After completing the discharge procedures, I walked out of the hospital door.
Xiaodouzi didn't want to go back to the orphanage too early, and Zhang Ling happened to have nothing to do today, so she decided to take her child to Disneyland, which she had always wanted to go to.
Li wanted to know that raising children is a hard job, especially taking them to Disneyland is the hardest job.
So on the one hand, Zhang Ling took care of Xiaodouzi all night, and her haggard face made people feel distressed. He didn't want to see Zhang Ling suffer alone again;
On the other hand, my uncle had just revealed the relationship between the two of us last night, and we just needed a reason to enhance our relationship.
No matter how much he hated the daughter he picked up for free, he decided to go with Zhang Ling.
The old director had something to do at the orphanage, so he left after seeing her off.
In the previous conversation, Li Xiang had already stated that he wanted to accompany Zhang Ling, but Xiaodouzi seemed to have forgotten like a goldfish.
At this time, Xiaodouzi still looked at him with hostility and said, "Uncle, why don't you leave?"
"Xiaodouzi, you really want me to leave?" Li Xiang asked back.
Xiaodouzi grabbed Zhang Ling's hand like an adult, and stood in front of her with a bit of arrogance, swearing sovereignty: "Mom is mine. Uncle, even if you go with me, you won't be able to change anything."
Zhang Ling looked down at Xiaodouzi and smiled without saying anything.
Li Xiang glanced at Zhang Ling and said cheerfully: "Yeah, don't worry, Xiaodouzi, no one will compete with you for your mother."
Zhang Ling raised her head and looked at Li Xiang again, feeling a little incredible.
Xiaodouzi heard Li Xiang's answer and said with a bit of pride: "Well, seeing how sensible my uncle is, Xiaodouzi reluctantly agrees to let you go together."
sensible!
Is this word used in this place?
Li Xiang felt extremely unhappy when he heard this.
But he still kept his smile, came to Zhang Ling's other side, held hands and said, "Then uncle, for the sake of Xiaodouzi being so sensible, you should have no objection to taking his future wife to visit Disneyland together.
Bar."
Zhang Ling looked at the two of them helplessly and cursed:
When did I become your personal property?
"You...Mom, look, that bad uncle is cheating and bullying Xiaodouzi. Mom, you have to make the decision for Xiaodouzi!" Xiaodouzi angrily grabbed Zhang Ling's finger with one hand and gently pulled it, while pointing the other finger at Li Wanted to say
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"Ah?!" Zhang Ling looked at Li Xiang in embarrassment.
Li wants to remember that psychologist Robert Sternberg has a "triangle theory" about love.
He believes that all kinds of love are composed of three components: intimacy, passion and commitment.
The first component is intimacy: including passion, understanding, communication, support and sharing, which are common characteristics of love relationships.
Li Xiang deliberately put Zhang Ling's hand close to his face, and said coquettishly like a cat nuzzling its owner with its head: "Ling'er, your little flea was bullied by Douzi. You have to make the decision for the little flea!"
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It is said that no matter how close a lover is, there may be interpersonal estrangement, and verbal expression may cause deviations in understanding. Non-verbal communication becomes very meaningful at this time.
Therefore, Li Xiang prefers to approach physically first and enter the intimate zone of interpersonal distance (the chest extends 46 cm outward).
Because warm contact will bring people closer to each other spiritually.
She smiled and said "Oh" and looked at Xiaodouzi again.
Because of the word "little flea", Zhang Ling suddenly thought that Li Xiang next to her was her first love.
Because when I first fell in love, I also liked to do the "crush" movement the most.
My first love once said that a cat always rubs against you just to tell you that it is attracted to you.
So the cat wants to leave its scent on you, which is also telling other animals that you have been contracted by it.
This is the cat’s way of asserting its sovereignty.
It was also first love in disguise, announcing to anyone who came close to her that Zhang Ling was his.
When Xiaodouzi saw Li Xiang's behavior, she obviously felt that she was at a disadvantage because she had never done such an action like Li Xiang.
What made Xiaodouzi even more jealous was that her mother did not reject Li Xiang's behavior. Instead, her face was filled with a happy smile that she had never seen before.
"Mom!" Xiaodouzi cleverly followed Li Xiang's example and rubbed his face against the back of Zhang Ling's hand.
Zhang Ling looked at the big and small living treasures around her and really didn’t know how to deal with them?
So, at this time, she simply did nothing like the ancient kings, and with a sense of pride and enjoyment, watched her concubines competing for favor in front of her.
Li Xiang saw the clever Xiaodouzi and imitated him, but Zhang Ling never expressed her attitude.
He felt that now was the time to make a bigger move.
The second component of love is passion, which is mainly characterized by sexual arousal and desire, often in the form of sexual desire, but any strong emotional need that can satisfy a partner can be classified into this category.
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Of course, in Li Xiang's view, what is expressed here is to make ordinary life interesting.
The sense of ritual has become the best bridge to make life interesting.
Although his father had personally delivered Zhang Ling into his hands, Li Xiang, last night.
He still hasn't confirmed their relationship with a ceremony.
Watching the many strangers coming and going at the entrance of the hospital.
Li Xiang feels that this is definitely the best place to express passion.
"Zhang Ling, listen to me!"
A strong and powerful voice penetrated the dull sky, causing many pedestrians on the road to stop and watch them.
Zhang Ling glanced around at the strange looks and looked at Li Xiang who was pretending to be angry and said:
"Li Xiang, what are you doing! Don't you know this is a public place? It's so bad to be so loud all of a sudden."
Xiaodouzi seemed to have the ability to foresee things. He pulled Zhang Ling's arm, trying to prevent Zhang Ling from hearing the next words.
"Uncle is a bad person, let's leave quickly."
"Xiaodouzi, don't make trouble and be quiet."
Zhang Ling intuitively seemed to be looking forward to what Li Xiang was going to say next. She stopped Xiaodouzi's behavior with words.
Li Xiang continued loudly: "I, an ordinary person, have become a little bit special because I love you. I am so special that I dare to stand on the street and express my love for you."
Zhang Ling's cheeks instantly felt hot.
This is not the kind of feeling that makes you feel ashamed and want to leave immediately.
Rather, it is a feeling of happiness that is envied by many female strangers and that I particularly enjoy.
"I always felt that if I had the chance, I should be a qualified lover. The kind that is gentle, generous, considerate, etc. But from the first time I met you, I accidentally liked you too much. So I became childish and jealous.
What a nuisance."
Li Xiang pointed at Xiaodouzi standing next to Zhang Ling and continued to say loudly:
"Just now, I actually forgot that I was an adult. I hate that I would be jealous of the love you gave Xiaodouzi, which is far less than the love you gave me."
This expression caused heated discussions among many passers-by.
But in the end, he expressed his understanding of the jealousy Li Xiang said.
The last component of love is commitment, which refers to the determination to devote yourself to love and work hard to maintain it.
He felt that it would be more perfect if he complied and gave Zhang Ling some promises at this time.
"However, these are insignificant on the basis of my love for you. I, Li Xiang, would like to ask many passers-by to bear witness. Regardless of whether you accept my love for you or not, I, Li Xiang, will always be willing to work with you to raise Xiaodouzi.
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The passers-by who stopped to watch heard Li Xiang's impassioned confession. They all tried to persuade Zhang Ling to accept Li Xiang.
Xiaodouzi didn't want to see anything happen.
After what Li Xiang said, her little Douzi had an annoying father inexplicably.
The little girl habitually touched her earlobe and thought deeply.
dad?
Xiaodouzi silently recited this title in his mind.
She always felt that this title was weird to her, especially to Li Xiang, whom she found most annoying. It was even weirder and she couldn't say it.
After listening to Li Xiang's expression, and with the persuasion of many enthusiastic passers-by, Zhang Ling was excited to say something to Li Xiang.
Unexpectedly, Xiaodouzi got ahead of Zhang Ling, pointing at Li who was looking forward to him and saying, "Mom, Xiaodouzi just doesn't like this uncle!"
Zhang Ling seemed to have sobered up a lot because of Xiaodouzi's words.
Restraining the urge to accept Li Xiang, he leaned over and raised his hand to pinch Xiaodouzi's chubby little face and said:
"Son, if you really don't like this uncle, then mom can't take you to Disneyland."
Zhang Ling also heard about the hard work of visiting Disneyland.
The most important thing is that she is not completely sure that she can take Xiaodouzi for a day shopping safely.
"Ah!" Xiaodouzi looked at Zhang Ling in surprise and asked, "Why?"
Li Xiang heard this sentence as if Zhang Ling was speaking for her, and he quickly came out of the little girl's disappointed mood in Zhang Ling's reply.
He first looked at Zhang Ling, winked, then looked at Xiaodouzi and replied: "The reason is that you were too bad and did not go to the hospital in time. As a result, your current physical condition does not allow you to go."
"That's not right, but the doctor has said that Xiaodouzi is cured." The little girl defended herself, and then looked at Zhang Ling with some disappointment, "Is this another punishment from mother to Xiaodouzi?"
Zhang Ling just shook her head and said nothing, but Li Xiang continued:
"No, one punishment is enough! That's because although Xiaodouzi's body seems to have recovered, he is still very weak after the pain and suffering, and it is not suitable to go to Disneyland now."
This feeling of Li Xiang already knowing everything before she even opened her mouth and speaking out her thoughts endlessly was really wonderful.
She looked forward to having more of this kind of tacit understanding in the days to come.
Xiaodouzi continued to argue: "This is still wrong! Then why can mom let uncle accompany her to play?"
Li wanted to say: "This is because uncle can play behind your back if necessary."
"But mom can also..."
Xiaodouzi wanted to continue to refute Li Xiang's words, but she vaguely recalled in her mind that her mother carried her to see a doctor yesterday, and she was almost paralyzed from exhaustion after only walking a short distance.
Her mother took care of her for another night and she looked very haggard.
Li Xiang saw that Xiaodouzi had hesitated, and then pretended to be disappointed and said:
"Well, since Xiaodouzi dislikes uncle so much, he doesn't want to annoy anyone anymore. Then Zhang Ling, you should send Xiaodouzi back to the orphanage yourself. We have time..."
Seeing that Li Xiang was about to leave, Xiaodouzi suddenly said eagerly: "Wait! Uncle, wait a moment."
Li Xiang looked puzzled and asked, "What are you waiting for?"
Xiaodouzi took the initiative to grab Li Xiang, then stood in front of him solemnly and bowed and said:
"Uncle, please forgive Xiaodouzi for being rude just now. Xiaodouzi will apologize to you now. Uncle, I'm sorry! Please forgive Xiaodouzi for being rude this time, okay? Stay and go to Disneyland with us."
Li Xiang feels that Xiaodouzi will definitely have a future when he grows up.
This ability to weigh the pros and cons of a situation, as well as his outstanding ability to not stick to trivial matters and his super strong execution ability will definitely help the little guy grow up to become a master who will not suffer any disadvantages.
If Xiaodouzi can be educated and guided well, he will definitely become a great man.
Thinking of this, Li Xiang was full of expectations for Xiaodouzi's future.
Li Xiang did not immediately respond to Xiaodouzi's apology.
He deliberately said with a bit of anger: "Oh, forget it, there is nothing to forgive or unforgive between you and me. Xiaodouzi also wants to protect his mother. What about me? I just want to find a wife. It's really nothing.
conflict."
"Yes, no, uncle..." Xiaodouzi was anxious to go to Disneyland and panicked.
Li Xiang continued: "You don't need to say more. I know that Xiaodouzi simply dislikes his uncle. As an adult, uncle also understands. Don't worry, uncle will never make Xiaodouzi hate him again. Uncle will leave now."
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Seeing the sad look on Li Xiang's face, Xiaodouzi clearly felt that her persuasion was useless. She grabbed one of Li Xiang's hands with her rolling hands and shouted:
"Uncle, don't go! Mom, Xiaodouzi knows that she is wrong. Please say a few words of kindness to Xiaodouzi! Xiaodouzi really hopes that uncle will stay and go to Disneyland with us."
Zhang Ling suppressed the strong laughter in her heart, looked at Li and said: "Little flea, you are already a big man, don't make trouble like a child. Look how scared our little douzi is."
Zhang Ling said, pulling the little girl to her side, leaning over and taking out a piece of tissue paper, wiping the tears on Xiaodouzi's face.
"Okay, Xiaodouzi, I only agreed to stay because of your mother's words. Let's make an agreement first. When you get to Disneyland, you will not only listen to what your mother says, but also what I say. Otherwise, uncle
Will still go."
After hearing this, Xiaodouzi burst into tears and said with a smile: "Xiaodouzi promises to be obedient!"
For Xiaodouzi, as long as she can go to Disneyland today, she is willing to call Li Xiang daddy from now on.
Play, after all, is always the number one huge temptation for children!
If as children we feel that we no longer have any interest in playing, it can only be said that we have officially entered the adult world.
It’s not that adults don’t know how to play, but that in the adult world, play has never been the top priority.
After many twists and turns, they finally stood at the gate of Disneyland.
Zhang Ling suddenly smiled at Li Xiang and said: "I heard from Yan Yuan not long ago that there are rumors that couples will break up when they go to Disneyland in recent years. Li Xiang, do you think this is true?"
Li Xiang listened to Zhang Ling's expression and felt that it was more like hinting that they were already a couple.
For this reason, he said to her firmly with excitement: "No, I don't believe it! Because I prefer to believe another saying, that visiting Disneyland is a test for a couple's relationship."
"Oh, is there such a thing?" Zhang Ling asked with obvious curiosity.
Li Xiang continued with a smile: "It's just like we call the exam that combines literature, history, politics, and geography the Dali Comprehensive Examination, and the exam that combines mathematics, physics, chemistry, and biology is called the Dali Comprehensive Examination. So going to a large amusement park like Disney is the Dali Comprehensive Examination."
Love."
After hearing this, Zhang Ling said with an evil smile: "So if you go to Disneyland and your partner is dissatisfied with you, then shouldn't you reflect on whether there is anything you can't do well?"
