Zhang Ling felt obviously sorry when she saw the uncontrollable public opinion around her.
Mainly because Li Xiang is misunderstood even though he is not married.
And with her current awkward relationship with Li Xiang, she really has no right to accuse him of anything.
He is unmarried, she is unmarried, and no matter how romantic he is outside, it seems that it has little to do with her.
But the words could be said and the logic could make sense, but her heart could not calmly deal with this matter.
Or maybe she couldn't help but want to argue with him about this.
Yes, it's all because he is her first love substitute.
She reminds herself of this fact all the time.
Lest I develop unwanted feelings for Li Xiang due to too many assumptions.
Xiaodouzi’s arm was sore and uncomfortable due to playing with Li Xiang yesterday.
Now I have completely lost my strength.
He was forced to give up and continue beating Li Xiang.
But Li Xiang regarded the previous beating as a loving touch like a baby inadvertently raising its hand to express love to its parents.
So not only did I not take it seriously, I also treated it with enjoyment.
Xiaodouzi suddenly turned his head and stretched out his hand to Zhang Ling who looked solemn and said:
"Xiaodouzi has tried his best to vent your anger. Mom, can you stop being angry?"
angry!
Xiaodouzi's words made her heart suddenly tighten.
Children's perceptions are always the most acute.
So she realized that she was still angry because of the invitation letter Shangguan Aoxue presented.
She didn't want Li Xiang to know this, so she tried her best to put on a smile, shook her head to Xiaodouzi and said:
"Mom is not angry."
"real?"
She looked at Xiaodouzi's suspicious eyes. In order to show that she was not angry, she could only take the initiative to pull the woman's sleeves and remind her:
"Okay, okay, thanks for your kindness, sisters. I think Xiaodouzi's father should also realize his mistake. Just listen to me and forget it for now."
Reprimanding people is a hard job that requires both physical and mental effort.
Because that woman managed to make her curse words different.
The woman seemed to finally realize that she was tired, and most importantly, she was unbearably thirsty, and she was not given a glass of water to moisten her throat.
This reminder made him take advantage of the situation and stop immediately.
But in the end, he did not forget to advise Li to learn how to cherish the people in front of him.
Cherishing the people in front of you always sounds so light and sweet when you say it.
However, many people always like not to cherish the love of the person in front of them, and sigh when the person in front of them is completely alien to them.
Do you feel that you didn’t understand what cherishing was?
This kind of person is pitiful, pathetic, and most unworthy of sympathy.
Because people who truly realize their mistakes will never pretend to recall the past affectionately, but can truly cherish the people in front of them after realizing their mistakes.
If you meet someone who pretends to be affectionate like this and recalls the past in front of you, you will lament that you don’t know how to cherish the person in front of you.
When faced with such a person who pretends to be affectionate, please don’t use sympathy indiscriminately. Instead, you should scold him head-on.
Let them understand that cherishing the feelings of the people in front of them is not a matter of words, but that they should use practical actions to treat the people in front of them and do everything they do to love each other with their heart.
The woman no longer led the public opinion at the scene, and other passers-by who were carrying their heads on other people's shoulders left one after another when they saw that there was no good show. Li Xiang instantly felt that his body and mind were much more relaxed.
Eat during the day.
He winked at Xiaodouzi and told his daughter that it was time to go out for dinner together.
But the daughter picked up by Bai has not come back to her senses yet. She is still thinking about how to drive him away from Zhang Ling?
The brain of a child.
Unexpectedly, Zhang Ling didn't do as she expected and angrily drove Li Xiang away.
What’s more, I can’t understand why Zhang Ling took the initiative to stand up for Li Xiang.
A child is a child after all.
How can the relationship between husband and wife between adults be divided at any time?
I thought this was a house where children often get together to play.
Even if Zhang Ling and Li Xiang are not husband and wife in the strict sense, Xiaodouzi's feelings as a child must be taken into consideration first.
Secondly, the impact of the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife on each other's lives must also be considered.
The final step is to consider whether a clean and complete separation can be achieved.
This is the responsibility we owe to a family.
Nowadays, many young people are accustomed to being selfish. After getting married, they just want to be comfortable.
I never think that it is not easy for two people to meet, it is even more difficult for two people to fall in love, and it is extremely difficult for two people to finally come together and form a family.
Conflicts encountered in family life made them feel that they had suffered a bit, and they had to get divorced like children playing house.
It's okay if the couple has no children. The impact and harm caused by divorce to both families are bearable for adults.
If a couple already has a child, but they still want to divorce because of conflicts that can be resolved, that is the greatest irresponsibility for the child's life.
Some people say that they divorced because of irreconcilable conflicts.
What conflicts can arise between a couple that cannot be reconciled and resolved when they come together?
Except for the fact that your partner is the murderer of your family, is recognized as a heinous devil in society, and is a close relative you have not seen for many years, other conflicts can be reconciled and resolved as long as both husband and wife are willing.
I believe that there are no conflicts in the world that cannot be reconciled and resolved, there are only people who do not want to reconcile and resolve conflicts.
If you ever thought about how difficult it was for you to be together?
Thinking about the impact and harm caused to the loved ones of both parties after divorce;
I thought about the lifelong indelible impact and typhoid fever that a divorce would have on the child's body and mind.
…
You finally ended your marriage.
Then I can only say that your marriage is either destined to be inappropriate or you are a pair of irresponsible and selfish people.
Therefore, you will never understand a happy marriage. Not only must you have a heart that is good at discovering the elements of a happy marriage, but you must also have a heart that makes selfless sacrifices for a happy marriage.
Selfish people never deserve a happy marriage.
In the past, there were often TV shows and movies where children were abandoned by their selfish parents, and in the end the children forgave their selfish parents because of their blood relationship.
Perhaps such a cruel situation for children has led to many parents becoming more and more irresponsible towards their children.
Why do you say that such a plot is too cruel for children?
You allowed adults to abandon their children without any psychological burden, and in the end, you allowed the children who were greatly affected and hurt physically and mentally to forgive the parents who had caused serious impact and harm to them in the first place.
This is undoubtedly condoning the continued surge in the number of unscrupulous parents.
This is because people have given too much humanitarianism to malicious people, so people with evil intentions always continue to do evil without any scruples.
Because unscrupulous parents know that when they are old, their children will also look at their blood relationship and will not forgive them for their mistakes when they were young.
It is even more comfortable to accept a happy life in old age with children and grandchildren around the knees and filial children.
I would like to ask such parents, do you deserve to have a happy life in your later years?
Obviously, Zhang Ling thought that Xiaodouzi liked this makeshift family of three from the bottom of her heart.
She didn't want Xiaodouzi to have an indelible psychological shadow on the child's mind because of the breakup of the family of three.
Furthermore, being manipulated by that kind-hearted woman can be said to have seriously affected Li Xiang's life.
After all, she only wanted to treat him as a substitute for her first love, but she never thought of hurting him.
Naturally, she couldn't ruthlessly follow Xiaodouzi's idea and completely sever ties with Li Xiang.
at this time.
Many people had already left one after another. Zhang Ling raised her hand and glanced at her watch. It was still a quarter of an hour before 12 o'clock.
Because her daughter was complaining that she was hungry, the woman had no choice but to leave first with some reluctance.
Before leaving, I didn’t forget to ask Zhang Ling for her contact information.
He said he wanted to take his children out to play together when he had time.
Because of that woman's behavior just now, Zhang Ling's mood, which had been depressed for several days, temporarily felt much better.
However, despite the chaotic noise just now, no problem was solved.
She felt it was necessary to find a quiet place to talk.
By the way, a family of three sat together for a reunion dinner.
Yes, you read that right!
Zhang Ling's subconscious has already attributed Li Xiang to her family.
It's just that she has always been stubborn and unwilling to admit it due to the idea of a substitute for her first love.
There was still a bit of anger in her eyes. She glanced past Li Xiang's cheek and landed on the child in his arms. Then she showed a kind smile and said:
"Xiaodouzi, it's almost time, let's go out to eat together."
When Xiaodouzi heard Zhang Ling's call, he suddenly woke up like a dream, looked up at her, and saw that she was not on the same channel and said:
"Ah! Mom, Mom, Dad said that we, a family of three, are going out to have a big dinner together. He is treating us! Should we go?"
Xiaodouzi thought about it. Since he could not continue to implement the plan for the time being, he wanted to eat delicious food.
I can only follow what Li Xiang said before.
It can be regarded as gaining the image of a good girl from Li Xiang.
"Huh?" Zhang Ling and Li Xiang looked at Xiaodouzi strangely and said in unison.
The two of them were in such tacit synchrony and looked at each other. Li Xiang was filled with joy, while Zhang Ling's expression was full of disdain.
"Why do you want to imitate me?"
Li Xiang heard Zhang Ling's questioning and said with an aggrieved face:
"Does this count as learning to speak from you?"
"Huh?" Zhang Ling's eyes flashed with anger.
Li Xiang immediately changed his words and said:
"Okay. I admit that I imitated your speech. But you won't be mean to me for it in front of the children, right?"
She was trying to justify her somewhat ridiculous behavior.
Xiaodouzi, however, happened to be able to get ahead of her and asked in confusion:
"Dad, did I say something wrong?"
She didn't give Li Xiang a chance to speak. She stepped forward and touched Xiaodouzi's head, showing a kind smile and said:
"That's right! We Xiaodouzi will never say the wrong thing. Since your father is treating us to dinner, how about we go to the most expensive hotel in the city?"
"Great! We are going to the most expensive hotel for dinner." Xiaodouzi exclaimed on the spot.
It feels like I am afraid that my classmates and friends present will not hear me.
After Xiaodouzi finished speaking, he looked around and received extremely envious looks from many classmates.
As a result, Xiaodouzi felt the extremely happy moment of having parents.
She concealed a blunt knife in her smile and continued to Li Xiang:
"Let's go now that the child is so happy."
Looking at Zhang Ling's current behavior, Li Xiang immediately recalled the first blind date when Zhang Ling deliberately tested him and chose a seemingly high-end teahouse.
This time I made it clear that I was going to eat at the most expensive hotel in the city.
It actually felt like Zhang Ling was testing him again.
"Okay! Let's go." He said with a bit of bitterness in his smile.
This meal was beyond his normal budget.
He was a little embarrassed and wondered whether Li Xiang would pay for it.
Their family of three had just walked out of the school gate.
Li Xiang's cell phone rang rapidly.
He subconsciously didn't even look at the phone screen and greeted customers in the usual way.
The voice of Butler Muzi came from the receiver:
"Li Xiang, it's me."
"Oh, Miss Muzi!" Li Xiang glanced at Zhang Ling and said loudly as if he was afraid she wouldn't hear, "Is there anything important you need to do while on the phone?"
Muzi obviously heard the meaning of Li Xiang's words.
Li Xiang always calls him "Mu Guanjia" on the phone.
Muzi judged that the only possibility was that Li Xiang still had Zhang Ling by his side.
"Is Zhang Ling with you?" Muzi asked.
Li Xiang looked at Zhang Ling and said:
"Yes, she is right next to me."
Muzi said with an obviously happy tone:
"Oh, great! It's almost time to have lunch. I haven't seen my friend Zhang Ling for a long time. How about I treat you to the most expensive XX Hotel in the city for a meal?"
Muzi invited Zhang Ling and Yan Yuan to drink milk tea.
This incident became one of his best memories.
She always wanted to find a chance to meet Zhang Ling or Yan Yuan again.
This proactive invitation to dinner is considered a normal courtesy between friends.
"You said you wanted to invite Zhang Ling to dinner! Then I have to ask Zhang Ling what you mean." He said hesitantly.
Li Xiang didn't want anyone to come over and disturb the good time of their family of three.
Zhang Ling heard that Muzi wanted to treat her to dinner.
The scene when Muzi gave her a brooch suddenly came to mind.
To be honest, she really missed Muzi as a friend.
She felt that Muzi was very sincere towards his friends.
Everything goes smoothly when getting along with Muzi, and there is no need to worry about being plotted against.
She quickly grabbed Li Xiang's wrist holding the phone and nodded with a somewhat excited smile, asking Li Xiang to accept the meeting.
Muzi heard Li Xiang's reluctance and immediately explained:
"It's not like I'm just inviting Zhang Ling to dinner. That's it. I've already found someone to frame the message the boss gave you. I'm planning to send it to you personally. It's like inviting you two to have a meal together."
"Okay! Then I'll listen to you. We'll go there right away." Li Xiang had a trace of reluctance on his face.
But he kept convincing himself that it would be nice to have Muzi treat him to dinner, so that he wouldn't have to worry about overspending on the meal bill.
There is another reason why he actually wants to see what words the real Li Xiang sent to him?
Xiaodouzi asked curiously:
"Mom, who is Muzi?"
Zhang Ling touched Xiaodouzi's little face with a smile and said:
"Muzi, like your Aunt Yan Yuan, she is my mother's best friend."
Muzi clearly heard this sentence when he was about to hang up the phone.
Tears of excitement streaked across Muzi's face.
This is a feeling that I finally followed the doctor’s instructions.
I have successfully acquired a woman as my close friend.
Therefore, Muzi looked forward to this meal even more.
XX Hotel.
A small private room named Meiyuan.
Muzi was wearing a blue and white porcelain embroidered sleeveless cheongsam. Her black hair was braided into little-finger-thick braids, then rolled up and bound by a silver-white hairpin.
The hairstyle alone gives her a naughty look of a young girl.
A person leans slightly on the chair, swaying an elegant silk acacia fan in his hand, looking at the resentful and beautiful cheongsam woman in Dai Wangshu's novel from a distance. "Rain Alley"