertently repeated the words "a family" and fell into a brief thought...
Li Xiang took the opportunity to continue:
"The other thing is because of uncle."
Zhang Ling suddenly woke up and asked:
"What does this have to do with my dad?"
Li wanted to say:
"That's because my uncle has always instilled in Xiaodouzi the idea of being diligent and thrifty. In addition, we have always been together. This child naturally thinks that telling me is equivalent to telling you."
Zhang Ling asked somewhat unconfidently:
"Then why is it not you but me who is 'equal'?"
This chapter is not finished yet, please click on the next page to continue reading the exciting content! Li Xiang emphasized:
"Zhang Ling, we are a family! Does it make sense for you to worry about this? It makes no sense!"
Zhang Ling said in a very firm tone:
"No! You're wrong. It means a lot to me."
Li Xiang subconsciously asked:
"What's the point?"
Zhang Ling explained:
"Wait a minute! Let me think about how to explain it?"
Li Xiang motioned to Zhang Ling to continue.
Zhang Ling thought for a moment and explained:
"Yes! Our situation is like some businesses we often encounter on the street offering buy-one-get-one-free discounts."
Li Xiang said "Ah" in surprise.
Zhang Ling was not affected and continued:
"Judging from Xiaodouzi's behavior, you paid for it, but I became the one who gave it away for free. This is not normal!"
Li wants to hear this.
I really can’t figure out why Zhang Ling described it like this?
But after thinking about it for a while, he said again:
"Zhang Ling, I understand. You mean that it would be normal if I was the one who gave it away for free. Right?"
Zhang Ling did not directly answer whether it was right or wrong.
Instead, he gave a different and vague answer:
"That's what you said. I didn't say that."
Li Xiang asked with strong curiosity:
"Then what do you mean?"
Zhang Ling explained:
"I mean you know. Before you became Xiaodouzi's father, I had been Xiaodouzi's mother for several years."
Li wanted to say:
"Then what?"
Zhang Ling said:
"In terms of intimacy, Xiaodouzi and I are closer. But the fact is completely opposite."
As she spoke, Zhang Ling's voice became a little more stern and she said:
"Li Xiang, please answer honestly! How did you take Xiaodouzi away from me? So that the child became closer to you."
That’s it!
Li Xiang finally understood.
Zhang Ling uses who Xiaodouzi sends a message first to judge who her child is closer to.
It seems that he used Zhang Pengtian as an excuse before.
Zhang Ling didn't listen to a word.
So he emphasized again with a helpless expression:
"Zhang Ling! It's hard to say this. I've said it before. We are a family. In addition, my uncle has instilled the idea of diligence and thrift in running a household in Xiaodouzi more than once. So you can't accuse me wrongly!"
Zhang Ling shook her head and said:
"Stop! Is that the reason you said? No."
Li Xiang also repeated the word "no" inexplicably.
He helplessly fell into brief contemplation again.
This is thinking of a reason that can convince Zhang Ling.